Am I Translating What You Say Accurately? | Communication between the Sexes

1 00:00:00,630 --> 00:00:04,019 If you ever heard your partner say, Hey, thanks for taking care of that for me, and 2 00:00:04,025 --> 00:00:07,980 it translated in your head, I'm getting lucky tonight, or something less extreme. 3 00:00:07,980 --> 00:00:10,980 She said, I really had a hard day today with my coworker 4 00:00:10,980 --> 00:00:12,660 and you thought, I'll fix it. 5 00:00:12,660 --> 00:00:13,080 It's okay. 6 00:00:13,860 --> 00:00:16,410 In this episode of the Fall Boy Man podcast is for you. 7 00:00:16,830 --> 00:00:17,370 Let's go. 8 00:00:18,510 --> 00:00:20,070 Here's the million dollar question. 9 00:00:20,580 --> 00:00:24,090 How do men like us reach our full potential and grow into the men 10 00:00:24,090 --> 00:00:27,440 we dream of being while taking care of our responsibilities, 11 00:00:27,780 --> 00:00:29,580 working, being good husband. 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,060 Fathers and still take care of ourselves. 13 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,640 That's the question in this podcast. 14 00:00:35,940 --> 00:00:37,230 We'll help you with those answers. 15 00:00:37,230 --> 00:00:40,350 My name is Brent and welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast. 16 00:00:40,410 --> 00:00:41,640 Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast. 17 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,560 You're home for all things, man, husband, and father. 18 00:00:43,890 --> 00:00:47,250 Big shout out, fallible nation, and a warm welcome to our first time listeners. 19 00:00:47,254 --> 00:00:49,650 My name is Brent and I am the fallible man. 20 00:00:50,310 --> 00:00:51,990 Let's face it for being the same species. 21 00:00:51,990 --> 00:00:56,160 Men and women speak two very different languages, and it often gets us in 22 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,360 a lot of trouble with our relat. 23 00:00:58,319 --> 00:01:01,739 Communication between the sexist is frustrating because we wanna be on 24 00:01:01,739 --> 00:01:05,530 the same page as our partner, but we usually aren't the majority of 25 00:01:05,530 --> 00:01:09,149 the time saying, am I translating what you're saying accurately? 26 00:01:09,149 --> 00:01:13,920 It's, it's probably a bad idea, but as we get into it, play 27 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:14,820 a game with me for a minute. 28 00:01:14,820 --> 00:01:15,120 Okay? 29 00:01:15,479 --> 00:01:16,710 Just, just play a game with me. 30 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:17,460 Stop. 31 00:01:17,460 --> 00:01:19,800 Write these down as you go, or answer 'em in your head. 32 00:01:20,670 --> 00:01:21,990 Answer a couple questions. 33 00:01:22,649 --> 00:01:25,620 If she says, I don't want your advice. 34 00:01:26,685 --> 00:01:28,245 What's the right response? 35 00:01:30,225 --> 00:01:34,185 If she says, there's no way I'm letting my mom come in and change 36 00:01:34,185 --> 00:01:39,075 things around when she gets here for this party, what's the right response? 37 00:01:39,405 --> 00:01:42,105 Hint damn straight is not the answer. 38 00:01:42,765 --> 00:01:45,435 Just saying number three, guys. 39 00:01:45,675 --> 00:01:49,095 If she says, I'm not sure what to do about my manager, they have 40 00:01:49,095 --> 00:01:50,625 really unreasonable deadlines. 41 00:01:51,735 --> 00:01:52,305 What's the right? 42 00:01:55,265 --> 00:01:59,145 , well, we'll get back to that in a few minutes, but with the onset of custom 43 00:01:59,145 --> 00:02:03,255 AI is I'm out actually out there waiting for SCR to trans to come up with scr 44 00:02:03,755 --> 00:02:05,595 translate for relationships, right? 45 00:02:05,805 --> 00:02:08,985 An app I can pull up on my phone and record the conversation and it 46 00:02:09,514 --> 00:02:11,115 translates it in the moment in real time. 47 00:02:12,225 --> 00:02:14,805 Honestly, it'd probably have to be like the Google Glasses thing, like 48 00:02:14,805 --> 00:02:16,275 an augmented reality kind of thing. 49 00:02:16,275 --> 00:02:16,695 Heads up. 50 00:02:17,595 --> 00:02:21,135 So she didn't realize I was using it all the time, cuz I'm sure that 51 00:02:21,135 --> 00:02:22,125 probably wouldn't be acceptable. 52 00:02:22,125 --> 00:02:24,165 They just say I was being lazy about my relationship. 53 00:02:24,795 --> 00:02:27,795 But in the meantime, what do the rest of us do? 54 00:02:27,795 --> 00:02:28,815 What do, what do we do? 55 00:02:28,815 --> 00:02:30,135 We don't have that app yet. 56 00:02:30,524 --> 00:02:36,704 Well, I got five things gentlemen I wanna share with you that will absolutely help 57 00:02:36,704 --> 00:02:38,475 until we get those Grade A eyes going. 58 00:02:38,714 --> 00:02:39,015 Okay. 59 00:02:39,464 --> 00:02:41,625 So let's start with number one, studying your spouse. 60 00:02:42,525 --> 00:02:45,195 I've done several other shows on understanding your spouse's 61 00:02:45,195 --> 00:02:48,105 love language, the way she thinks, the way she communicates. 62 00:02:48,405 --> 00:02:50,924 And if you aren't willing to put in the time to learn your partner, 63 00:02:51,375 --> 00:02:55,515 then you already failed, and this is a dead end show for you. 64 00:02:55,519 --> 00:02:57,075 So go ahead and click off something else. 65 00:02:57,555 --> 00:02:59,505 I'll put a couple of those shows in the show notes. 66 00:03:00,135 --> 00:03:03,225 If you've started learning your partner, then please keep going 67 00:03:03,225 --> 00:03:04,575 and keep going with this show. 68 00:03:05,024 --> 00:03:07,545 But you're gonna have to put in some base effort. 69 00:03:07,545 --> 00:03:10,725 This is more of an advanced level number. 70 00:03:11,609 --> 00:03:12,630 Tune into the moment. 71 00:03:13,290 --> 00:03:17,730 You will feel fail, feel fail, let's say, if I can say it right, you will fail. 72 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,540 Every time you communicate with a woman the moment you are not in the 73 00:03:21,545 --> 00:03:27,480 moment, you have to learn to pause everything and be present, intentionally 74 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,350 present in the communication process, or you've already failed. 75 00:03:31,920 --> 00:03:34,110 I know it doesn't seem fair, but that's just how it works. 76 00:03:34,710 --> 00:03:35,730 This will be difficult. 77 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:36,420 Men. 78 00:03:36,420 --> 00:03:38,970 We have to switch gears in our brains. 79 00:03:39,420 --> 00:03:43,680 We have to step into a different place in our minds and be here in 80 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:48,960 this moment, in this time, in this place, and shut out everything else. 81 00:03:49,890 --> 00:03:55,560 You may have a ton going on, but this is what has to happen. 82 00:03:56,070 --> 00:03:58,720 If you want to successfully communicate with your partner, everything 83 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,370 gets put on hold because you can't translate what she's saying with 84 00:04:02,370 --> 00:04:04,840 any kind of accuracy, accuracy. 85 00:04:05,895 --> 00:04:07,335 While you're focused on other things. 86 00:04:07,335 --> 00:04:08,325 That's just how it works. 87 00:04:08,475 --> 00:04:09,765 It's just the factual truth. 88 00:04:10,815 --> 00:04:15,015 Sorry, I know some of you wanna multitask, but it's not gonna work in this situation. 89 00:04:15,015 --> 00:04:16,425 So put everything else on. 90 00:04:16,425 --> 00:04:16,845 Stop. 91 00:04:18,045 --> 00:04:19,454 Focus on being in the moment. 92 00:04:19,845 --> 00:04:23,835 Focus on being present in the conversation, and that's where 93 00:04:23,835 --> 00:04:24,705 we're gonna start with this. 94 00:04:25,245 --> 00:04:27,855 Number three, park your fact finder. 95 00:04:28,635 --> 00:04:31,335 Now, some of you are old enough to remember the quote, just the 96 00:04:31,335 --> 00:04:32,685 facts, ma'am, just the facts. 97 00:04:33,719 --> 00:04:35,040 If you aren't, look it up. 98 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:35,520 Google it. 99 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,770 The majority of men lean into their fact-based logic thinking pattern. 100 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,780 It may excel at some things and act as like a like power break on others. 101 00:04:45,780 --> 00:04:50,850 Sometimes the old concept of left brain logic and right brain creative 102 00:04:50,850 --> 00:04:53,640 artistic has long since been shed, okay? 103 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,850 That's not how it actually works, but that's how we kind of 104 00:04:56,850 --> 00:04:58,110 imagine it working a lot of time. 105 00:04:59,159 --> 00:05:00,450 However, the fact that we. 106 00:05:01,665 --> 00:05:05,205 Think more on facts, logic and data hasn't changed. 107 00:05:05,205 --> 00:05:07,035 That's just the way our brains are hardwired. 108 00:05:07,575 --> 00:05:11,175 Not that women don't have those thoughts, but our brain is just hardwired where 109 00:05:11,175 --> 00:05:13,515 that is our, our default response. 110 00:05:14,445 --> 00:05:19,065 Unless she asks you for a databased answer directly, it's not what 111 00:05:19,065 --> 00:05:20,295 she wants you to dwell on. 112 00:05:20,565 --> 00:05:22,005 It's not where she wants your mind. 113 00:05:22,965 --> 00:05:26,655 While there are exceptions for anything, there are some universal truths and 114 00:05:26,655 --> 00:05:30,045 most women are not trying to have a conversation with a database like. 115 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,581 It's just not what gets 'em going. 116 00:05:32,586 --> 00:05:35,790 Guys, we aren't far from talking to robots. 117 00:05:35,790 --> 00:05:37,410 In fact, a lot of us live with 'em at our home. 118 00:05:38,250 --> 00:05:39,720 But she can do that if she wants to. 119 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:44,190 She can go talk to Alexa all she wants, but if that's what she wanted, 120 00:05:44,190 --> 00:05:45,360 she wouldn't bother to talk to you. 121 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:47,850 AI is still logic based. 122 00:05:47,850 --> 00:05:52,050 They're getting more creative and more in touch with that, which is sad 123 00:05:52,050 --> 00:05:56,640 cuz robotic AI may be outpacing us on that part, so we better step it up. 124 00:05:57,645 --> 00:05:59,925 If that's what she wanted, she'd be chatting with Alexa or 125 00:05:59,925 --> 00:06:01,935 whatever assistant she has, not. 126 00:06:01,935 --> 00:06:07,725 You lean into the words that articulate feelings, emotion, dreams, 127 00:06:07,725 --> 00:06:12,195 and thoughts of what could be and what's imagined, because that's where 128 00:06:12,195 --> 00:06:13,755 she's gonna be communicating from. 129 00:06:14,085 --> 00:06:16,125 Cuz that's her base and that's okay. 130 00:06:16,155 --> 00:06:17,745 It's just different than what you're used to. 131 00:06:18,855 --> 00:06:25,035 She doesn't wanna know that your coffee is black, Italian, roast dark and piping. 132 00:06:26,340 --> 00:06:30,180 That's not what she's asking When she asks about your coffee, she wants to 133 00:06:30,180 --> 00:06:35,490 know about what memory or thought is stirred as you smell it, why it makes 134 00:06:35,490 --> 00:06:40,860 you smile, how the warmth in your hands makes you feel, how it feels as it 135 00:06:40,860 --> 00:06:45,300 goes down your body and warms you up, and what that inspires in your brain. 136 00:06:46,425 --> 00:06:50,085 Do you drink it black because you always have, or because you found 137 00:06:50,085 --> 00:06:53,325 out that's the way you prefer it, and what's the story behind that? 138 00:06:53,595 --> 00:06:56,715 Or have you never tried other things and she wants to know why you haven't 139 00:06:56,715 --> 00:06:58,665 tried the other ways of having? 140 00:06:58,670 --> 00:07:00,255 Have you tried it every other way you can? 141 00:07:00,705 --> 00:07:03,945 What experience did you have that made you prefer black coffee as opposed 142 00:07:03,945 --> 00:07:05,445 to a latte or something like that? 143 00:07:06,015 --> 00:07:08,055 What's the story behind the choice? 144 00:07:08,355 --> 00:07:10,965 Does it inspire you to greatness as you drink your coffee 145 00:07:10,965 --> 00:07:11,895 and get ready for the day? 146 00:07:11,895 --> 00:07:14,055 Does it make you feel like you're stronger, ready to handle the. 147 00:07:15,344 --> 00:07:19,034 Now if that seems like headache, this is the difference in the way we communicate. 148 00:07:20,565 --> 00:07:22,755 I went to coffee because I understand that, but this is the 149 00:07:22,755 --> 00:07:24,255 difference in the way we communicate. 150 00:07:24,675 --> 00:07:29,325 If I ask you about your coffee, I'm asking, you got sugar and cream in it? 151 00:07:29,625 --> 00:07:31,844 What kind of roast is it hot, cold? 152 00:07:33,405 --> 00:07:36,284 That's not what women are asking guys, and we need to understand 153 00:07:36,284 --> 00:07:38,235 the way they're asking questions. 154 00:07:39,315 --> 00:07:41,145 Versus the way we ask questions. 155 00:07:41,235 --> 00:07:42,435 How well do you sleep at night? 156 00:07:42,555 --> 00:07:45,135 Do you toss and turn and wake up more tired than when you went to bed? 157 00:07:45,645 --> 00:07:48,315 Sleep is commonly one of the critical elements people 158 00:07:48,315 --> 00:07:49,665 fall short on in their life. 159 00:07:49,935 --> 00:07:52,815 The quality of sleep you get directly affects your ability to control 160 00:07:52,815 --> 00:07:56,205 your weight, your ability to add muscle, your stress levels, and your 161 00:07:56,205 --> 00:07:57,945 everyday job and life performance. 162 00:07:58,515 --> 00:08:02,145 If you're ready to move to the next level, the sleep has to be part of the. 163 00:08:03,090 --> 00:08:06,270 Check out our forensic ghost bed.com if you're ready to get your best sleep. 164 00:08:06,330 --> 00:08:07,230 I love my ghost bed. 165 00:08:07,230 --> 00:08:10,270 I've been sleeping on one for a couple years and has made a 166 00:08:10,275 --> 00:08:11,550 huge difference in how I sleep. 167 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:13,080 Hit ghost bed.com. 168 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:17,040 Use the code, the fallible man 30 to get 30% off your order and start 169 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,900 getting better night's sleep tomorrow. 170 00:08:19,950 --> 00:08:21,870 Now let's go on to the show. 171 00:08:21,990 --> 00:08:23,820 Number four, listen to your whole body. 172 00:08:24,210 --> 00:08:27,210 Now, I'm not talking about just looking at her when she's 173 00:08:27,210 --> 00:08:28,320 talking, what you should be. 174 00:08:29,865 --> 00:08:33,555 Or even leaning in a level a little, which is good practice to convey that 175 00:08:33,555 --> 00:08:35,445 you're engaged with good body language. 176 00:08:36,525 --> 00:08:40,125 Best estimate suggests over 80% of communication is non-verbal. 177 00:08:40,935 --> 00:08:45,075 There are some, some experts who will argue that up to 93% of the 178 00:08:45,075 --> 00:08:46,665 way we communicate is non-verbal. 179 00:08:46,995 --> 00:08:50,595 Whether it's 80 or 93 is kind of irrelevant, but get it. 180 00:08:50,625 --> 00:08:55,515 Your body reacts when you're listening and when you're communicating in a big way. 181 00:08:55,545 --> 00:08:56,505 That's the base takeaway. 182 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,970 So how does she smell compared to normal? 183 00:09:00,510 --> 00:09:01,800 Now, that's a really advanced thing. 184 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,960 You have to understand what your wife smells like all the time, 185 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,250 or your partner or whoever. 186 00:09:06,510 --> 00:09:07,380 But guess what? 187 00:09:07,410 --> 00:09:09,310 It changes with emotional reaction. 188 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:10,680 What's her tone? 189 00:09:11,070 --> 00:09:12,510 What's the speed of her communication? 190 00:09:12,510 --> 00:09:13,650 Is her speech pattern chain? 191 00:09:13,980 --> 00:09:14,820 Is she fidgety? 192 00:09:15,420 --> 00:09:17,910 Is she focused or is she looking around? 193 00:09:18,405 --> 00:09:19,814 Or is she making direct eye contact? 194 00:09:20,145 --> 00:09:20,925 Is she sweating? 195 00:09:20,925 --> 00:09:21,645 Is she flustered? 196 00:09:21,645 --> 00:09:22,515 Is she distracted? 197 00:09:22,785 --> 00:09:23,714 Is her skin flushed? 198 00:09:23,895 --> 00:09:25,275 Is she picking at herself? 199 00:09:25,334 --> 00:09:27,525 Is her skin more oily or dry than usual? 200 00:09:27,854 --> 00:09:29,865 Does she seem relaxed or is she uncomfortable? 201 00:09:30,314 --> 00:09:35,775 These are all things that are speaking to you that you need to dial into 202 00:09:35,985 --> 00:09:37,214 and listen with your whole body. 203 00:09:37,584 --> 00:09:40,094 Number five, stay in the moment. 204 00:09:40,694 --> 00:09:44,055 Yeah, I know we talked about being present back in two. 205 00:09:44,954 --> 00:09:47,354 However, this is the follow up because this is important. 206 00:09:47,925 --> 00:09:50,324 You have to stay on the train the whole ride. 207 00:09:51,314 --> 00:09:52,185 Does that make sense? 208 00:09:52,665 --> 00:09:55,905 If you look like you're anxious to wrap it up or you're watching 209 00:09:55,905 --> 00:09:59,385 the time, the conversation's over, she's mad and you have failed. 210 00:09:59,505 --> 00:10:00,435 That's how it works. 211 00:10:01,245 --> 00:10:04,935 This is why it's extremely important to schedule in a regular time to 212 00:10:04,935 --> 00:10:10,245 communicate with your partner and it will help you keep from avoid or it will 213 00:10:10,250 --> 00:10:12,314 help you not fall into this trap, guys. 214 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,180 The minute you look like you're trying to get away from it, you're done. 215 00:10:15,180 --> 00:10:16,440 She's done communicating with you. 216 00:10:17,220 --> 00:10:18,840 That's bad, okay? 217 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,620 You've got to stay engaged and stay on the train the entire time. 218 00:10:22,620 --> 00:10:23,550 No jumping off Earl. 219 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,020 Now, this may seem like a lot, but if you love your partner, if 220 00:10:28,020 --> 00:10:31,830 you love your spouse, then this is the way you need to communicate. 221 00:10:31,830 --> 00:10:35,940 Now, this is good communication habits with anybody, but this is critical when 222 00:10:35,940 --> 00:10:39,600 it comes to a healthy relationship, all of these things will contribute. 223 00:10:40,530 --> 00:10:42,350 So how did you do on the first three question? 224 00:10:43,415 --> 00:10:44,685 I don't want your advice. 225 00:10:45,765 --> 00:10:49,215 This is the, there's no way I'm letting my mom come in and change things around. 226 00:10:50,325 --> 00:10:51,945 I'm not sure what to do about my manager. 227 00:10:51,945 --> 00:10:52,935 They're really unreasonable. 228 00:10:54,345 --> 00:10:56,385 Now, here are the correct responses. 229 00:10:56,655 --> 00:10:59,145 I, I didn't tell you there are actually correct responses. 230 00:11:00,495 --> 00:11:02,295 When she says, I don't want your advice. 231 00:11:03,765 --> 00:11:07,215 The correct response is, it sounds like you would just like be understood. 232 00:11:07,215 --> 00:11:07,815 So let me listen for. 233 00:11:10,095 --> 00:11:12,435 When she says, there's no way I'm letting my mom come in and change 234 00:11:12,435 --> 00:11:13,755 things around for this party. 235 00:11:15,405 --> 00:11:18,075 The correct answer is, you sound pretty determined to establish 236 00:11:18,075 --> 00:11:18,915 some healthy boundaries. 237 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,265 How can I help support you? 238 00:11:22,485 --> 00:11:25,095 If she says, I'm not sure what to do about my manager, they really 239 00:11:25,095 --> 00:11:26,835 have unreasonable deadlines. 240 00:11:27,885 --> 00:11:31,305 The correct answer is, sounds like you're feeling a lot of pressure 241 00:11:31,305 --> 00:11:35,985 at work now if you landed something close to one of those, right? 242 00:11:35,985 --> 00:11:36,975 Give yourself credit for. 243 00:11:38,025 --> 00:11:39,645 It doesn't have to be those exact words. 244 00:11:40,064 --> 00:11:43,574 And if you didn't land anywhere near that, don't worry. 245 00:11:43,574 --> 00:11:47,084 Hey, I didn't, the first time I got faced with those questions, 246 00:11:47,685 --> 00:11:51,974 like this actually comes out of a workbook from a marriage seminar. 247 00:11:53,025 --> 00:11:55,125 I promise I didn't even come close to the exam. 248 00:11:55,574 --> 00:11:55,875 Okay? 249 00:11:55,905 --> 00:11:59,865 I'm still a work in progress, so don't fret if you didn't land fret. 250 00:11:59,895 --> 00:12:00,584 Is that a good word? 251 00:12:00,854 --> 00:12:02,444 Don't freak out if you didn't get it, guys. 252 00:12:02,474 --> 00:12:04,785 I, like I said, I didn't come anywhere close. 253 00:12:04,964 --> 00:12:05,444 Trust me. 254 00:12:05,594 --> 00:12:06,555 That's how I know. 255 00:12:07,875 --> 00:12:12,074 That first answer of uh, damn straight isn't the right answer. 256 00:12:12,225 --> 00:12:12,465 Okay? 257 00:12:13,035 --> 00:12:14,505 tells you how badly I did that. 258 00:12:15,795 --> 00:12:17,385 It's okay gentlemen. 259 00:12:17,385 --> 00:12:19,064 We gotta update our game. 260 00:12:19,064 --> 00:12:19,995 We gotta just upgrade. 261 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,535 If we're gonna have healthy relationships and we gotta step up 262 00:12:23,540 --> 00:12:25,905 our game is cuz that's what we can do. 263 00:12:25,905 --> 00:12:26,725 We can control us. 264 00:12:27,405 --> 00:12:30,135 We can't control anything else, so we gotta fix it on our end. 265 00:12:30,675 --> 00:12:31,815 Try these five things. 266 00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:33,285 Let us know what you think. 267 00:12:33,705 --> 00:12:35,055 Uh, get back with me. 268 00:12:35,055 --> 00:12:36,015 Tell me if this helps you. 269 00:12:36,015 --> 00:12:37,155 Tell me which one you're gonna apply. 270 00:12:37,155 --> 00:12:39,645 I'd love to hear your take on all this. 271 00:12:40,395 --> 00:12:44,925 Now it is Friday, so I want to shout out to one of our listeners, 272 00:12:45,285 --> 00:12:50,025 walk to Wealth Loved Us, an amazing review that says Amazing show. 273 00:12:50,415 --> 00:12:52,185 I'm so glad I came across this show. 274 00:12:52,185 --> 00:12:55,685 I've taken so many actual and practical nuggets of advice to I. 275 00:12:56,235 --> 00:12:57,375 Love tuning in. 276 00:12:57,705 --> 00:12:58,965 Thank you so much guys. 277 00:12:58,965 --> 00:13:02,625 Those, those reviews super help us to reach out to more people. 278 00:13:03,045 --> 00:13:06,465 It helps Apple Podcast know to put us in front of more people and it 279 00:13:06,465 --> 00:13:07,965 helps us just get the word out. 280 00:13:08,385 --> 00:13:10,335 Also, hey, it's not too late. 281 00:13:10,725 --> 00:13:13,365 The Phoenix Conference, guys, it's 38 days away. 282 00:13:13,425 --> 00:13:15,945 Your tickets are still available, virtual and in person. 283 00:13:16,245 --> 00:13:17,685 Join us at the theme conference. 284 00:13:17,685 --> 00:13:19,995 If you like the podcast, wait till you get to the conference. 285 00:13:20,295 --> 00:13:21,075 You're gonna dig it. 286 00:13:21,225 --> 00:13:22,455 It's an awesome experience. 287 00:13:22,665 --> 00:13:23,985 And if you are looking. 288 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:26,370 To walk side by side. 289 00:13:26,370 --> 00:13:29,699 Maybe you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan, and 290 00:13:29,699 --> 00:13:30,900 seeking the life that you want. 291 00:13:30,900 --> 00:13:32,819 You just need some help getting over a couple hurdles. 292 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,870 Reach out to me at www.fman.com/coaching. 293 00:13:36,870 --> 00:13:38,520 Schedule a free discovery call. 294 00:13:38,819 --> 00:13:42,000 See if working with me directly would be good answer for you. 295 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,340 If not, I know some other coaches that I could turn you to. 296 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,569 Uh, we just want to help you here at the follow man, as you make that journey as. 297 00:13:49,620 --> 00:13:52,530 Guys, as always, thanks for listening and be better tomorrow because of what 298 00:13:52,530 --> 00:13:53,910 you do today, and we'll see on there. 299 00:13:54,690 --> 00:13:57,180 This has been The Fallible Man Podcast. 300 00:13:57,780 --> 00:14:01,050 Your home for everything, man, husband, and father. 301 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,230 Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss a show. 302 00:14:05,100 --> 00:14:11,430 Head over to www.thefallibleman.com for more content and get 303 00:14:11,430 --> 00:14:12,960 your own Fallible man gear.