How Addicts Manipulate Family and Friends, Men and Addiction Series

Summary

In this episode of the Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the topic of manipulation by addicts and how they manipulate family and friends. They explore various tactics used by addicts, such as guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. They also discuss the importance of recognizing these tactics, setting healthy boundaries, seeking support from others in similar situations, and maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries. The episode concludes with a discussion on upcoming live events and the importance of supporting the podcast.Keywordsaddiction, manipulation, guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying, deceiving, intimidation, anger, boundaries, support

Takeaways

• Addicts often use manipulation tactics to obtain money, support, or enablement from family and friends to sustain their addiction.
• Common manipulation tactics include guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger.
• It is important for family and friends to recognize these tactics and set healthy boundaries to protect themselves and the addict.
• Seeking support from others who have experienced similar situations can be helpful in navigating the challenges of dealing with an addict.
• Maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries is crucial in supporting the addict while also prioritizing their own well-being.

• Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support
• Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts

• "Addicts often use manipulation tactics"
• "Guilt tripping is making loved ones feel responsible for their wellbeing or their relapse"
• "Addicts create elaborate stories and lies about why they need money"

TitlesSound Bites

Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview

03:09 Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts

07:45 Guilt Tripping and Playing the Victim: Common Manipulation Strategies

12:04 The Role of Lying and Deceiving in Addict Manipulation

25:01 Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support

29:54 Maintaining Compassion While Maintaining Boundaries

31:52 Conclusion and Upcoming Live Events