May all your characters find their stories

How would you coach someone to play a male character?

Clip from Season 2 Episode 8 of Characters Without Stories:

Natalie Marley brings Dewey Aberforth to the table. Dewey is an accidental folk hero and a selfish jerk who happens to have a wonderful aquiline nose.

Natalie and I discuss playing a selfish character without making your friends hate you IRL, how to play a man, and developing the confidence to take up space at the table and in the story.

This character is built for D&D 5e.