The Soul Talk Episode 153: Stop Being People Pleasers!

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Hey, everyone, this is Monica Ramirez the Warrior of Love. And funny, I started talking about people pleasers, there's something that I was working with myself, and maybe this mute. So well. Something doesn't want me to talk about it, or that was the message wouldn't because every time I do a meditation, and every Tuesday, I'm here with you guys. Well, I do it every day. But when I'm going to talk to the collective, my, my higher self is I asked her, okay, what are we going to be talking about? Or what I should be? What is the message that I have to transmit, or the meditation card was gonna go. And she told me every Tuesday for the collective that I give a message. She told me about different messages. And today was about honoring yourself. I am very guilty, that every time that I not honoring my own self, I tend to go back and start people people pleasing. It doesn't matter how many certifications how much we are aware, in four years, and then certainly, we just do something that if people please someone else, to what point that is going to make us feel so bad. And it's going to bring down our level of energy and vibration, that we're going to start tracking things that we don't want. We do it. Even if you're a coach, or even if you're a healer, even if you're a therapist, or of course, you us waking up and right now you're just finding out how we'll create to where we feel and what we thought. And that's what we're leaving right now. And if you already know that, like I do, I still fall for the same stone. Sometimes I do things to people to please others. And that's why I do everything. And that's when everything goes down. Because then I feel guilty and that conscience of feeling guilty because you're harming yourself. Open up the door for things that you did not want. start attracting to yourself. That's why it's so important for all of us to start honoring ourselves. I invite you to think how many times you have not honored yourself and what things you don't want to do, but you still do it. Then you're afraid to speak up. You're afraid to stop doing things that you don't want. So this is an invitation for you. I am here Here I am. I am here Here I am. I am here Here I am. Those are beautiful words from my beautiful mentor and teacher. Karina Neil Davis. I am here, Here I am. You have taught me to be present in my own body. Because many times when people please others, I don't want to be in my body. So I get out my conscious Get out of my body. So I am in automatic. So I'm bringing myself back to my body. Maybe we present and it's easier to say no. I wanted to invite you to do to be part of to join us in the healer heal movement that it is about this. It is about working with ourselves because how many healers exist or coaches exist. And yes, we may know the oldest certifications left and right. But if we are not doing our job And we're not aware, when we're probably seeing this bootleg this this example, or feeling guilt or shame or blame, or just being angry. And we're gonna be projecting that to our clients. We are going to be judgmental, because we're judgmental to ourselves. And we're not even aware, because we're trying to serve everybody. But we stop serving ourselves. Why I'm saying this because I have done it to myself. I did, I haven't done it that day, even with all the trainings that I have an old guy becoming aware, when I cut myself people pleasing. I realized that I was not honoring myself, and I feel guilty with myself, not with anyone else it was with me. And that guilty becomes that conscious of guilty and fear, because I was going to stay alone, and so forth. I was not an owner in me. So yes, I passed through a bunch of things in that moment, that I shouldn't, because I was not listening to me, in my intuition, tells me to work with myself to do this or to do that, or not only by intuition when talking about also my guides are telling me that and I'm not listening to them because there was so disbelief I wanted to do not feeling alone. When I know in reality, and the right people are gonna come to me, and I don't have the need. No one has the need to people, please. We just have to ask the universe to the right people, be there for you. And the wrong people are gonna go away. And that includes for family. So I invite you to honor you. So... much love for you. My name is Monica Ramirez the Warrior of Love. And thank you for listening. And please if this video help you, share it. And we appreciate that. And give me a like it helps the algorithms. Thank you so much.