Mate Poaching

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Summary: In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the topic of mate poaching, defining it as the act of attempting to attract someone who is already in a romantic relationship. He discusses statistics surrounding mate poaching, psychological and sociological factors that contribute to this behavior, the risks involved, and how individuals can protect their relationships from potential poachers. The conversation emphasizes the complexities of relationships and the importance of communication and boundaries.

Takeaways

• Mate poaching is common, with 10-20% of new relationships starting this way.
• 75% of people report being targeted for mate poaching.
• Men often engage in mate poaching to maximize reproductive success.
• Narcissism is a common trait among mate poachers.
• Mate poaching can lead to feelings of guilt and humiliation.
• The risks of mate poaching can affect stable relationships.
• Social media plays a significant role in facilitating mate poaching.
• Open communication is essential in protecting relationships.
• Setting boundaries can help prevent mate poaching.
• It's crucial to address poaching attempts early to avoid escalation.

• The Consequences of Mate Poaching
• The Psychology Behind Mate Poaching

• "Mate poaching is the act of attracting someone else's partner."
• "10 to 20% of new relationships begin via mate poaching."
• "Men want to maximize their reproductive success."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Mate Poaching

01:11 Understanding Mate Poaching: Definition and Statistics

03:27 Psychological and Sociological Factors Behind Mate Poaching

06:59The Risks and Consequences of Mate Poaching

12:09 Protecting Relationships from Mate Poachers