Intuitive Insights with Dagmar Fleming | DFS 301

Let's go. Welcome to destined for success.

I'm your host Jennifer Takagi and it's pot a Palooza Day I

just love PATA Palooza Day, I get to interview all kinds of

amazing people that I may or may not have encountered otherwise.

The next guest is super fun because I met her in person

first. And then we saw each other online. So that's just

really a whole it's a whole new dynamic in this day and age.

Welcome, my friend Dagmar Fleming to the stage. DAGMAR How

are you today?

Oh, I am fabulous. And I am so excited to

be here and conversing with you and checking into this universal

consciousness of success.

I love it. So, we did meet actually on

something called the marketers cruise. And so how fun is it to

do business on a cruise ship? And we did we met some amazing

people. But why don't you share with the audience how you show

up in the world who you help how you do that? Like what makes

Dagmar Fleming Dagmar

Oh, wonderful. Thank you for asking. So I

actually came from an ex communist country, Poland. I've

been in America for the last 30 years and really enjoyed

pursuing American dream college education, corporate Korea, and

I even started my own global consulting company. But then

something happened, I had my OMG moment and realize that I wanted

to do more than just helping entrepreneurs expanding to

foreign markets. So I did a 180 degrees switch and a focused on

a personal transformation. And helping business owners release

the emotional and mental blocks that keep them stuck at certain

level, and not progressing to the next stage of their

expansion.

I love that. And I mean, our stories, we

haven't really ever talked about this. But our stories have some

similar parallels. After years in corporate and government

work, I made a shift into entrepreneurship, doing

leadership development, and then there was a little something

missing. And that's when I got into the whole energy side of

the world and spiritual healing and personal development. And

it's been just a really fun ride.

Well, it's a different environment, and that

you did hint on the the realm of energy healing, emotional

release. Our stories are very similar. I come from a family

background of really true energy healers, and spiritual leaders.

So coming to America and focusing on the very corporate

development, I felt that the part of me was missing that

there was part of me, that was unexpressed. So by being able to

transition from more of a business consulting, into

personal development, I was able to bring that intuitive insight

and way to app shift to the next level, by working with my

clients more on how they show up in the world, and what mindset

they bring into their actions.

So what are some things that we could do to

like, I love that intuitive insight? I love the term

intuitive leadership, like leaning into that intuitive

message. What does that mean for you? And how do you help clients

develop more of that?

I love teaching my clients how to use intuition

in business. Because every single human being is intuitive.

Every single human being has access to this higher wisdom

that some people simply call gut feeling. And yet, if we follow

that sense within us, we can make decisions in business that

are optimized for our success. So, for example, I always advise

my clients, if you're going to a networking meeting, instead of

just marching into the room and finding a corner to hiding, take

a moment to scanner the room and see if you have that urge to

connect with someone. Perhaps something about the demeanor

will catch your attention. That inner mind inner whisper is

telling you that is the person that I might be able to connect

with very well. And when you do, most magical moments can happen.

In fact, I have a personal story. I was at EA women network

probably 20 years ago at a you women Network Conference. I was

waiting in line to have a seat right at the front of the stage

because I've wanted to see Sandra Yancey literally within

two feet. So I stood in line for 30 minutes, the doors open, I am

only the fifth person in line. So I'm marching into that room

looking at 100 tables, knowing the table rating, this center by

this stage is mine. And then I here go to the last row. So

wait, no, no, absolutely not, I didn't just spend 30 minutes in

line to go to the last row. But you know, sometimes when

intuition talks to us, it's unfolding major quantum leap. So

I did go to the last row, and there in the middle of the last

row was a lady sitting by herself. So I'm thinking like,

well, if I'm gonna sit here, at least there's somebody like me

that wants to be a loser at the very end, we might as well be in

that loser category together. So I sit down, we strike a

conversation. Turns out, she has multiple national radio shows

and TV shows. And she invited to me to be on her show. And that

was my first major national interview that I received simply

by following this intuitive guidance to go to the back. So

you never know what's gonna unfold if you just tune in.

And so I love that story so much, because I

typically have an idea. And it's only happened a couple of times,

but it was so true. Like, stay completely away from this

person, like they are bad, they are bad news, they are not going

to bring you anything good into your life. And unfortunately, I

was right. I wanted to be wrong really badly. But I was not

wrong. But when you walk into your room like that, for me, to

listen to my intuition, I really have to be quiet and still. And

so I can imagine walking in a room like that people are

talking, everybody's trying to get in, everybody wants that

front table seat that you are going for, do you have some tip

for me and the audience on how to how to tune in very quickly,

when you might be in a more chaotic environment.

So a lot of times, we don't realize it, but

we sit concentrated in our head. So all the fears, all the

anxiousness, even strategies, tactics that we can see all of

that is sitting much higher. So if you imagine as your Soul

Train to enter into your body, it rarely gets past the chin. So

it's kind of hard to listen to something when you know you have

no connection with that inner wisdom. So by simply standing

for a moment still and imagining that you're bringing that your

own essence down into your stomach area, and even lower

into your sacral area. Sacral Chakra, you start embodying your

own wisdom, and it creates this grounding effect. We're now the

brain can release all that yapping at chatter like a

Chihuahua. And you can start listening to the actual voice of

that inner wisdom that every single human being possesses.

Those every second, you walk in the room and

all the chaos, you just pause for half a second.

Yeah, and bring it into you literally

consciously. For people who have hard time visualizing energy,

you can just change focus, instead of focusing in your

head, bring focus to the lower part of your abdominal, to like

your gut area. And just by simply drawing attention to that

part of your body, you will start embodying yourself much

better.

Oh, I love that. I'm often asked that

myself, like, how do you do that? No. one's like, well, it's

usually quiet. I'm usually quiet. I've had a couple of

funky cars, situations where I just knew something bad was

gonna happen. And I was like, How do I tell the next car I

knew this guy was going to run this light. And the guy next to

me was going to T boned him because she couldn't see him.

And I just intuitively knew they don't teach you this and

Driver's Ed, but it was like Jennifer slam on the brakes and

the horn and she will she will react and that's exactly what

happened. And we got to the next light and she looked at me she

goes, Oh my God, you saved my life. But it was like I know, I

know. But it really wasn't me it was but I was in the car. I

didn't even have the radio on. It was very quiet, very calm.

But you have to be mindful of What's going on around you? So

you walked in that room? And you're like, where do I need to

sit? Because I'm going here. And it's like no, go over here. Hard

left hard left.

And you know, for those of our listeners who

doubt that they have innate psychic abilities, talking about

driving, we all instinctively know when someone's about to

change the lane, don't we? How do we know it? How are we

reading avid drivers, we've never met them all, we see a

car. And yet you always know when someone's about to cut you

on the road, or maybe that they're slowing down for exit.

That is just a visual reminder that we do have way to connect

to other human beings on a level that transcends words. And if we

just give ourselves permission to believe that we are

constantly communicating on the nonverbal level, then we can

actually hear our own communication that's going on

internally.

Well, not so great about the cars because you

do it's just, I don't remember, I've driven a lot lately and

been in the car a lot, a lot more than normal, but it's like,

yeah, I'd better just slow down, that guy is gonna cut right in

front of me. And lo Behold, the guy cuts right in front of you.

And I don't think it's like, I created my own reality like, oh,

I may I manifested that guy to cut me off. No, I think I was

just in tune with the fact that that just kind of look like what

he was gonna do. And I just, I mean, I can be, you know, half a

second later than I planned. And let him

we can take those skills and apply to

everything in life. I mean, let's talk about women who

constantly attract schmucks into their lives, right. Let's

talk about that. Yeah, it's one disaster,

one dating disaster after

another, right? Well, we you knew, I mean, let's

face it, we know when we meet a person, whether this is a good

person for you or not. And a lot of times we ignore the signs,

these alarm bells. So there we are back in a relationship,

that's not good. It can happen in business too. I mean, how

many V A's you have to go through before you realize

you're attracting the same person that has no drive or

ambition? Perhaps there is something within ourselves that

do create these situations until we say, Okay, time to take some

pause and look at what's going on in my mind that I keep

replicating the same situations that I don't like.

I mean, I don't know why you're convicting me

right now about my VA situation. But thanks for that. Well,

I mean, I'm speaking, I'm speaking from my

own experience, unfortunately, we do like to repeat patterns.

We per Law of One Pearl universal law, each lesson

should be learned only once, but we humans, we kinda like the

redo remake. So we just keep repeating the same mistakes over

and over again. And naturally, when most of us get to the point

where we're done with the lesson. That's when the major

shift, quantum change happens. So I certainly invite all of our

viewers to take a moment and ask themselves a question. Why am i

Repeating these experiences because there is a light at the

end of a tunnel, we just have to put the bulb on.

And sometimes we don't even realize there is a

pattern. So I'm gonna go back to what I said a second ago about

paying attention. Um, I there was a gal who had like three

wrecks in a row. And semis just kept running her off the road.

And I said, well, like what, you know, so scary. But what

happened? We'll come to find out, I believe, from what she

said, I'm not trying to pass judgment on this. I'm just

trying to understand. It sounds like she's just riding in their

blind spot. Well, if you keep driving next to a semi in their

blind spot, they're going to keep running you off the road

because they can't see you. And so, like, sometimes we do we

have to have the same thing happened several times before.

Like, wait, there is a pattern here. And do I like this

pattern? Like there are some patterns I like and they're

really great. And other patterns. Maybe I should not

stay on that road.

And awareness is the number one way to shift

something. You're using the word blind spot, and that is the

problem. A lot of times we do not know what kind of thought

patterns we're operating on. Well, if you don't know that's a

pattern. How on earth can you change that? So paying attention

to yourself? Paying attention to your reality opens the door to

something new. Like, worst comes to worse just by a mirror, look

at you and ask yourself a question, what the heck am I

doing? Why am I doing this? And you know, you mentioned

something that really triggered a thought, in my mind, our focus

creates reality. So coming back to this lady that kept running

into the same accidents, you know, I have this funny story

about my mom. Every time she visits me, she inadvertently

breaks something. So, you know, last time she put it, an

electric kettle on my oven and fried it completely. Before

that, she broke the vacuum cleaner. It every time she

comes, something falls apart. And I know that in her mind,

she's trying to avoid this so intently that she's actually

creating the disasters. Because think about it. If you are

hanging on a tree, and you're thinking, I don't want to fall,

I don't want to fall. I don't want to fall. What is your brain

hearing?

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, so

you're gonna fall. And she's constantly

thinking about, I don't want to break it, I don't want to break

it, I don't want to break it. So the only thing that her whole

consciousness years is, it's time to break it again. And

there it comes. So I would say we do need to be conscious of

what's going on in their head, because avoiding a disaster is

actually focusing on disaster itself. And then the more you

try to avoid an accident, all you're gonna do is produce

another one. So

these little boys were about eight years old,

and one of them had a little mini bike. And then the parents

had quite a bit of land. So the boys could like do a lap go in

circles. And the one little boy had not ridden motorcycles much

and kept going. I don't want to hit that tree, I don't want to

hit that tree. I don't want to hit that tree. And the the

father of the other little boys that I watched him go around

like 20 times he was great. And then finally me hit that tree.

And it was because he was so focused on not hitting the tree,

eventually he hit the tree. So if you focus on what you don't

want, your brain doesn't know that negative, right? Like it

just it finds the action verb and goes for that. So you're you

have a thing, unlock your success. So what is something we

can do listening to our intuition unlocks our success,

being aware, unlocks our success, what else you got for

us?

Well, for all entrepreneurs, I would highly

recommend that as you step into that business journey, that you

take a moment and really dissect the limiting beliefs that are

running in your head. And that what I mean by that is,

especially when we jump from corporate career, where we feel

invincible, because somebody else is responsible for results,

and I just have to show up and be my beautiful me. And

everything. Just you know, Patric just beautifully shows up

in my mail and Everything's peachy. And then you go into a

business journey. And suddenly, ooh, now I have to sell, I have

to run an admin, I have to have a serum. And I have to write an

email. And then I have to show up on Jennifer's podcast

insanely intelligent. I mean, the pressures is on, right. So I

think that when we are business owners, it's very important to

take a moment every day, and really tune in. What are your

unconscious fears? What are you afraid of? I'll never forget the

first time I was invited to an interview, a radio interview, I

froze, I panicked. I couldn't remember what my name was. I

felt so uncomfortable showing up because there I was coming from

20 plus years in global business career, known in the machinery

industry, working with manufacturers, and I'm gonna

show up as this woowoo metaphysical energy healing

personal development specialist, and I thought, oh my goodness,

I'm just gonna kill my career, my 20 year accomplishments in

one interview, so I froze, I was so afraid to just show up as me.

And I literally had to call my very good friend and say, can

you practice with me asking me what my name is? So I can get

unblocked and even tell you that I'm Dagmar Fleming. So You know,

I had to really figure out what was going on in my head. Why did

I attach so much of my identity to this corporate career, that

when I started doing something completely different, I felt

exposed that somehow I was worse off, or that people will judge

me. And unfortunately, as entrepreneurs, we're constantly

under observation of opinion and bias or judgment of other

people. So you know, it's time to embrace who we are and move

forward and say, Screw that I'm just gonna show up as me. And

the right tribe will find me.

Oh, my gosh, I love that the right tribe will

find me because I made a big shift to you. And it was really

a lot to step into. I'm an energy healer, I'm in the

spiritual world. Because I'd always been so you know, black

and white strategy. So I love that you kind of had that same

moment of how do I how do I show up like this. So we talked just

a second before we hit record, and you have a free gift for our

audience. Let's that free gift, and we will drop the link in the

show notes. But tell us about your gift, what you're offering

us today.

I'm very passionate about helping

business owners break through their artificial money ceilings,

or any money blocks that they may have. So I would like to

share with our viewers four ways your brain is sabotaging your

checking account. And in that guide, we will dive into the

core four reasons that most business owners unconsciously

get stuck below their income potential. And this is relevant,

whether you're just making $100,000 or $10 million, because

we all have a certain money ceiling. And I usually say the

only difference is how many zeros are attached to that

ceiling. So I hope that this resource will help open your

mind to some concepts that you may be attaching your work to,

or your concept of money making abilities, and most of all

worthiness because most people feel so unworthy of money.

Oh my gosh, that's such a beautiful gift. I

love that. So is that do you have a link for that that you

can share easily? Or do we just leave the other show notes?

Where do we get this?

It's absolutely if you come to my website Dagmar

fleming.com right there on the homepage, you'll be able to grab

it. All

right. Dagmar fleming.com diehard. This has

been awesome. Thank you so much for your time and sharing your

wisdom with the audience.

Well, it's been fun Jennifer, anytime you and I

can get together. It's always fun business and happiness that

follow.

Oh my gosh, I love it. Thank you so much for

your time.

Thank you.

I'm Jennifer Takagi with destined for success

and I look forward to connecting with you soon.