Don't Wait Till You're Dead: Psychic Medium Matt Fraser talks to KJ!

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Okay. Hello. Hello. Hi. He wanted to let

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you know he's at Clues Memorial Hall on October

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16th. Do you know about that close by or

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anything like that?

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Oh yeah. Yes. Clues is about 10 minutes from

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my house. So that's awesome. What was the

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date again?

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It says October 16th there.

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All right. We'll talk about it for sure.

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Hello, Matt Frazier. Welcome back to the

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KJ Today Show.

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Thank you. It's great to be here. Did you

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hear I'm coming to your area?

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I did. So Clues Memorial Hall is like 10

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minutes from my house, Matt. I'm so excited.

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Oh, my God.

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You've got to come. You've got to make sure

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you're there.

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I will. I will. So let me make sure I got

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it right. October 16th is when you are coming

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to Clues Memorial Hall at Butler University,

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right? I sure am, yes. OK. Well, Matt Frazier,

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it is always, it's like a blast of fresh

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air every time you join us. And just finding

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out that you're going to be here is making

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my day even better. But you also have a new

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book out. So let's talk about it. I love

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the title, Don't Wait Till You're Dead. And

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it's a lot of new information for us who

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have been following along with you for a

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while, right?

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Well, absolutely. I mean, the one thing that

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I really wanted to get through with this

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book is really share the conversations that

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I've had with the souls that have passed

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away. Because what people don't realize is

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that souls do have regrets on the other side.

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They do look back on their life and say,

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I wish that I would have done things differently.

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And there's a reason for that. When we pass

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away, we go through a life review process

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where we see everything in between and we

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see what we could have done differently within

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our life. We see what would have happened

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if we married our high school sweetheart

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versus our husband now. What would have happened

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if we didn't have our children? How our life

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would have been different if we took this

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job instead of that job? And, you know, it's

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a time for us to reflect, to look back on

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our life and also discover our life purpose.

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So souls have regrets through this life review

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process and their message to us is don't

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have those same regrets. So in this book,

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I list all of the regrets that people have

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that have passed on and how you can do your

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own life review now and make positive changes

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in your life right now while you're still

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living and breathing.

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That is amazing. So Matt, does this information

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come through as you're, you know, doing these

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appearances and, you know, and connecting

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with people or, you know, are you on an afternoon?

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Like, Hey, you know what, I'm going to, I'm

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going to connect to the spirit world and,

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and see what they can tell me to help people

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out. Like, how does, how is this coming together

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for you?

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But you know, believe it or not, this is

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my 15 year anniversary of doing mediumship

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publicly. So for 15 years, I've been doing

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this and I'll tell you that with every reading

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that I do, I want you to know one thing.

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Souls have a story and I'm here to tell that

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story. So that being said, for example, I've

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read for some of the biggest regrets were

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a man that had passed away and uh, disowned

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his daughter. I have to having a really bad

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battle with alcoholism. And his regret was

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not finding help sooner, and more importantly,

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about disowning his daughter here in this

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world, because after he passed on, he went

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through his life review, he saw the hurt

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and pain that he left her with. Another regret

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that I saw was a man who had left this world,

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and after he went to the other side, he regretted

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the fact that he didn't help his friends

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and his family, who were struggling with

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addictions. And he saw, when he went to the

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other side, how much they had gone through

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this addiction issue. The thing is that every

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soul has a story to tell in their life. It's

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almost like the Christmas carol, when Ebeneezer

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Scrooge goes through this huge, huge journey

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within his life, looks back and makes changes.

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That's the same thing that happens with souls

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when they pass on. But what the souls want

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us to know is that we don't have to have

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that near-death experience or that wake-up

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call to make positive changes in our life

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right now. There are things that you can

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be doing right now to make sure that you're

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living the best life possible.

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And in the book, Don't Wait Till You're Dead,

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you actually, this is a sort of a workbook.

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You actually give us exercises we can do

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to make sure that we are connecting to our

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purpose and living the best life right now.

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Absolutely. It's in the very last chapter.

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So you go all through the book, you realize,

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you know, the top regrets, what your loved

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ones would have done differently. Then you

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learn about, you know, why you're put here

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on earth, about your life purpose. And then

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at the end of the book, you go through and

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you do your own life review and you reflect

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back on your life and you go through the

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journey before you even die. And, you know,

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it's an emotional experience. It's an eye

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opening experience, but it's also an experience

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that's going to help you to identify some

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of the roadblocks some of the past pain and

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some of the mistakes that you made. Because

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sometimes when we're going through life,

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we feel like we're on a treadmill that just

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never ends. We meet the same people, go through

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the same mistakes, go through the same pain.

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Well, this is a way to break the cycle and

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to release yourself now.

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I'm not going to lie, when you were talking

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about, you know, this review that we have

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in the afterlife, I was cringing a little

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bit like, oh, I'm going to have to go back

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and watch this.

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You're not the only one. You are not the

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only one. You know, everybody, when I talk

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about this life review, the first question

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that I'm asked is now, what if we don't want

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to go through it? What if we don't want to

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see these things? Right. And, you know, it's

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the same thing with even even me as a medium.

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Right. Or, you know, celebrities that, you

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know, I can't tell you how many how many

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celebrities don't want to watch their TV

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show, right? You have that cringe worthy

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moment where it's like, oh, I don't want

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to watch me on TV. Oh, I don't want to, I

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don't want to listen to my voice, you know,

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or, you know, so how many celebrities that

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I read for, you know, don't even like the

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sound of their own voice. But it's what makes

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you unique. It's what, it's what makes you

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special. And it, it, it's one of the things

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that once we, once we go through it, it might

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be emotional. It might be hard, but at the

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same time, it's one of the most beautiful

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experiences that you can ever go through.

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So let me ask, Matt, and maybe maybe this

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is like the next book, but when we so we

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get to the other side, we have these regrets.

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Hopefully now we don't because we're going

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to read your book and we're going to get

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it right. But I often will say to myself

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in the middle of something where I'm like,

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oh, my gosh, I'm this is happening again

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because I didn't learn the lesson. I'll tell

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myself, like, get it right, because I don't

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want to come back. Like, let's get it right.

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So do you know, like, when we see things,

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then how we move forward in the afterlife?

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Do we have another life?

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Yes, absolutely. Let me tell you something.

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It's happening right now. I can't tell you

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how many clients that I have that make the

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same mistakes. It's like they date the same

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people. It always happens, usually with love.

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You know, there's so many people that try

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to go and push it. You know, like, for example,

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my son just turned two years old and we have

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that game at home. You know, that little,

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the game where you put the shapes through

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the hole, the square, the circle. You know,

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so many times within life, we try to push

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the square through the circle and try to

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make it fit, even though it won't. Right.

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And that's really our greatest lesson is

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really learning how to navigate when we're

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going down the wrong path. So, for example.

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you meet a person that you're physically

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and sexually attracted to, but it's just

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not going to work. We try to push that relationship

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and push that relationship and make it work,

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but it's just not going to. So really what

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we can learn right now is how to break the

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patterns and the past cycles. We all know

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that one person that goes after the same

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type of guy, the same type of girl. And we're

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like, if you just went for somebody nice,

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if you didn't go for the bad, if you didn't

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go for the bad asses, then you'd be in a

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serious relationship, right? If you didn't

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go for the Playboys, you'd be in a better

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place now. Well, that's really what this

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book is about. It's really about identifying

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those things that are holding you back. And

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for everybody, it's different. It's not just

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love. It could be financial. It could be

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work. It could be a million different things.

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But identifying what your weak points are

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with setting you back and making the changes

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now.

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The book is called, Don't Wait Till You're

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Dead, Spirits Advice from the Afterlife.

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And Matt Frazier is coming to Indianapolis

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Clues Memorial Hall at Butler University

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on October 16th. And I can't wait to see

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you, Matt. Thank you so much for being back

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on the show.

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Thank you. I'm really excited to be there.

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All right, we'll see you soon.