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Monarch for Love

Welcome to Monarch for Love. I'm Michelle Hays and I'm a relationship coach who believes that love is the most important aspect of our lives. I believe love is life's greatest gift. I have spent decades researching and studying how relationships that are once fun, passionate, and happy can become heartbreaking, unfulfilling, and hurtful. I was an unhappy wife. Twice! I know that choosing love is always the path to true happiness, a fuller life, and a passionate partnership.

Love is a decision! It's a decision we must make every day. Love is meant to be cultivated yet it is too often dismissed and ultimately destroyed because we lack the skills and knowledge to nourish it. We are here to change all that. Join me as we learn how to create loving, lasting relationships and open ourselves, our pasts, our hearts, and our dreams, and discover what it is we are all truly looking for…love.

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April 22, 2025

Ep. 155 - How to Love Your Husband Better

In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving into practical ways to love your husband in a way that truly resonates with him. When you understand his unique needs and show love intentionally, you create a deeper bond and lasting c...
April 15, 2025

Ep. 154 - Can Conflict Actually Strengthen a Marriage?

This week we’re exploring a surprising truth — conflict doesn have to tear your marriage apart. In fact, when handled with intention and care, conflict can be a powerful tool for building deeper connection, trust, intimacy, a...
April 8, 2025

Ep. 153 - How Does Addiction Affect a Marriage?

In this powerful episode of Monarch for Love, I’m joined by Michele Rose Fortin — TEDx speaker, author, and founder of the Quest 4 Recovery Network. Together, we dive deep into the impact of addiction on marriage, uncovering ...
April 1, 2025

Ep. 152 - Transforming Jealousy into Connection in Marriage

Jealousy can often feel like a dark cloud hovering over us in our mariages. In this week's episode, we delve into the often-taboo topic of jealousy in marriage and how it can be transformed into a powerful catalyst for connec...
March 25, 2025

Ep. 151 - Unraveling the Taboo: The Controversy Surrounding Masturbation

In this week's episode, we are diving into one of the most stigmatized yet universal aspects of human sexuality. We will explore some of the cultural perceptions surrounding masturbation, breaking down barriers and challengin...
March 18, 2025

Ep. 150 - Love is Not a Fairy Tale

This week we are discussing the complexities of love that go beyond the storybook endings. Join us as we explore the unrealistic beliefs embedded into us as young boys and girls about love and marriage. Love is both messy an...