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Dec. 20, 2024

Brave heart

After a friendship loss, remember you are worthy of a genuine connection. There are women out there who will appreciate and cherish your authentic self. Your experiences have made you wiser, and the right people will recognize your beautiful heart. Find more encouragement by listening/watching episode 36 of the JUGGLING…

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Dec. 18, 2024

Fizzled Friendship

Have you ever wondered what happened to a once-close friendship that quietly fizzed out without explanation? The mysterious way friendships can dissolve leaves many of us with a lingering sense of uncertainty, wondering about the unspoken dynamics that transform a vibrant relationship into a distant memory. Special guest and author…

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Dec. 18, 2024

Silent Goodbyes: Understanding and Overcoming Friendship Loss | Ep. 36

Have you ever experienced the heartbreak of a friendship falling apart? Author Elizabeth Laing Thompson sits down with Vivian for a raw, heartfelt conversation about navigating broken friendships and finding healing through faith. Vivian shares her own story of losing friends after rededicating her life to Christ, as Elizabeth opens…

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Dec. 17, 2024

Unchosen

Have you ever felt that gut-punch moment when you realize a friend has quietly - or loudly - removed you from their world? Friends are the family we choose - and when they choose to walk away, it cuts deep. When someone decides you no longer fit into their life's…

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Dec. 13, 2024

Salvation over Sobriety

As mothers, we desperately want to see our addicted and wayward children sober—but God is after something deeper. Sobriety is only part of the story; salvation is the ultimate victory. Dawn Ward recommends not only praying for them to get clean but also praying for their hearts to be transformed.…

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Dec. 11, 2024

Loving Your Addicted Child Without Losing Yourself | Ep. 035

What happens when your child's choices threaten to destroy not only their life but yours as well? Author Dawn Ward shares her raw, personal journey of watching multiple family members battle addiction, including her own sons. As Vivian and Dawn dig into the realities of parenting an addicted child, they…

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Dec. 10, 2024

Worried to Death

As moms, we can worry ourselves sick over our addicted and wayward children—losing sleep, peace, and hope. But that’s not what God wants for us. He never intended for us to carry the weight of saving them on our own. God is calling us to trust Him, even when we…

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Dec. 9, 2024

Mama Knows Best

You’ve done everything. You’ve prayed, pleaded, and tried to fix it. But your child is still held captive by addiction, and it’s tearing you apart. As a mother, it feels impossible to let go—because Mama knows best, right? But what if holding on is exactly what's keeping you stuck? Letting…

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Dec. 5, 2024

He Adores You

This is a beautiful reminder. Wives often give their husbands the responsibility to make them happy and feel worthy and beautiful – and that is unfair. We are all human – both husbands and wives will fall short. But there is One who will never fall short – God adores…

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Dec. 4, 2024

Marriage Myths: What's Really Holding You Back? | Ep. 034

Have you ever wondered if your marriage would magically improve if your husband would just change? Author Rhonda Stoppe joins Vivian for a candid chat about the myths wives believe and shares powerful insights from her book. As Vivian opens up about her own journey learning to accept compliments from…

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Dec. 3, 2024

Low Expectations

“Our marriage is built on low expectations.” This comment is an inside joke between my husband and me after we remarried upon prior unwanted divorces. We tease that if we keep our expectations of the other low, we won’t be disappointed when we don’t measure up. It is all in…

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Dec. 1, 2024

Wives You are the Coach

Ladies, did you know that you are a coach for your husbands? That's right! You're guiding your partner towards better understanding and connection by openly sharing your needs and desires. Honest communication is the playbook that can transform your relationship, helping your husband become a more attentive and supportive teammate.…

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Nov. 29, 2024

The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free | Ep. 033

What happens when a search for love leads down an unexpected path of deception? Author Stacey Szczepanski joins Vivian to share how being catfished set her free to develop a deeper relationship with God and herself. Through vulnerable storytelling, Vivian and Stacey explore the hidden dangers of online relationships, the…

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Nov. 29, 2024

Are you Committed

This is so good! Relationships require us to be committed. How committed are you? JUGGLING LIE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins Episode 33: The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free Watch on YouTube – listen everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. #committed #committedtolove #godlovesyou #friendship #bait…

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Nov. 27, 2024

The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free | Ep. 033

What happens when a search for love leads down an unexpected path of deception? Author Stacey Szczepanski joins Vivian to share how being catfished set her free to develop a deeper relationship with God and herself. Through vulnerable storytelling, Vivian and Stacey explore the hidden dangers of online relationships, the…

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Nov. 25, 2024

Healing from Relationship Trauma

How do you heal after relationship trauma? Take small steps. 1st Step: Know and Believe you are never alone – God is always near What is step 2? Listen to this clip from special guest Stacey Szczepanski of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins– then be sure…

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Nov. 24, 2024

Unlocking Love after being Catfished

Unlocking Love After Being Catfished !! Episode 33: The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free !! Merriam-Webster defines the term ‘catfish’ as someone who sets up a false personal profile on a social networking site for fraudulent or deceptive purposes. My guest on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING…

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Nov. 22, 2024

Whatcha Want Me To Do

Staying true to our identity means prioritizing and saying no at times and letting God’s wisdom, not others' expectations, guide your "yes" and protect your "no." Check out this clip then head over to my YouTube channel or FB page for the full episode of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE…

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Nov. 21, 2024

Being instead of Doing

Confession! Some days, I am guilty of “DOING” more than “BEING”! But I am getting better at it! I have learned that God delights in who we are, not what we do. Our worth isn't measured by our accomplishments but by His unconditional love – He created us to be,…

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Nov. 20, 2024

Me, Myself, and We: Identity Protection in Relationships | Ep. 032

Have you ever felt unsure about your identity? Do you ever fall into the trap of defining yourself by your accomplishments, titles, or by the company you keep? On today’s episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast, Vivian is joined by Angela Pitnikoff, a wife, mother, and Christian life…

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Nov. 19, 2024

How Much More

God's love for you is personal, unique, and overflowing with possibilities you haven't even imagined yet. He wants a one-of-a-kind relationship with you, where every blessing is perfectly tailored to your heart's deepest desires and needs. Listen / Watch this clip and then join us TOMORROW (11/20/2024) on the JUGGLING…

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Nov. 15, 2024

What Gets Recognized - Gets Repeated!

I love this Reel! Hebrews 10:24 - "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds." Couldn't say it better myself! Check out the full episode: JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins Episode 31 – Servant Leadership: Leading Others with Love…

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Nov. 14, 2024

Let The Light Shine Through

Yes!! This is so good! It is not necessary to go around preaching sermons or praying publicly at work to reveal your faith (and that might even get you in trouble in some places – yikes!). The love of Jesus in our hearts shines through our character, actions, and how…

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Nov. 13, 2024

Servant Leadership: Leading Others with Love and Laughter | Ep. 31

What does leadership look like to you? When you think of the qualities of a great leader, what comes to mind? On today’s episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast, host Vivian Cumins is joined by colleague Erika Mascarenas, and the two discuss Erika’s distinct leadership style and what…

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