Aug. 1, 2023

The Art of Calling with The Savvy Sales Lady Christine Harrington

The Art of Calling with The Savvy Sales Lady Christine Harrington

Welcome to another episode of Sales Made Easy! In today's episode titled The Art of Calling we are diving deep into the world of making phone calls and how to navigate them with finesse.

Our guest, Christine Harrington, brings her expertise in transforming objections into opportunities for success. We'll be exploring the importance of acknowledging objections, recognizing when they are just excuses, and learning how to respond with gratitude.

From crafting a concise introduction to rehearsing like a professional comedian, we'll discover the strategies that can turn sales calls into lucrative deals. So sit back, grab your notepad, and get ready for some invaluable sales wisdom!

Christine is found here:

linkedin.com/in/christineharringtonsavvysaleslady

Complimentary Coaching Session https://christineharrington.com/

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Start out with just one call. But before you

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pick that phone up to make a call, write out a

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script. Recorded in your voice memo on your iPhone.

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Listen back how you sound because that's

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how the prospect will hear you. I even to this day,

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Harry, I'll practice 10 to 15 times before I

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pick that phone up. I'm warming up my voice.

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Everyone, what is the good word? Today with me, I have Christine

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Harrington, She does a lot of good things in this world for

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small businesses, helping them make calls

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It's one of the things that a lot of people dread and Christine is going

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to help us to get through that today. So Christine Harrington,

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welcome to the sales made easy podcast What's the good word?

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Hey, Harry. Thank you so much for having me on. It's a real

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honor to be with you, and The good

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word is you have to practice

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when you're selling. Oh my goodness. There is

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so much that you just said right there about

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practice. I can think of one time

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to kick this off, I was to make this very

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important call, and I bumble through it

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completely stuttering and stammering. And then I

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just hung up the phone, and I was new on the sales

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job. My managers looked at in horror, and he says, you should have

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hit pound. And I'm like, what does pound do? because I didn't know. And he

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says that will allow you to erase what you just said. I'm like,

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Well, they're gonna have a fun message. So, yes,

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practice. So talk to me, Christine. What is it you do? because we're gonna

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get into that and how great you can help people and stuff. But

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what is it you do and what yeah. Just let's go with that.

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Okay. So I have 4 decades in

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selling, mostly insurance corporate insurance

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sales. So back in the day, my businesses

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can is will be ten years old. So back in the day, I

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would have brokers and producers come to me and say, how are

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you getting into these large groups,

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large businesses to sell group benefits. And so I started coaching them on

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my

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strategies. So I thought, why am I giving

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this away for free? And I transitioned into

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a a business platform

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of sales coaching and training. The cracks of that,

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Harry, was at the time I was with principal insurance

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aid company, the principal insurance company,

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my dad was in hospice dying, and my boss wouldn't let me

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off work. to be with my dad when he was dying.

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I had 4 weeks vacation wasn't allowed to take it,

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and she said I could see my dad before work or

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after work, and I said I am not letting my dad die alone.

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I tied up all my work, my desk, I

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tried to appeal to HR, to her boss, kept getting the same

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message. So I tidied everything else, and I left.

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My dad died 2 weeks later, and I was by his side,

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I told him I took 2 weeks vacation.

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So I didn't want him to know anything. So

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after that, My dad was my buddy, Harry.

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And he taught me to love football, and I

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watched football every Sunday with him Bart

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Star and Vince Lombardi, the Green Bay Packers. So

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so that puts me way back. Oh, that's

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great. And so as a result,

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I decided that I was gonna start my own coaching business

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because I had producers calling me saying what happened to you? Where are you?

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Tell me how you got such and such deal. And so I started my

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own sales coaching and training business, and it's now

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a decade long. And, of course, I

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do coaching, I do training,

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and I also do cold calling

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for small businesses because Harry,

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as you know, everybody hates cold calling,

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and I happen to love it. But

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during COVID, when all my workshops were shut

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down, because they were all live in front of people, I had to do

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something to make up that revenue So I started

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reaching out to small businesses and co calling for them. Oh

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my goodness. So you live what you preach

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Yes. Yes. Which is really cool. So where do we

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start with this? What's the big challenge or what are some of the

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challenges that people have with making phone calls?

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Well, the biggest one is call reluctance. So

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they they it's like this phone or their

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desk phone weighs a £1000.

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And they they will give them every excuse

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under the sun not to make those calls. Yep. And, of

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course, you have heard that cold calling is

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dead. Now it's not dead. Oh,

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yeah. Cold calling is dead. -- times. Yes. Right.

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Right. And, really, what the people that say

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that, what they're saying is they're lousy at co calling. So it is dead to

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them. Yeah. and I used to be, Harry, I

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was the worst co caller ever. I was embarrassingly

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bad. And I decided that if I was

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gonna survive, I was gonna have to learn how to

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cold call. It took me about a year,

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about 2 decades ago to really understand well, actually

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longer than 3 decades ago to really understand how to

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co call and how to be effective when co calling.

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Yep. Yeah. The call reluctance

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is is definitely a a thing. And people of

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course, they're hearing all of this negativity that cold calling is dead, but I

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think people even struggle on making very warm

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calls. Oh, yes. Yes. They just don't wanna

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interrupt people, and they don't wanna appear pushy. So it sounds like you

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agree with that. So What's what can people do? Let's

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just start there. Let's start with how can we

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help people just make some calls that

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are actually pretty warm and that might

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generate some business quicker sooner rather than later. What's your thought with

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that? I always tell people, I coach people. If you

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have call reluctance, just make one call today.

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That's it. Just make one call.

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And depending on how that call makes, if you feel like

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making another call, make 2 calls.

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Tomorrow make one call. So, start

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out with just one call. But before

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you pick that phone up to make a call, write

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out a script. You're not going to sit and

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read the script. You're gonna write that script out, and

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you're gonna practice at 10 to 15 recorded in

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your voice memo on your iPhone.

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Listen back how you sound because that's

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how the prospect will hear you. Mhmm. And that's so important

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for you to know how that prospect is gonna hear you.

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I even to this date, Harry, I'll practice 10

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to 15 times before I pick that phone up. I'm

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warming up my voice. Mhmm. I'm getting in the mind

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set. I'm getting in the rhythm, and so then I

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engaged the phone. So it's just like

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a football player would never go cold and on the

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field to play a game. They always have their

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warm up first. we as salespeople

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need to put ourselves in that elite position

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because that's what we are. We're elite salespeople.

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So even the best salespeople

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practice. It's beautiful. And I

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and for those who don't agree with you, I'll tell you

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that I used to joke around on the first

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calls I'd make in the morning. Because I would call somebody, I

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would butcher the call And then after doing this a number of

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times, I said, you know what? I should start a list of the

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people who are unfortunate enough to get my first call of

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the day and start all over those people because I

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bet there's opportunity there if I was halfway decent

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instead of butcheering the the pitch or

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whatever I was trying to do on the call. So, yeah, that makes

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perfect sense. Well, even last week, Harry, when I was

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cold calling, I made a call. I had

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a call coming in on my phone at the same time. I

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got distracted. And when when the decision

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maker picked up, I totally fumbled the whole

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thing. And I started laughing.

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He started laughing. He goes, well, shall we do this again?

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Oh my goodness. So gay. So, yeah, when

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you screw up, just own it and make fun of it,

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make fun of yourself, and I gave him a good

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laugh. I had a good laugh. It's so like,

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people are just regular people. When they sense

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that you're a regular person, they give you the chance. That's

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exactly right. I love it. I remember coaching a young

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sales rep one time. And he says, I'm really

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struggling in making calls. And so I I had the little sarcastic wit

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from the northeast who I grew up with. So he makes a call, and it

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was terrible. It was indeed terrible. And I said, how feel about that call? And

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he says it was terrible. I said, yeah, it was terrible. We're laughing about it.

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because here's one. How about we call the person back and say that the last

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call was terrible, can I get another chance? And he did.

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And sure enough, it went perfectly. Right? Because the person was

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laughing on the other end. They probably never had that happen

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before, and it's just like, hey. Life is short. Let's have some

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fun along the way. And this we're not saving babies. And when you

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have an attitude like that, I think you can be fairly successful.

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What's your thought with just this whole thing like what we're talking about?

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Yeah. I mean, I'm I'm I am coaching right now.

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4 teams of pea of ladies for the Teleberty Foundation,

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and they have never done fun work at all. Mhmm. So

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I'm teaching them how to cold call. And, of course,

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they are all over the place. They oh, this is so

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hard. I don't know what to say. And so so I would

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throw them off. They'd have to role play with me, and I throw them

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off with real world

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examples. And so I said the script is a

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guide, but you have to be able

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to come up, and this is another thing I do. Harry, when I take

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on a small business to do the cold calling for them, I wanna

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know every objection you've ever gotten.

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Then I write out a response to manage that

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objection. See, I don't believe in overcoming

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objections. I believe in managing the objection.

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So when you manage the objections, you manage the conversation.

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Oh my goodness. That's so good. So let's dive deeper

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into that when you say managed versus overcoming.

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So what's what's an example? Like, someone will

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say, for instance, we're all set. That's a pretty common one.

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Right? Or I'm busy. What's what is

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one that really jumps out at you as really common? Well, let's

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just use. We're all set. Okay. Or I mean, we're all

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set. We don't know. We don't need that.

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We're not interested. Right away, you come back

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with, or or here's a common one. Hey. I'm

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headed into a meeting. I can't talk right now. For all of those,

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you're gonna say one thing. Thank you for

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letting me know with a question.

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Thank you for letting me know. Tell me, are there

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any gaps in the vendors you're currently using?

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I mean, whatever it is the product that you're saying. So you're

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acknowledging that we're all set. Thank you

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for letting me know. it's a perfect response for

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every objection you get. You're being

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respectful, and you're also

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Oh, how can I say this? You're being respectful. You're also

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acknowledging that they think that they're set.

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We both know that's an excuse. Sure.

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Right? It's just an excuse. You've interrupted

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their day, So they're giving you an excuse

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right off the bat. Another common

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mistake is Sales people's intros

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are all over the place. Your intro has to be very

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tight and concise 4 sentences at the most, and that's

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it. Yeah. So let's just just the

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thank you for letting me know is is beautiful.

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What sometimes people feel is when a

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person says they're all set, and I've heard people say, well, I make calls. People

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say they're not interested. I got zero appointments and all of this

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stuff. Right? It's because they haven't really developed the

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skills. Yes. It's like you you when people

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view sales as a numbers game, and I get the whole thing

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that you have to have numbers. Right? You have to have activity.

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But if you treat everything like a number,

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you get through the number and you're not dealing with the person

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in front of you. Right? So if someone says, my goal

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today is to make whatever the number of calls. I gotta make 10

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calls. I need to make a 100 calls. So pick a

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number. If you're thinking that you have to make

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x number of calls, you sometimes lose sight of the

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person that is alive and speaking to

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you. And if we develop some skills where we

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can say things comfortably, thank you for letting

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me know. Let's say that 50 times or 20 times till we

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get very comfortable with thank you for letting me know, and

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then you ask a question. Right? because now people are

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just completely thrown off by the fact that you

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stayed, thank them, and now you're

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asking a question. It's like they don't know where to turn, which is which

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is a good thing because you're there to serve them. That's right. What's your

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thought? Right? Yeah. Yeah. That's exactly right, Harry,

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because the last thing you wanna do is

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As you said, see that person as just another phone call number

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you have to make to make your boss happy. Right?

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So instead, when you say thank you for

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letting me know, that almost

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is a a compassionate response.

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Right? So now they see you as a human being.

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And and I have had so much success with that

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one line. And instead

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of pushing like I hear so many times,

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I've heard salespeople say, no. We're all set.

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Well, wait. Before before you say that, listen

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to what we have to offer or something aggressive like that.

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And the other mistake is they start

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selling instead of asking questions.

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And why do you ask questions? Okay? You ask

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questions to warm the the the

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prospect up to talk to you. You ask questions

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to uncover. Is this prospect a fit or not?

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But your only goal your only

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goal in cold calling is to set an appointment. That's

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it. Yep. And if someone starts asking

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you questions, you can say

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that's ver those are very good questions. when

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we meet, I would be happy

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to give you in-depth discussions on all of those

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questions and get them answered for you. Beautiful.

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Don't start selling right then and there because they don't know

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you and they don't care. Yeah. Yep.

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Exactly. And so this this thought that's

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coming to me right now is about the pace

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of your conversation. So

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when people who are nervous and are making calls, They just

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wanna get as much out, it seems like, especially newer

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ones, wanna get as much out as possible before

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the person says no. or before the person says I'm I'm

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all set. So they've got this really fast pace. It's

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uncomfortable the person who's listening

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is, like, I'm just gonna wait until there's a pause so I could say I'm

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not interested. What's your feeling about pace

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and conversational quality when you're making

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your when you're introducing yourself speaking to somebody?

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Well, pace is important. You don't wanna sound like you're

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off to the races, and a lot of people when

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they're nervous, They start talking faster. So I

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always coach salespeople

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to pretend you're picking up that phone and you're

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calling a good friend. Mhmm. Your tone should be

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casual and friendly, your words professional. But

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pretend you're talking to a good friend. Hello hello,

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Harry. This is Christine with the savvy sales lady.

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excuse me, my voice. Yeah. No problem. Yeah. So,

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like, even that where you're when you're

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thinking about calling a good friend that

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puts you in the mindset of this is

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not a life or death situation. Right? We put

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too much pressure on ourselves, and that

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comes across. So thinking about the positive potential

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outcomes I used to think along the lines that this

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person could become a good friend of mine. And

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so I'm gonna go in with that thinking and a lot of

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not a lot of times, but a number of times that comes across with a

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very pleasant conversation. So continue with where you are going about

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calling a friend. Yeah. So it would

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sound something like, hi, Harry. This is Christine

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Harrington with widget WABC. We

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sell widgets to help businesses grow. Harry, are

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you still the sales manager for your

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team? I am. But, Christine, I'm we're

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really all set with the widgets that we currently have. Well,

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thank you for letting me know, Harry. I get that.

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What would be the gap in your widget portfolio?

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Well, we really don't have anything in the mid

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range. We're very good on the low end and really great on the

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high end, but yeah, a little little gap in the mid range.

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Well, can you tell me more about what you're missing in that mid range?

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Yeah, we really don't have a newer product,

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and it's been a while, so we're a little behind the eight ball on

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that. I know that they're in development and looking at

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things, but, yeah, it's been a while in coming, so we're we're

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making do. I see. So

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if I hear you correctly, you do have a gap,

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but you haven't fully explored it yet. So would there be another

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person that might be vital for us to talk to

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and bring into the conversation? Yeah. That's a really Bill

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Smith's area. I mean, if you want, I could

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pass you over to him. Okay, that would be great.

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What is Bill's phone number and email? Yeah, and I'll

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give you that. Right? Okay. And so

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one more thing, Harry. Would you make an

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introduction for me to bill so he won't be blindsided

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like I blindsided you on this call. Yeah. You seem to

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be a nice enough person. I'll be happy to do that for you. Okay.

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Thank you, Harry. Nice approach. Ta

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da. Yes. That that ladies and gentlemen is a

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woman with some experience and skills in calling.

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So much good there. Right? So you

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you're asking the question. You're getting a second level

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question. in there, right, which tells me

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something that you're an educated caller, which

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there's value. And if you're not an educated caller,

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then I'm probably not gonna want to help help you help

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me. Right. Then right? And so then

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the asking that and then

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recognizing that I don't have the answer. Now you've

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got a live person, and instead of saying, this guy

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obviously doesn't know, I can ask if he can get

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me somebody, and I can use and move myself further

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inside the business and provide some help

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that way. And then the third thing, is

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asking, what, getting a phone number and email, which is perfect.

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Right? So that's the 3rd thing because now you've got 2 ways to

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communicate. And then the 4th thing

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is, I think they're 4, but whatever the last thing is getting that warm

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introduction. So I'm gonna look at this call

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and say, if you're one of my sales reps, you

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didn't get the appointment, but we got a lot of great

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info. That's right. Right? And that great info has

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gotta go somewhere. because if you're making a

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lot of calls, you're not going to remember this. So what is it

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you suggest to do next? Okay. What and what

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step to do? So after after the phone

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after the hang up, you call the other person, they're not

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there. we won't go into that. But now you have all this stuff in

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your mind, what do you do with it? Okay. So

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before I call the other person, I'll prepare

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a voice mail script in case I get a voice

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mail. Mhmm. Nice. Alright. Yep. So I always

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keep my voice mails very

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short. So I I I'm just talking off my top of my

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head now. Yep. But gravity is good because -- Yeah. -- after

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a certain period of time, people are gonna say this too long.

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So when you think of Brevity, what comes to mind for you?

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20 seconds at the max. Beautiful. Yeah. I was gonna say max 30

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seconds. So, yeah, so even better. 20 seconds. Okay?

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So now what I do that's use that's unusual

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is At least to the people I coach, it seems

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unusual. I will leave the voice

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mail message then immediately turn around,

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put the same message in an email. Mhmm. And

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I'll say something like A Bill. Hello,

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Bill. I just left you a short voice message for your convenience.

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I thought I'd drop you the same message. in an email,

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hairy ass that I give you a call, and then I just

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very short, very short. about your

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gaps in widgets. Very short.

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Then I this is the most important thing when you're

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doing email. And everybody does this, and that makes

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me crissy on my day. I can't

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wait. They say, let me know if you

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have any questions. Oh my god. You're

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right. The let me know is just yeah. Okay. Beautiful.

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So you always -- What's better? What's better? Yeah. You

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always end your emails by

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saying I'll give you a call

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on such and such day to see if

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any questions surface. And then

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that day, I will send them a reminder

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email that I'm calling, and I'll say,

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Just just a courtesy reminder that I'll be calling at such and

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such time to answer any questions that may have surfaced.

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I'll say, hopefully, you'll be available to take my call.

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And then I call. And if I get voice

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mail again, then I'll do the whole routine

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all over again. Yep. because if you don't

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leave a voice mail on that one, What's the

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danger? Well, here's a true story.

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Okay? An office that I worked in

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the sales rep would never leave voice

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mails. Never. And so the person

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could see from the caller ID where they were calling, and they

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would never leave a voice mail. And he would call two or three times a

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week if he got voice mail, hang up. Well, this went on for about

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a month. Call the op our office was just

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infuriated and said, tell them to either

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leave me a message or quit stalking

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me. Yeah. That's great. True story.

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Mhmm. Yeah. Well, right, we don't know how people are going to respond. But,

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yes, what I was thinking too is that if you say you're going to do

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something, and you do it at the time you say you're going to

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do it, that's a check-in the plus column.

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Yes. Because How many how many

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surveys have we looked at that says

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the sales rep only follows up one time? Mhmm.

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Yep. Exactly. Yep. I mean, it's crazy.

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Yep. One one of my specialties other than

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cold calling is crafting email messages to get

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the prospect's attention. Ever room that for that for some

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reason? I don't know why. But Because you're a

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personable person. Right? You already show empathy and compassion,

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so I'm out of a feeling that's part of the reason. I'm

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I'm I can easily put myself in other people's shoes -- Mhmm.

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-- and try to figure out how they will react to

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a message In the 10 years I've been coaching,

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Harry, I have seen absolute

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patterns of behavior. And I heard

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Tony Robbins talk about this for years. He always talks about look for

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the patterns of behavior. Mhmm. And when I started coaching, I'm

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going, oh my gosh. He's right. There are

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patterns of behavior. And and so

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if people will become more self aware of their patterns of

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behavior, they can absolutely stop

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some of their sabotaging behavior. On the same token,

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it also increases your

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your awareness of how someone else is

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gonna respond as well. Bro.

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Yeah. I think they call that emotional intelligence now. I think so.

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I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. Something like that. Yeah. This this whole thing,

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first of all, when you talk about awareness and self awareness. So

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if you're which is, again, part of the the EQ thing.

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Right? So if you're not feeling up for it, I'm gonna

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go to that thought, right, where you're feeling like the phone weighs

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a £1000 that nobody's interested. that it's

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drudgery. This is the one I just I was creating a video on

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that sales is a grind Right?

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So when you have all this negative stuff going through your

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head, is that when you wanna make phone calls

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or should you be doing something between that and

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actually dialing? Yeah, you should be practicing.

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Okay? And what else might you do? What do you what do you do to,

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like, for attitude and so forth? So

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When call reluctance, when that phone feels a

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£1000 heavy, What it what you're

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dreading is not the phone call. You're dreading you'll screw

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up. You're dreading you're gonna screw the call up. You're

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dreading that you won't sound professional

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enough and that now they got your

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name, And and this is the cold

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caller that can't make cold calls. So

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the cure to that is you practice until you

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feel confident. See, people always go in

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thinking they're gonna puff themselves up and be confident and

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and kinda bulldoze their way through the phone call. Yep.

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If you're competent, the confidence will

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automatically be there. Work on

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being competent. And the only way

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you can be competent is practice

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and make the phone calls. So

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in the beginning, when I got serious about

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cold calling, It's awful. Alright. I

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can't wait. Who what a setup this is? You you're you're

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laughing before I get the punch line. Alright. Come on. Yeah.

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So I would take the prospects, and I didn't

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care about it all. And I would practice on them.

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Yeah. That's not so bad. Right. I would practice

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on the ones that I felt like weren't a fit for me.

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Whatever I was selling at the time. Oh my goodness. Yep. And

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that's I honed my skills on them. It's

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beautiful. Yeah. It's it's like Chris Rock or

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some comedian going to a open mic night to test out

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the audience. Right? It's not like they really care, but it's like they're laughing.

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I could use this on my performance. So, yeah, that

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makes that makes perfect sense, actually. Anyway, that's

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a good point. The professionals do it.

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Yeah. The professional comedians do it. Yeah. Yeah.

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Exactly. And speakers are not showing up without rehearsing a speech.

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a whole bunch of times. And this is our livelihood.

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Right? When you're making like, especially, I think and and the big one

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is making a follow-up

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phone call. Right? You've had conversations with somebody. They

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have a proposal And I know that you really focus on the cold

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calling, but you have to you have to do what we have to do.

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Right? because you write business You have to do all the steps of the

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sales process. And I imagine you think through them all.

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So you have an important phone call to make, person said

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that they were going to review the proposal. You reviewed it with them. They had

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to get someone else's input or whatever, and now you

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need to make the call. Do you make that call

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with any intentionality, or could you be, like, just

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sitting down in your office to start the day and say, oh, I gotta make

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this call. I'm gonna go call and see what they're thinking about and not do

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any rehearsal. not review the proposal or I

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I know you do, but tell me, what are what is the step? What are

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the steps you go through? Well, this

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goes back to my group benefit days and beyond.

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I used to be the rep that sent out the proposals, sent out

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the quotes, and I would and 1

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night, my son had been in went to bed was in bed It was

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like 10 o'clock at night. I'm going through all my emails, and I

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and I was like a a a boatload. A boatload of

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emails that never got a response to my quote or

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proposal. I mean, it I'm thinking it was,

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like, 60 or 70. It was a lot. and I'm going,

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what in the world is going on? Why isn't anybody

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responding? And that what we all say, why aren't they

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responding? It's not their job.

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Bob is ours to follow-up.

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So that's one light bulb moment I had.

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That is so good. We we blame

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the person for our bad email. or

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our bad voice message. We're blaming them. What's

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wrong with people today? I heard that one a million times. I

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might have said it myself Okay. Continue.

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So I started doing this

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instead. I I would tell

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them the quote is ready. When is a

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good time for you either Monday or Tuesday that we

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can have a phone conversation and go over the

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quote. and or the

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proposal. So I stopped giving the

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quotes and proposals out and either I talked

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them through it over the phone, or I met with

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them face to face. So what I would do is when

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the call when I was on the phone with them, I would

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say, okay. I'm gonna send a quote now, and let me

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know when you get it. Okay. I got it. And I said, I

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I wanna make sure you can open the attachment.

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That was the other reason why I would say that

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I wanted to do this over the phone or in person to make sure they

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could open the quote because I did have some problems with

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that. However, Not only did they not

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read my email, they never opened the attachments as well. So

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I'm like, why am I wasting my time doing this? When I should be the

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one leading So so then I would have

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them open up the quote or the proposal, and then

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I would say, I'd like to bring your attention to

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line such and such, and then line such and such, and then we would have

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a conversation. Sold the deal,

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got the implementation team together, to implement

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it, and won down. Yes. So you are well

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prepared. Yeah. Right. The key thing here is

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to be extremely prepared, and I I'm willing to bet

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you've heard once or twice where people just say, just send me the

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proposal, and you might say something along the lines as

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well. I really would like to

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review the proposal so that you understand exactly what we're

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proposing here or whatever you say, And they say, I'll just send it. I'll

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figure it out or whatever. What do you do in that case? Maybe it's, like,

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the second time that they said, just send it.

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I I wouldn't do it. Yeah. I would say I would just say if

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it's easier for me to drop by your office and review it,

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let's do that. But my process is that we review it together. Yeah. Yeah. And,

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you know, if they -- -- the

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tell You have to tell them your

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process because they don't know your process. And and and, Harry, to

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go one step further, I eliminated

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that objection because I told them my

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process. I would do the quote I give you a call or

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email. Let you know when it's ready, and then we'd set up an

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appointment for the to review the quote.

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And I would say at the end, this is for your benefit. That's why I

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don't

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just send out quotes. Beautiful. Magic. You you you over or do you manage it

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in in the front end, letting them know your process because they don't know your

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process. Right. And -- That's how -- Okay.

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That's how I separated myself from other vendors, because all they

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did was just quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote,

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quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote,

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quote, quote, quote, Yes. And they have in

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their mind x number proposal leads into x number results. And,

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again, it's a numbers game for them instead of a skills game.

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And so, like, this this this great idea, which I love. And I'm just what

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the heck was I gonna say? It was brilliant.

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But, yes, even the brilliant ones lose their thoughts periodically. Now let me let me

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-- Okay. You take over from here. -- your thought

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I did. I had 2 of them. 1 was this opportunity of people

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who had proposals that never did anything.

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So, if you're listening to this podcast, there's

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money in those hills. On people

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that have proposals They've never even opened

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some of them, and they've a lot of them have never done

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anything. And so calling back those

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people is an opportunity. What's your thought? I I I agree. And you call them

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up and you apologize.

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You apologize for not getting back to them

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and following up and going through the proposal.

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You do it that way. Let me say this, Harry.

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Back in the day, I was doing almost 300

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proposals a month So it wasn't

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possible for me to do all the phone calls --

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Right. -- follow-up and all of the face to face proposals.

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So you have to be smart about the

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number of proposals you can do that with, and

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who you wanna do that with. Right. Yep. Okay. So let me

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back up and say that. Now those of you that have let

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your proposals on being neglected

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from this day forward, you are the

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one responsible for delivering

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that proposal either over the phone or face to face

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or over Zoom, it's your responsibility to go

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through every part of that proposal with them to

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close the deal. For the ones that have been neglected, you

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call them up, you apologize, and you ask to book

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a time with them, an appointment with them to

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review that proposal. Hopefully, they haven't already

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gone to another vendor, and you can save it. But if you

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didn't say if they've already went to another vendor,

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then ask them for the opportunity to quote it at

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renewal time or a year from now

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or whatever it works in your industry.

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Ask them for the opportunity down the road. Yeah. And

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they'll appreciate the fact that you're following up. Again, very few people

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do. So when you do it, it's just you stand

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out. Christine, this is remarkable. I cannot believe

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I said we're gonna do this for an hour, like, 45 minutes into this. So

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time flies when you're having fun. How can people

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find more of your super stardom and work with you and all of

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that would be very helpful for many, I'm sure.

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So I go by the savvy sales lady,

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And I have a my website is pretty

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robust www.christineharrington.com.

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on I have over 300 YouTube videos to

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help you sell. They're free. That's at the

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savvy sales lady or goop or just search for Christine

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Harrington, and I have a cold calling

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course coming out that will be sold

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on my website, and it will go deeper

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into The words that matter

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how to the words you should be using, when

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you're cold calling, words you should eliminate,

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and it'll it'll be co calling from start to

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finish. Is that available now or

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when will that be available? I'm hoping to wrap it up in

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2 months. I -- Okay. -- had it all on a platform,

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and then I switched it to another platform because it couldn't do

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what I wanted it to do. So that has been a real headache.

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Okay. We'll save that for another time, but some like by the time this is

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being launched, that that may be available. So so we'll

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put whatever we have in the show notes so that you folks can find it

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or at least find Christine and ask about this program.

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So sounds exciting. Yeah. And Find

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me on LinkedIn. Send me a direct message if you've got questions.

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If you have questions, I'd be happy to answer your questions.

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I love it. Christine Harrington, ladies gen gentlemen, the

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Sav what's the what's the name of the business? The savvy sales lady. Alright.

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The savvy sales lady. That's a tongue twister. But this has been

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a blast. Thank you for dropping the value bombs today,

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Christine. Thanks, Harry. I appreciate you having me

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on.

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