Happy Valentine's Day nieces and nephews!
Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by screenwriter, poet, and author of “A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu’shouney Phillips for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.
The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!.
Timestamps:
(5:00) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in
{20:00) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:
Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma
Can be weaponized as a tallying metric
Whole love vs. Love vs. attachments
(30:00) Being HEALED isn’t REAL, you’re simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.
(38:00) Theory: MOST Men don’t like women and women don’t like men
(40:00) Why do men repel from “wholeness”
(50:00) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn’t make betrayal okay: KEVIN GATES CLIP
(1:00:00) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive:
The one with yourself
Friendship with each other
Romantic relationship with each other
Sexual relationships with each other
Martial relationship
(1:10:00) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:
List a few things you know that you need to work on
List a few things that people have told you you need to work on
(1:15:00) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc.
(1:16:00) Freshly Squeezed:
Same Mistake- Destin Conrad Ft. Alex Isley
Easy- Samoht
No Evil - SiR
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