Healing Through Laughter: A Chat with David Arquette

The incredibly talented David Arquette joins the positive vibes of KJ TODAY! In this episode, we had a fascinating conversation about his new movie "The Good Half" and delved into some deep and meaningful topics. Here are three key takeaways from our...
The incredibly talented David Arquette joins the positive vibes of KJ TODAY! In this episode, we had a fascinating conversation about his new movie "The Good Half" and delved into some deep and meaningful topics.
Here are three key takeaways from our conversation:
Balancing Humor and Seriousness: David shared insights into his role as the comedic relief in "The Good Half," a film that tackles difficult topics like death and planning funerals. We discussed the importance of finding humor in challenging situations and how it can help us navigate through tough times.
Coping with Loss: Both David and I opened up about our experiences with losing loved ones and how it has shaped our perspectives on life. We explored the healing power of gratitude and cherishing the memories of those we have lost, finding solace in the moments we shared with them.
Reflection and Gratitude: David emphasized the importance of looking back on our past experiences with gratitude. From his time on iconic shows like "Buffy" to his friendships with fellow actors, he highlighted the value of appreciating the journey and the people who have touched our lives along the way. I highly recommend tuning in to this episode to hear more about David's insights and the heartfelt discussions we had.
And don't forget to catch "The Good Half" in theaters 7/23 and 7/25 for a truly moving and thought-provoking experience. Let's support this film and keep the conversation going!
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Hello again, Art. Oh, I do not hear you.
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Let's see. It doesn't show that you have
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any audio coming through on your end. And
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I'm not sure why. Double check my settings.
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Yes, OK.
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KJ, here's David. Are you with me, Art? It's
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David. Yeah, I'm here.
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Oh, well, hey, David. How you doing? I'm
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good.
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How are you, KJ?
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I'm good. Oh, my gosh. I mean, are you kidding?
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I get to start my morning off talking with
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you, Mr. David Arquette. Life is good. Have
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you had enough coffee? Are you ready for
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my energy?
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I have and I'm ready.
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All right. So we are talking with David Arquette
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and the movie that we're here to talk about.
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I am just so intrigued with this for so many
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reasons. It is called The Good Half. And
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what a cast. You, David, Nick Jonas, Brittany
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Snow, Matt Walsh, Elizabeth Shue. I mean,
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it just goes on and on. Alexandra Shipp.
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Can you talk, first off, what it was like
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to be able to kind of, it sounds like you're
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a bit of the comedic relief here in this
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movie that is kind of surrounded by some
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more difficult topics like death and planning
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funerals.
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Yeah, it is. It is. I am. I'm sort of the
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cringe-worthy comedic, I'm the stepfather
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named Rick. And Nick Jonas' character, Wren,
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comes back to Cleveland, his hometown, and
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unfortunately he has to bury his mother and
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his sisters, played by Brittany Snow. But
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I don't really, as their stepfather, I don't
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really take their feelings into consideration
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too much when planning it. So it leads to
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some uncomfortable moments. And yeah, Rick
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was a funny character to play because he's
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like this narcissistic character. So I'd
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have all these moments where we'd ad lib
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something and I, in my head, would think,
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oh, that's funny. But I would think, oh,
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my character wouldn't think that's funny.
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He'd be annoyed by it. So I'd have these
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reactions that weren't my natural instinct.
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I mean, was it difficult for you there in
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Hollywood to find inspiration playing a narcissist?
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No, absolutely not. I was always fascinated
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by narcissism. And you have to have a certain
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amount of it just to be an actor. I mean,
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in general, just to have the confidence to
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stand up in front of camera or in front of
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an audience and sort of own the performance.
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So you have to balance it. But in Hollywood,
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there tends to be a ton of them. And some
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of them don't understand the balance element
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of it. So I was obsessed so much that I once
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mentioned to a therapist, I was like, I'm
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really interested in narcissism and narcissist.
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Do you have any narcissistic clients? And
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he said, no. Do you want to know why? I said,
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why? And he said, they don't need me. That
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really told me everything I needed to know
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about narcissism.
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So in dealing with family dynamics, I've
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been doing this a long time. And a lot of
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my followers were with me, actually, when
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my parents were passing away. And I made
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a lot of jokes on the air about the process
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you go through in planning a funeral I think
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if you're not laughing about it, I don't
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know how you get through it. Did you find
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when you were creating this film that there
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was, I mean, there has to be a balance of
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like, this is serious, we're dealing with
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death, but also sometimes this is just utterly
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ridiculous and you had to kind of portray
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a little bit of both, right?
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Absolutely. I lost both my parents too and
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that whole process is just so heart-wrenching,
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but there is a lot of Humor in it. I mean
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even the awkwardness of someone saying are
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you doing when it's like the worst day of
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your life? I mean those moments happen all
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the time and it also triggers like the extremes
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and everyone's personality if someone's a
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controller Then they want to just control
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everything. It's the most uncontrollable
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situation ever so it peaks everyone's sort
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of trigger points and And you kind of have
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to find these ways of laughing at it. But
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the director, Robert Schwartzman, has a really
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wonderful way of balancing it. It was written
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by a guy named Ben who took from his own
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personal experience of losing his mother
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and sort of noted down all of these moments
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and having to deal with his stepfather and
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all this stuff. So I think it was really
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cathartic for him to sort of experience that
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and write it down and have this film made.
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and sort of go through that process.
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We are talking with David Arquette. The film
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is The Good Half, and we're doing this as
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a Fathom event. So we've got tomorrow and
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then the 25th. And I did look at, we're here
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in Indianapolis. There are like four or five
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theaters that this opportunity to see the
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good half. And then also there's a Q&A with
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Nick Jonas and some of the other cast and
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crew. So I wanna make sure that we are getting
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those tickets if you wanna come see the movie.
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And then I would imagine, David, are we gonna
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get a digital release on this as well?
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Yeah, I'm sure they'll have a digital release.
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But hopefully if enough people go out, it
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could stay in theaters longer. So really
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kind of the film you want to see with a big
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group because there is like laughing and
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there's emotional moments and it really,
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I don't know, hopefully could be healing
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in a way. I mean, I've found like in losing
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people and the director does a really wonderful
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job of like flashing back on some really
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beautiful memories. And it is really about,
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I don't know, the most healing aspect to
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it that I found was when you can reach a
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point of gratitude of having these people
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in your life to start with, even though it
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may have been a short time. I mean, that
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really has brought me the most healing and
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remembering their memories and keeping those
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memories alive. And then for me, in losing
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my parents, to continue to live my life so
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that they'd be proud.
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Yeah. Yeah, I think, you know, and there
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are moments, I think, for everyone where
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you're like, man, I wish I could call my
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dad. I wish I could call my mom and tell
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them that. But you live it as if you could,
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right?
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Totally. But I had this one experience when
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I was my second child, my son was born. I
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was looking at him and I was thinking, oh,
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I wish my mom and dad got to meet him. And
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I had this overwhelming feeling that they
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were right with me at that moment. They were
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watching him as well.
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Absolutely. I know that feeling, too. David,
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this has been such a wonderful conversation.
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I'm so excited that we could talk about the
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good half and know that you've got a lot
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of fans out there. And people wanted me to
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talk with you about about Buffy, because
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I actually have a cat named Buffy that's
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sitting in the room watching, watching me
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talk with you. You've had an incredible career.
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Do you look back on some of those things
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you've done, Buffy and Scream, and kind of
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take it all in and be in awe of yourself
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and the things that you have done?
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I'm not sure I'm in awe of that, but I also
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have a cow named Buffy. And from Buffy specifically,
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I met so many of my wonderful friends You
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know, Paul Rubens, Luke Perry, I just loved
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him. He helped me, you know, put in a good
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word for me to get that role. But, you know,
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getting to know Paul Rubens was just such
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an, and we just lost him recently a year
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ago. So it was just a real gift for me just
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in my life. So that's what I usually do is
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just lean back on gratitude again.
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I love it. Thank you so much, David. We'll
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let you go today. And again, the good half,
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go see it either tomorrow or Thursday so
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that we can keep it running in theaters.
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Cause it sounds like a movie that we all
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could really use right now. David, have a
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great day.
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Thank you, you too.