In their conversation, Angel and Yossef delve into the intersection of BDSM and Tantra, exploring Yossef's journey in these realms as a means of overcoming shame and repression. They emphasize the importance of boundaries and consent in BDSM scenes and challenge misconceptions about these practices. They discuss how embracing darkness and integrating all aspects of oneself can lead to healing. The role of power dynamics and archetypes in BDSM is highlighted, along with the potential for personal growth. They also touch on setting clear intentions in submission, the active nature of surrender, the psychology behind domination and submission, sensation kink, and how engaging in kink can increase resilience.
Conscious Negotiation: Taking control of your Submission
The Dominant as the Spaceholder, Not the one ‘In Control’
The Dominant Submissive Archetypes should replace Feminine Masculine Archetypes
Healing from Abuse through Conscious BDSM Scenes
The Intersection between Neo-Tantra and BDSM
The Flow of Conversation:
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
01:40 Journey into BDSM and Tantra
03:09 Dealing with Shame and Guilt
04:48 What Tantra is Not
06:42 The Welcoming of Shadows in BDSM
08:26 The Healing Power of BDSM Scenes
10:16 Exploring Dark Fantasies
12:22 Embracing All Perspectives
13:47 The Healing Power of Embracing Darkness
17:06 Misconceptions about BDSM
18:29 Setting Up a Scene and Avoiding Abuse
20:27 The Power Dynamics in BDSM
23:57 Embracing the Dark and Exhaustion of Perfection
25:14 The Impact of Patriarchy on BDSM
28:07 The Archetypes of Dominance and Submission
30:59 Craving What We Don't Have
32:48 Supporting Women in Dominant Roles
35:25 Setting Clear Desires and Intentions
36:23 Psychological Kink
38:40 Sensation Kink
40:57 Expanding the Window of Tolerance
41:56 Engaging with Yossef's Work
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