Four Experts Four Answers-Ep: 092

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Hello, everyone, and welcome to this episode of she coaches

coaches. I am joining with you with another question episode.

So again, this is a compilation of responses from a number of

people who I'd never met before, I asked them all one question,

and I've pulled together a bunch of answers for you. And here's

the question for today. If you could remove all barriers, all

constraints, resources weren't a problem. Money was not a worry,

time was unlimited. What project would you do and why? So these

are people that I met at a full day event called PATA palooza.

As I said, I've never met them before. And I just loved using

these questions to get to know them. So I'm looking forward to

hearing your thoughts. Enjoy. Okay, I've got another question

for you. If you could remove all barriers, all constraints,

resources weren't a problem, money, not a problem time, not a

worry, what project would you do and why.

So this is coming up just in the moment for

me. But I would love to do like a coming together a big

community project that involves my crystal singing bowls, which

I will share with you in a little bit. And ways that we can

vibrationally join together to experience that oneness of life

energy that we are, and realize that we are energetic beings, it

might look like you're on the other side of the screen. But

it's like, even when you see somebody on the other side of

zoom, can you tell how they're feeling? Can't you tell what's

going on with them? There's really not that space

energetically. Yet, we tend to think of ourselves as being

isolated through the power of sound and the power of

connection and the power of imagination. It's really been an

amazing journey for me to realize, no, we're really very

connected. And it starts with us opening up to us first and

having that experience. So my event would be gathering other

sound healers gathering other artists, gathering people who

dance gathering people who cook beautiful, wonderful, healthy

things, so that in all the senses and all that connection,

we can experience our oneness. I mean, probably people have

danced in a place and didn't know if somebody else spoke

their language or not. But the dancing made you together. And I

just feel it sonically that happening. That would be what I

would do to give everybody the joy of, of experiencing that and

bringing them presents who they are,

there would be so much fun right now. It'd be fun.

I got a question for you. If you could remove all barriers and

all constraints and resources, were not a problem. Money, no

worry, time, not a worry. What project would you do and why?

Honestly, I feel like I'm doing it. But

probably if they're if money were not an issue, nor time, if

I had all the resources, I would be speaking on live stages in

front of big audiences, like 1000s of women. And I would be

inspiring them to shed the false identity shed the skin that is

not them and step into who they truly are. And they would leave

different than they came in knowing that they are truly

valuable and worthy of standing in their, in their space in the

world and knowing their voice. I mean that if I was able to do

that all over the world on live stages. That's what I'd be

doing.

Imagine how amazing that would

be. Yes. I've seen visions of me doing it. And when I started

seeing those visions, I would brush them aside and say think,

what? Why is that coming into my mind? How in the world would I

ever do that? Who would come listen to me? Like, how would I

fill an auditorium? Like, why am I seeing this vision? And I

would just brush it aside, and it kept coming back. So finally

I said, Okay, I need to pay attention. Let me just look at

this. Let me embrace it, let me be open to it, and see where it

leads me. Even if I don't know how it would ever happen. And

once I did that, I really like embraced it holy i It's never

happened yet. I shouldn't say never, it hasn't happened yet.

Except to probably if I added all the stages I've been on

virtually in the last few years, maybe, because you never know

what impact you might be having even in front of a computer and

a zoom call. So when I decided not to worry about the how I

just stepped into it, and started just learning how and

honing my skills and putting myself out there. You know, and

it was just, it's just amazing to me, that when you open up to

something that seems impossible, that it becomes possible. So

yeah, and you're creating it right now. Like, you

know, this is the journey, right? Like, maybe you haven't

stood on that particular stage, the one that's in your vision

yet in front of as many women as you imagine, but this was the

past. This is the this is the past to creating that. Right?

That's

right. Yes, yes. So it doesn't just happen when you,

you know, like, oh, I want to do that. And then the next minute

you're doing it.

So Mary, I have a question. If you could remove

all barriers and constraints, resources were unlimited, you

had unlimited time, and money, and energy, what project would

you do? I would love to actually take people on wine trips. Being

a wine lover, I love wine. And I think going on wine trips, and

learning how to be influencers.

And we could interview the wineries and we

could have a lot of fun in the wineries. And we could help

these people who have businesses around wine actually get more

following.

So it would be a win win.

So question number two, if you could remove all

barriers and constraints, if resources weren't a problem,

money, not a worry, time, not a worry. What project would you do

and why?

That's a that's an easier one. There are. One of

them is I would go and speak anywhere, for free. And I would

just do it. Because like I said before, it's what I do, and I

love it. But the other big project is my wife and I have

spent a lot of time traveling around the world before COVID.

We were speaking at conventions all over the world. And we

recently bought a boat. And I didn't realize that I would

absolutely fall in love with the boat. So the big project would

be to travel around North America through the seaways and

through the waterways speaking along the way, and do it all as

my gift back to organizations back to humanity back to the

world. And that would be it.

Oh, where would you start?

Ottawa, Canada. That's where we are. The boats right

there. Well, in the summertime, this past this wall out on the

river would jump on

it and go. Hi, everyone. So that was

interesting, right. Amazing to hear all those different answers

to that one question. What about you? If I was to ask you that

question, what would you say? Let me ask it again. If you

could remove all barriers, all constraints, resources, were not

a problem. Money was unlimited time was unlimited. What project

would you do and why? I would love to hear your answers. Take

me on Instagram, and share what you would do. I'm at Candy Mote

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