How to STOP Sabotaging the Law of Attraction - Jackie Simmons

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Welcome. I'm Jackie Simmons, I'm the host of Your Brain On Positive and this series is based on how to put the Law of Attraction into action, how to implement it. What are the easy ways and what are the things that hang us up and how to cure them. First kudos where kudos are due, this series was inspired by Oprah Winfrey, Oprah put ads on YouTube that came when I was looking for an Abraham Hicks video, Abraham Hicks is the creator of what we know is law of attraction, meaning they wrote the book. So the book The Law of Attraction, a lot of really good processes. And processes are not always the key to activation and implementation. So Oprah was posting a video about if you're struggling with seeing results from activating or trying to implement the law of attraction, go to her website, get 20 words, she was given this 20 word phrase. And it was proving to be the key that unlocked the Law of Attraction manifestation for her. So hey, I'm up for easy. I've struggled before, I know the difference between easy and struggle. So I went to the website. Oprah Thank you, as I scrolled, and I read. And I read and I scrolled. At the end, I realized I didn't have your 20 words. What I did have, though, was more important, I had the inspiration to be part of the solution. Because the law of attraction, when it's in flow is magical. And when it's a struggle, it's not so magical. So here's what it looks like when you're struggling with the Law of Attraction you're doing, and you're busy, and you're working at, and you're meditating on what you want. And you're taking the actions that make sense to get what you want. And the results you're getting are that things are getting worse, or staying the same, which could be worse than getting worse, because it feels like nothing is happening. And while they're all the stories about how the roots are growing, and eventually the bamboo is going to shoot out, and there is a type of bamboo that does shoot out at 18 inches a day of growth after years of building out roots. Um, but with the law of attraction, that's not what's happening. You're spreading roots. All right, you spreading roots of trying and doing and figuring it out and logic and struggle, and work. And those are the roots. And that's why you're not seeing manifestation in the way of the direction that you want it to go. You know what you want, when what you're seeing is the opposite. So here's the deal. Well, let me tell you what it looks like when you activate the key. The key to activation, all of it is actually simple. It's the concept of hope. And so we'll deep dive into that. But first, let me tell you what it looks like when you're in alignment. At the end of last year, I stumbled on to this awareness that my business coaches with all good intentions had pretty much beaten my intuition out of me. I felt like I was disconnected from my wise intuitive higher self and I teach people how to connect to their wise intuitive higher self in my certification program, how to help your clients connected there was intuitive, higher self. And the more I worked at my business, the more disconnected I found. And the more disconnected I felt the more my business thought like work. Can you see where this spiral was taking me? In January, I shifted. I took my coaches we'd planned a leadership retreats so the graduation ceremony in Hawaii, and I added a two day virtual retreat called the intuition immersion experience. And during those two days while I was live streaming all of the practices and the concepts and these concrete universal picture ball and simple ways of viewing the world. Something shifted. Something shifted. I wrote the wishbone song. And we were singing the wishbone song and I was humming the wishbone song about how your wishbones connected to your backbone. Meaning when I'm connected to my wise, intuitive, higher self, I have backbone, I have certainty, I have confidence, my shoulders roll back, my chin rolls up just a little bit more. I have that joy of living that makes me kind of have a swagger. And the wishbone is connected to the backbone and the backbone is connected to the money zone. Why? Because when you have confidence in certainty, people feel more comfortable around you, you are more comfortable being curious, I no longer felt like I needed to enroll anyone. I stopped doing invitations. As matter of fact, after that two day event, I stopped doing three day events. And here's what happened. I started meditating more. And in February, and I do mean meditating, not meditating on the solution, not thinking about my desire, not working my cognitive mind at all. Finding guided imagery sessions, listening to my own guided imagery sessions, allowing my mind to be quiet, and still. And then I got a phone call. And in February, I was nominated to be a contestant on a brand new reality TV show called the changemakers prize. And I found out in another phone call that the song that was written for the teen suicide prevention society had been picked up by an artist. And they're going to put a big promotional push, hoping to take it to Grammy this year. And I needed to fly to Los Angeles for a screencast. So I flew to Los Angeles, I passed my screen test and something else shifted. And in March, I got invited into something called the great discovery. And it's a logic training course on how to get your goals. And I started taking this course it's not expensive. And what I realized is that I never really understood what my values were before. And once in the second exercise, once I understood my values, they asked me, this is what you want. These are your values. These are the actions you've been taking. When it comes to these actions, are they in alignment with your values, or are there gaps? I had gaps. Matter of fact, I had chasms, I had canyons, there was such a huge difference between all of the actions I had been taking in the attempt to follow formulas to enroll clients and my values. And I went, Whoa, that's different. So I stopped doing everything that I was doing to build my business total stop on all marketing, total stop on webinars, no plans to do another three day event, possibly ever. I'll go to other people's, because that's what I learned about myself, I am better being in the support role. And yes, I can still support coaches and healers teaching them the techniques that I've created that let them guarantee results for their clients. That's me supporting them, as opposed to trying to enroll them into the program, just hey, this is a tool it might support you. It might not. And my focus shifted to the being totally into the role of the director of the teen suicide prevention society. And then, in April, I was invited into the givers University. Both the great discovery which is going to have a launch event in Las Vegas in October that I am totally stoked about being on their stage. And the givers University, which is going to have a launch this summer. And their mission is to end hunger. Both of these programs are perfectly in alignment with my mission to end the need for a suicide intervention based world which is what we have. So the magic of the Law of Attraction is all I had to do was say enough if it's not divinely inspired, if it is not intuitively guided, it's not mine to do. And I started letting go of more things and thank God for the givers university because they have a discernment tool that helps me tease apart people love all of you all and your actions some I don't love so much. And so labeling the actions is the actions of a giver or the actions of a taker. Totally feeling in alignment with the mission of givers University to create communities to create giver, families, a family of choice. And I've realized that I was so inspired by these two programs, buy the support, and the outpouring of love and appreciation for the work, the little bit of work that I feel like I've done with the teen suicide prevention society, that now my life was a lot happier, a lot easier, and completely in aligned with my values. And for the first time in a long time, I have hope, meaning I have the expectancy, that things are working out for me, things are always working out for me, the universe is lining things up for me. And now I have absolute proof. Because in one month, I went from struggle and hopeless that I believed I would never figure out my business to now four months later, knowing I was just trying to figure out the wrong business. As soon as I allowed myself to just quiet my mind the universe lined it up so that I would know what my business is, I know that my business is to forward it is to end the need for suicide intervention programs in the world. And it is to inspire you to bring what you do to bring your mission, your purpose, your passion, into the world in a divinely inspired intuitively guided way. And if I can help you do that, just a little, the law of attraction will show you what it has lined up for you. So thank you, I hope you enjoy this series. We're going to be unpacking the poop this year because there's a lot of poop around the law of attraction to the power of optimism and positivity. So we're going to be unpacking the poop. It's going to smell great and it's going to fertilize your garden whatever you are trying to grow this year. We'll see in the next session.