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Oh, we've got to not first
as much. That was one of the
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things I know and I'm already conscious
of it. Somebody's not not time in
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place to put put those words and
just to drop them like it's Sir.
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I know if I'm drinking, then
the F bomb is everywhere. Oh,
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I know, me too, and
I and I only speak in a Boston
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accent. Yes, that's fine.
One Girl Says Speak Boston. It's annoying
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to hear because what does that mean? Number One and number two, and
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then when I get tests like that, I start going to Boston accent,
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so she wants, and I get
mad because it's all the expensive me.
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I'm played. What's up everybody?
This is big time fresh. My name
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is Bella Mars and I'm here today
with my college buddy. His name is
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ricky, Rick Bross, like Rick
the ruler. We're talking about that situation
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where there's like a like mine,
kind of single mom, and there's like
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other people coming in and out of
life and then, yeah, I don't
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understand. What would you mind meeting
my kids? Like I'm like, I
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don't care, I'm not. I'm
not adopting them. You're not bringing papers,
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right. Yeah, I don't mind. I don't mind meeting anybody.
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Yeah, well, that's that's one
of the now you got me on edge
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with that question. You know.
It's like, is this one of those
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things where meeting my kids means take
kids, this is your new dad.
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It's it's crazy because at the same
time it's so different. I know for
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me personally, I'm not introed.
You think anybody ever until it's like super,
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super serious, because I don't.
It's not worth somebody getting attached,
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like if you're with somebody for two
years, for example, that's like a
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connection you're making with the kids.
First of all, the guy or the
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other person has to really, you
know, think about I love this girl
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and she has kids, but I
still want her. That's a big deal
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in itself. So if you go
about doing that and then all of a
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sudden you break up that want Um
kids and don't have them, you know,
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like that's saying. This is me, but like, like, like
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me, I've gotten to the stage
where I haven't had a wife or a
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divorce and had a kid nothing.
So some people are looking for that and
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then that's a way for them to
like cheat and speed up. That ain't
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me. So I don't know that
thought process that I never knew that was
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a thing. My perception is that
I shouldn't feel this way because I am
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this this demograph. But if you're
a single mom, then having a kid
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and somebody coming into the relationship with
you, having a kid is like baggage,
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which I think it is for a
lot of people, which is which
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is whatever. But I didn't think
about the other side where it could be
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something that people would actually want,
or some guys would actually want, which
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I get, because that's like a
big ten years, I think, from
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you know, meeting, marriage,
whatever. Kids skip all that and I've
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seen situations where it's, you know, the stepparents are super involved and Um,
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you know, they adopt the kids
and it's all that cute stuff.
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Everyone gonna drop the stigma about divorce
and Um and and step parents and stuff,
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because now it's like, you know, a Stepdad isn't the old school
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quintes Sachel comes home and fucking beat
you because he's an alcoholic and you know
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you're afraid of him. No,
step that usually is because the biological dad
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just wasn't working out for whatever reason. What's not okay is when you stay
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together and you put the kid in
the toxic in your talking between your toxic
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relationship. But you know, so
that sucks and, uh, it's a
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selfish thing for the parents to do. So I think now it's becoming more,
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more, and I'm speaking not as
a parent, and it's becoming more
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normal. Yeah, yeah, and
it's like an almost a negligible thing.
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People are calling their Stepdad's Dad,
you know, and ship like that.
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And Uh, and really, yeah, it's just who do you see as
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a father figure in your life?
Called that person death? I mean,
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for Christ's sake, you know how
many girls called Me Dad? D You
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have you have it, and then
you didn't follow through. But try that
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again. Okay, so we're both
almost are we almost forty? No,
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I'M gonna say mid Thirties. Relax, and thirty six. Okay, okay,
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relax, I'm thirty seven. Okay, UM, single. So I
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don't think. I don't think.
It's like I'm having a blast. I
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feel like it's I'm good until you
know, my daughter's eighteen. I'm gonna
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write, write it out, Um, which is what which is ten?
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Ten more years, Um, and
then, you know, I'll think about
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it. But to your point,
from earlier. How do friends with benefits
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even work? Because the only people
that are kind of in the same stage
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of being single are like mid twenties, where they're still kind of they don't
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care, they're not looking to settle
down, they're open to the idea of
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being fronds with benefits, that these
are blankets stagent in Jamaican. You know,
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I'm the situation I brought up earlier
was very specific. Right, yeah,
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okay, so generally people, this
is the perception is you can be
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friends with a girl, which is
false, I think, excepting very weird
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certain situations, because you end up
talking them. If you, guys,
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ask yourself honestly, because you say, oh no, I have a girl
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that's a friend. If you honestly
fucking ask yourself that, um is she
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really might don't want to hang out
with her if she didn't have a vagina,
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tell me the answer is fucking yes, I guarantee you the bomb.
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But here's the other thing, though. What does that make us? Right,
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friends the girl? Okay, right, but you just countered your own
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no, no, I said it's
there. It's it's Um impossible for guys
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to be friends with girls. Accepting
a very specific so, let's be honest.
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That's the reality of it. So
friends with benefits are are like we're
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friends. We have not hooked up
right, and that would be if we
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start hooking up right and then try
to contain this level of friendship and Camaraderie
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we currently have. That will never
happen because if you hook up, you
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inherently sex does that to you.
What Fox up the relationship? Yeah,
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I agree. I don't know,
and suck it up. It changes it
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and whether it makes it better or
worse, it depends on the situation.
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But Ninety five percent of the time
usually end and those people not being friends
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five years later. You know,
what do you think the main what do
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you think it is? If you
had a pin? One of them gets
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jealous. Yeah, that's what I
was going to say. One of one
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of them takes it's that's easy.
One one of them always takes it serious,
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more serious than the other, and
gets attached and then that causes problems.
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That's always a situation and that's that. But I think that there's different
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to be said with I said earlier. Well, what what if you're like
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truly friends and then you just you
consider a one off as a favor,
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like you're driving over to the airport. You know, how could that be?
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Well, it could be different like
this way. Less emotional attached,
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because depending on the act it's because
if you have sex with somebody, you're
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emotionally attached to him and then,
but if you blow somebody, I don't
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think you'd probably be that much attached
him. I don't know. I mean
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age is a big factor, but
I could agree with yeah, we'll just
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like, there's a lot of letters
levels. So it's so. So,
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how do you so? What's the
difference between that and friends with benefits?
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So how do you not fuck that
up? Well, YOU'RE gonna keep the
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true one off situation. Yeah,
it as a favor and obviously if that
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person keeps requesting that favor, it's
not it's turning into you know, it's
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a getting out of hand. Yeah, yeah, so, yeah, I
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thought about that the other day,
but I think, like friends of benefits,
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the one way to find out.
I don't know. You want to
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do me a favor? I gotta
get to Florida, man, I'm all
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the way over here. We can
if you flying me out there and then
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a hotel, I'll think about it. I'll take my decision when I get
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who's doing a favor at that point? Only put you up in hotel.
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Oh, how do you like the
breakers? That okay, Oh, yeah,
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yeah, Oh, can you do
me a favor? What do you
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how much? Is this friendship plus? It would gradually friendship plus, any
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friendship plus. This is friendship.
And Hey, if you're with me and
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I and Hey, I forgot my
wallet at home. Right, we stopped
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at gas station. I need you
to buy me a pack of smokes.
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Huh, well, I wouldn't buy
you a pack of smokes. Hey,
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you buy me about and do?
Is that gonna ruin our friendship? No,
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who cares? No, no,
but it's not. Specifically, I'm
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not talking about me and you know, but we're the characters in the scenario.
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Yeah, I think of it as
the mountain news. It's like,
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I'll get you back when you need
it. Yeah, exactly. I owe
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you one. All right, yeah, I don't know, and I don't
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drink about do every day? You
shouldn't. Exactly. That's a good yep,
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that's a good God, I am
good. I am good. Put
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me up there with the best of
the best philosophers. I really this is
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I'm glad Richard. I remember with
your Oh my God, I'm the most
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amazing person. It looks like you're
sweaty out there. That's hottest. Fuck.
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Is Not even a wind. And
then I was going to turn on
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the fan, but it's probably loud. Oh Yeah's almost or there. Who
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am I going to wake up?
I'm sure your love it. They hate
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me. The only times that that
it's called the guard date on Karens.
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Do you have any Karens up in
your name? Were I would have seen
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everything that. At this point,
the guard gates loved me that I drive
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by them all the time and they
fucking wave right. But he calls him
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all the time, because I remember
a guard gate came one time and I
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was just I I think it was
this bike, I don't know, and
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I had to drain the carburetor and
then put gas and so I want to
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make sure it works, so I
started so the guys will go through it,
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and literally got called on that and
the guard gate comes and he's like,
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he's like yeah, he's like,
he's like if you even just like
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just do it quiet or at least
away from, you know, this area,
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because and they adjusted. He's like, because we get a lot of
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complaints from yeah, like yeah,
no, I feel yeah, and then
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ever since then I make sure I
just panic rabbit right in front of his
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house every time, because you're not
doing it past quiet hours, are you?
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Yeah, oh well, okay,
I don't know who said him on.
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Then are like seven o'clock pm.
And plus they don't have laws here.
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They get ruled. They don't have
rules, the laws of community respect.
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If I hear people out at midnight
doing that ship, no, I'm
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not gonna call the cops, but
I'm gonna go out myself and be like
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Yo, yeah, but then can't
because it's like it's a fucking vehicle.
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We're gonna do it's true. So
people just cant hate because I'm gonna have
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a lot of beats coming out of
your mouth, beats, beets, because
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you're you got a lot of f
bombs. Who Cares? We're allowed them.
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No, I have to edit them
out, all of them, not
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all of them, just most of
them. Well, usually if there's a
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lot, especially together, then usually
I'm not saying anything that that worth no
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real cut completely, you know,
because I that's one thing I hated was
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all the F bombs that I said
but when I say I'm sometimes I just
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nail it. So the ones I
nailed stick like a gymnast. You better
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not beep, you know. Oh, I know exactly what we're talking about
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actually. So, Oh, you
do. Okay, this is that scenario
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where I want to punch you.
Yeah, that's why I'm glad you're not
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right next to it. You Know
Me. You should be me too also,
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because I've been looking to punch somebody
and he's really been around. Sure,
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what is that? What the kids
are calling it these days? Punching,
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punching, Gross Punch you, like
punch your face, like I pretty
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sure you would jump because of comments
like this. Okay, but you love
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it. It fires me up and
I think it also makes me laugh.
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Yeah, I get fired up a
lot lately. I'll tell you right now
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when I'm fired up about. I
have on youtube like day because it's on
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my computer and I just let it
play or whatever, and I've been watching
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queen videos, like the band queen. You know who queen is, right.
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Yeah, all of these kids are
just, you know, are finding
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out Bohemian rap city and they're like, Oh, does this guy write his
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own songs? That's been happening with
every like and it's I'm such an asshole
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for being like this and I am
recognized that I'm a Dick. And it
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is what it is, though,
because that there's no appreciation for the actual
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art of music and the people who
came before to make it what it is
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today. Somebody said, Oh,
I thought it was Bohemian rap city.
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No one knows. Well, I
mean, in their defense, it sounds
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like it, it is, but
it's not. But like you know,
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so on the tip off, I
think you're gonna to your therapist. Okay,
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I'm gonna be honest. As your
friends, I feel like there's something
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more going on. What's going on? No, because I'm I have a
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very thing. Is My favorite band
and I have a very strong affinity for
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Freddie Mercury and he's had the biggest
impact on music in society, more than
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you know, Madonna or whatever.
So for people to not know who they
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are and to not know their songs, it's me. This is me being
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an asshole and I know that.
No, it's not, because I get
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the same I feel you. You
know, Queen's the first album I have
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our owned. Really, yeah,
I feel you. But, Um,
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you can't blame these people. They
don't know this is when, this is
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they were if we were listening to
Queen, we were listening to Oldies,
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like if we were listening up in
Buddy Holly. You know, I think
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I'm I'm more upset this. Fact
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just look at it from that perspective, like we gotta relax a little bit
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here. I'm fired up. What
isn't music to chill you out? Yeah,
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but right now I'm just upset.
I feel you. In all seriousness,
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I know what you're saying. Everybody's
ignorant to actual music, where it
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came from the roots of what they're
listening to auto tune. All I hear
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is, Oh, don't worry,
we'll fix it in post. There was
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no post back then. There was
no digital recording. How to record on
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a tape and then over dubbed,
like it's just striking me crazy, and
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it's nobody's fault. It's really nobody's
fault, and I used to be okay,
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here's a good example. I Dj, do you know what? You
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know that and I only did vinyl
and because I feel like if you knew
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how to scratch vinyl and mixed vinyl. You actually know how to fucking do
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the art of Dj whereas the computer
stuff that was out, it was automatic,
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right, spoke it up for you, would put it at the draw
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for you, whatever. Yeah,
and it took no skill. So it
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was just pressed play and go.
And I'm like, you know what,
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that's stupid. But that was me
being ignorant to the Times. Because,
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guys, what, if you want
to throw a party now, they're gonna
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hire the person with the electronic equipment, not the stuff, because it's not
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a scratch battle. You know,
it's just like so sometimes you're gonna embrace
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the change, but it's hard.
So what, when we come from what
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we know and what we like and
what we're have an affinity for, what's
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that like? Nostalgic? What we're
nostalgic for? I feel yeah, I
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know food fighter said they made this
comment maybe like five years ago at this
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point, and they said, you
know, they record as a band,
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you know, not like individual parts, but they record as a band and
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as a whole, and it's not
it's it's they try to say as authentic
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as they can to the whole process
of what they did back in the nineties.
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But that's the only that's that's it. That's all I can think of
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right now. Get over it,
anyway. Okay, I'm over it.
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Rands over. I'm not over it, but no, it sucks. It's
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sad. It is sad because I
what came on the radio the other day,
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if not yesterday, two days ago. was six, nine or not.
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You're not on the radio, but
on my spotify, right, yeah,
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Dun cloud something, and I'm like, and even he in an interview,
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was like yeah, Bro, all
I say is like, have you
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listened to my songs? All I
say that. See what what he's like
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that. I'm not saying anything,
BRO, and I'm like, I know,
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but it was. That's that's one
of his songs comes on and I'm
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just like this stuff fucking disgrace to
everything. But I mean, okay,
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the throwing money at these people,
what the fuck? You know what I
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do? I do you appreciate him
for telling that truth? He's like,
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I know, I'm a ridiculous yeah, I think I like him, but
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for but like, let's just talk
about the quality of music. Like,
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Oh God, off his music.
I mean fun me, but he obvious
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he had a great marketing ploy and
ship yeah, that's all it is today.
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And so a lot of the problems
that they had back in the day
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with Queen, when, you know, the management company was making all the
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money and they didn't see a dime
and they were starving and stuff. That
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problem has not been solved. That
happening with Queen. It happened with in
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sync or whatever. But, like, how do we fix that? You
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know, it's sad. You don't, because it's okay, it's music.
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Is Not a burning man event.
It's not for pleasure, it's for it's
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business. Okay, music is business. If it was for pleasure and it
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was for like, okay, the
orchestra is music. Is Music based on
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talent. They get the best violenist, the best people in their craft and
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you know, I'll never understand any
of the stuff they do, but you
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know, they do incredible things and
but they they're none of them are millionaires,
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but but they probably enjoy you know
what I mean, right, and
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they enjoy it. And that's the
thing. Like they and they are the
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people that enjoy music and harness it
and love it like we do. These
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people. You gotta look this way. You're gonna wear this, wear this
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and you need to your yeah,
know, that's that's what they do,
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that's it's a business. Jimi Hendricks
up and they were told to do that.
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That's how they are, that's who
they are. That's you know,
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Jimmy Hendricks played the left hand and
guitar, bore the scarf around his head.
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And now everyone's like whatever their manager, whatever their stylists, says,
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um, because it's more of a
business now. You know, back then
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it was like wishy washy, and
then you had superstars like Hendrix, because
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all the the times too, it's
like after no, and he's he's all
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about peace and yeah, everyone's tripped
and they go see Hendrix. He's amazing.
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And now everyone loves hendricks. So
now people, I. can make
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money and bag money here. So
now you get the vultures, you know.
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the nineties. I guess. How
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do we solve it? Before I
forget, not here's how we solve it.
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We we provide financial literacy to the
artist, because, guess what,
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the NFL in the I don't know
if other sports places are doing it,
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but the NFL is requiring the rookies
to take Um. I think it's two
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semesters of financial literacy. Yeah,
that is so smart. It's an awesome
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move and I think that that's the
way that because then pick and choose their
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deals and see which ones you know, they won't get fucked exactly. If
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they do, it's their own fault. At least they'll know what they're getting
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into. So I think financial literacy, because we're not going to change the
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companies, so we're gonna change the
people, the infl yeah, and I
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also think this apply. This concept
should apply to whoever gets voted into any
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kind of office politically. They should
take a test on what the first ten
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amendments are. That's it. What
are the amendments? Take a little quiz.
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What's an amendment three? Amendment four? We all know what amendment one
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and two are, but what's the
rest of them? I don't I don't
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know exactly. Political politicians need to
know what they're talking about, because right
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now they're saying, oh, they're
gonna take our guns. No, Bro,
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we can't. It's not that we're
not gonna take your guns. Read
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the Damn Constitution before you go out
and say all these things. If everybody
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read those who is currently holding office
and the craziest they have to pass that
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test first. If they don't pass
that test, that means they don't even
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care. You know what I mean, like if you want to be an
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audience defending the government, tests right
in school and ship. And if they
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pass another one, doesn't mean they're
gonna behave, because the reason they're not.
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But if they don't pass do you
think right now Donald Trump would pass?
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Yeah, the test, you're you're
kidding me on what? On the
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first on the top ten, the
amendments of the Constitution? Yeah, yeah,
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I think most of the people would
know. Absolutely not. I disagree,
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wholeheartedly disagree. Well, okay,
the point is, even if they
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don't know them, if they were
going to have to take a test,
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a bother them? They just study
them, know them, pass the test
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and then my point is, if
they know them or if they don't know
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him, you're gonna get the same
outcome. It would be the level of
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effort. I think a lot of
people would how much effort did you put
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into memorize and just a few things
to pass the tests at school? None,
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okay, ten minutes could study.
Well, it would show a lot,
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because I'm sure there's it wouldn't show
that much. What would show a
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lot. Is this is they're gonna
have a law in place where this is
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what Warren Bobby said. I act
and and and I'M gonna paraphrase it wrong,
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but it's something like this. People
in the in the in the in
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government, should only be able to
keep their jobs, probably this. They
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get fired if their policies end up
putting us in debt or losing US money.
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Okay, then everybody would shape up
quick because they wouldn't have because what
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they're doing is acting and self interests. They know what the funk they're doing.
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There's every there every I can't even
get into it, but everything they're
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doing right now is not in the
public's interest or what the public wants.
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Politics a game and it's a zero
sum game in my kin, and I
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feel like don't matter whose president,
don't matter nothing. I agree. Yeah,
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it's gonna Happen and it is what
it is, and I think there's
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no way to disprove that, because
you can't get in the time machine and
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pick someone else and they say,
Oh, I told you that would happen.
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You know, they can say whatever
they want, but it's not happen.
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You don't even want to go here
with me. But look, I
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don't I know. Everything was fine
when we were youngsters, Um, and
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now they're crazy. So, yeah, I'm starting my own country. You
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fix a problem, you get to
make a law, but it has to
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be approved by, you know,
cabin I thought about moving like I feel.
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I mean, I'm a coster RECON
citizen. So did you know that?
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I said I'm a cooster reconsider since
so I can where where you're gonna
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move? Let's be honest. Costa
Rica, San Jose, Costa Rica,
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because they're okay, so down there. No, there's gonna be a civil
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war here. And like, Oh
my God, Dude, are you?
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Are you of America already says that
there's a civil war coming, but I'm
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saying like, people are gonna go
take unto the streets. For Real,
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that's already had. That's happening every
day. You're not realized that? No,
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I realize that, but I'm not
talking about how it is today.
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I'm talking about no, there's not
gonna be red coats and blue coats.
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There's just not. It's not gonna
be a civil war like that. Ever.
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and Um, we are in a
civil and a civil war where a
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civil divide. Yeah, and that's
getting worse. But I don't think that's
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what that's that's my plan. That's
not by accident. That's why I refused
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to feed into it and talk to
people. I feed into it because I
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think I watched too much news,
because I just get so stressed out.
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I want to for Congress. I'm
running for president, Kennedy hair and I'm
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Kennedy, good looking, Massachusetts,
Massachusetts. I'm a candidate. I'll be
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no, I want to be president. You can be vice present or CO
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presidents. I refuse to report to
you. That's facts. You ain't even
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reporting to me, sweetheart. You'RE
gonna report to like the person that reports
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to the person that reports to me. After that comment's fuck, you just
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got fired. Actually, alright,
I want to work with you anyway.
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You're you're the worst. I can't
you want that bunch. They want to
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Luke in your house. Okay,
okay, so you're in the music.
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Let's do this real quick. I
played this game the other day with somebody.
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Um, so it'll be for each
of the the decade. What is
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your favorite song from this whatever decades? And it can be a guest,
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because I don't sometimes it's sixties sometimes
it's like Seventies. You know what I
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mean? M Hm. So,
so, starting with right now, who's
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your favorite artists? This is not
gonna go well because I don't have one.
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Yeah, thanks for ruining the game. No, I'm not ruining it,
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would be playing it. You're saying
you don't listen to any music right
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now. Is that? Is that
what I said? Or did I say
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I don't have a favorite artist?
Shut up, man. Well, no,
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I can't remember. What did I
say? Yeah, that's right.
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The second let's say you want to
be a podcast list all right, Um,
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what about right now? I'm back
on Queen. Yeah, you're doing
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the study and research. Yeah,
I know, but I mean when I
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play the guitar, it's different,
like I like to play. Certainly.
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Oh, do you watch? Do
you watch that stranger things or no?
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Yeah, but I haven't gotten.
I've stopped after a season, fucking one
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and a half. You don't like
it. After two I didn't like and
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I'm just over it. Just stick
to four. I'll fill you in.
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There's a recap to every season and
it's way different. It's this one's more
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of a horror movie versus the other
ones that were like well, there's a
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monster tracing alien movies and monster movies, the ones that have real good build
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ups. They need to have a
good monster or else it's ruins the entire
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movie. Yeah, like it's happening
and I think it's like a serial killer
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and it ends up being like,
Oh, an ancient curse, and I'm
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like, alright, Sonny, I'm
back, come back from the other okay.
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So I think we would like season
four because the scariest part about it
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is that it gets people if they
have issues that they haven't dealt with yet.
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The UH, his name is whatever, the Bekna, is like this
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really scary person that feeds off of
feeds off of the people that have emotional
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issues that they need to deal with. So like one kid felt really guilty
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that he was in a car accident
with his friends and the car was burning
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and he didn't really kind of help
um so that they took him kind of
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out of consciousness and they killed him
in real life and in the I don't
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know, you just have to see
it, because it breaks me out,
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because I'm like do I not have
I like when they were just in the
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arcade and the monster was coming,
and now it's too involved you know,
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like alternate universe, upside down,
downside up, and this that all the
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kids are growing up. You know
what, this weekend I watched season one
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through three so that I could just
just remember it all, because there's so
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much. They have one more season
left, so I just wanted to make
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sure that I pick up on everything. They are so adorable when they start
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getting into, because people are telling
me to get into it was trailer Park
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Boys. What's that on Netflix?
What is it called? Trailer Park Boys?
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Yeah, that's pretty funny. Yeah, because one of the guy's name
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is ricky. So everyone's like,
Oh, reggy, Oh yeah, you
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like smoking weed, you like smoking. I go oh, yeah, there's
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there's one about Canada that's kind of
like that style. It's on Hulu,
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though, and I think you would
love it. I think you would think
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it's pretty hilarious. Um, I
gotta I'll figure it out. You Have
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Hulu. Maybe I got it all
right last time. You did most of
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the talking, I think this time, but pretty even. That's why I
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tried to scale back, because I
don't like myself. I don't like I
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don't either, but I gotta get
used to it. Now. We're never
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really huh. What are you gonna
do after this? Jack off to your
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Avatar? I don't like him.
Appreciate the honesty. More like that.
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What would you say I was?
I was I was raised not to be
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a liar. No, I don't
know what am I gonna do. Actually,
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I do know what I'm gonna do
after this. I'm gonna Watch sort
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of trailer park boys. Well,
I got some good fucking ship today at
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the dispensary, so I'm gonna roll
one up, roll a hog leg up
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right and then go into outer space
and then, uh, watch an episode
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trail park boys and then wash up
and go to bed. Okay, what
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gross? Okay, so if you, if you will jump on board with
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stranger things, which just sounds like
you won't. They have those options where
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you can watch for somebody else,
you know, you can like, you
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can like a sink it up to
where there's an option. They're like,
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Oh, this is a watch party, and then the people can get on
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that watch party. I like your
red headphones, by the way. Thank
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you. They're beat spy DRE.
They're very you right now watching panic at
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the disco on TV. He's a
really good singer, that Brandon Urie,
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did you ever listen to panic at
the disco? No, isn't it panic
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at the disco? Really can necessary
to get the apt up in the middle
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of your band name at the discobout? How wham? Did they have a
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Pham One of those bands? I
don't know. I think so. I
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think you need to go to bed. Maybe it that was an album cover.
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Uh. Queen is the is the
thirty third most streamed artists as of
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today. Anyway, I could say
you're you care very much and you're very
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interesting. First of all, I
don't really know who. Damn well,
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thank you for joining me on this
episode, episode number two, I think.
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Thanks for having alright. Alright,
thank you, sir. Signing off.
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I'll talk to you sooner than later. Bye. Right, okay,
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I'm shutting this off. Thanks for
listening. I'd be like what you heard.
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