Guests Episodes

March 26, 2024

95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano)

Inclusive representation in literature offers LGBTQ+ people a sense of visibility, validation, and connection as they see their experiences authentically mirrored, which fosters a more inclusive narrative for readers. While i...

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March 12, 2024

93. Unlock Financial Freedom (with David & John Auten-Schneider)

In today's complex and rapidly changing landscape of economic uncertainty and unexpected global events, comprehensive financial planning is more crucial yet intricate than ever. But for gay men, navigating resilient financial...

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Feb. 27, 2024

91. Fat and Fabulous: Embrace Body Positivity (with Matthew Simko)

For years, society’s sense of body image has been negatively affected by standards that often perpetuate unrealistic ideals and contribute to the prevalence of negative body image perceptions. Some gay men grapple with an add...

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Feb. 13, 2024

89. Beyond the Brawn: Redefining Queer Masculinity (with Erick DuPree)

Societal perceptions of masculinity are often rooted in traditional and restrictive norms, which can pressure gay men to conform to stereotypical ideals, leading to internalized homophobia, feelings of inadequacy, and a dimin...

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Jan. 30, 2024

87. Breaking the Binary (with Travis McMaster)

Within the many letters of the LGBTQ+ spectrum, non-binary individuals embrace identities outside the traditional binary of male or female, challenging societal norms and fostering a more diverse understanding of gender. Ofte...

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Dec. 19, 2023

84. Best of Guests (So Far): Part 2

Happy Holidays, my LGBTQuties! As the end of the year approached, it’s important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge g...

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Dec. 12, 2023

83. Best of Guests (So Far): Part 1

As the end of the year approached, it’s important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger found...

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Oct. 31, 2023

80. Queer Haunts: Happy Halloween (with Ralph Anthony)

Happy Halloween, my LGBTQuties! Previously, we discussed how queer themes have been depicted in horror for more than 250 years and that the genre has always been queer. In this episode, Ralph Anthony, host of the Scream Queer...

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Oct. 3, 2023

76. Finally Free (with Seth Showalter)

Conversion therapy is a discredited and harmful practice that attempts to change a person's sexual orientation or gender identity, often using psychological or religious methods, which can lead to severe emotional distress, t...

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Sept. 26, 2023

75. Sunday Dinners, Moonshine and Men (with Tate Barkley)

Previously, we discussed the complicated relationship gay men have with alcohol, which is shaped by diverse factors such as social acceptance, coping with discrimination, and navigating the intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and...

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Sept. 5, 2023

72. Recovering from Recover (with Adam Fitzgerald)

Previously, we discussed the complicated relationship gay men have with alcohol, which is shaped by diverse factors such as social acceptance, coping with discrimination, and navigating the intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and...

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July 25, 2023

66. Shoot Your Shot on Archer (with Michael Kaye)

While most gay dating apps aim to connect LGBTQ+ people with their community, it can still be challenging to make genuine connections which can lead to feelings of loneliness and rejection. The reality is most gay dating apps...

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July 11, 2023

64. 40 Single Gay (with Jonathan Lee)

As gay men, we may experience complexities surrounding modern dating and societal pressures that often place unrealistic expectations of romantic and personal fulfillment. So when we think we’ve found “The One,” what do we do...

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June 20, 2023

62. Let Go of Your Religious Trauma (with Eric Feltes)

Many gay men were taught that religion and sexuality are at odds with one another; either you're too gay to be religious, or you're too religious to be gay. As a result, we may have experienced religious trauma, leaving us fe...

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May 30, 2023

59. Say Bye Bye Bye to Bi Erasure (with Sam McClain)

Despite the letter B in LGBTQ+, many people, both within and outside of the community, tend to discount the experiences of bisexual people. This ignorance has resulted in bi-erasure, a pervasive problem in which the existence...

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