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Masculine Frame: 5 Traits to Develop That Women Want You to Have (Even if they say otherwise)

Looking to develop a stronger, more confident and attractive presence as a man? Join us for our latest show as we delve into the topic of developing a masculine frame with the five traits that women really want you to have. Our experts will guide you...

Looking to develop a stronger, more confident and attractive presence as a man? Join us for our latest show as we delve into the topic of developing a masculine frame with the five traits that women really want you to have. Our experts will guide you through delusional self-belief, willingness to lead, self-control, unchanging in who you are because of her looks, and unwavering emotional control. These essential traits can help you cultivate the confident, assertive demeanor that will help you attract the right kind of women. So why wait? Tune in and start transforming your mindset and behavior today!

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1 00:00:00,870 --> 00:00:04,080 Are you tired of feeling like you're not attracting the right kind of women? 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:08,130 You know, not every guy has found that right woman yet like I have. 3 00:00:08,580 --> 00:00:12,450 And so today we're gonna show you how to develop a masculine frame with 4 00:00:12,450 --> 00:00:17,070 five traits that women truly want you to have, even if they say they 5 00:00:17,070 --> 00:00:18,600 don't want to in this modern age. 6 00:00:19,230 --> 00:00:19,960 Let's get into it. 7 00:00:21,060 --> 00:00:22,660 Here's the million dollar question. 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,370 How do men like us reach our full potential and grow into 9 00:00:26,375 --> 00:00:29,940 the men we dream of being while taking care of our responsi? 10 00:00:30,314 --> 00:00:35,625 Working, being good husbands, fathers, and still take care of ourselves. 11 00:00:36,525 --> 00:00:38,205 That's the question in this podcast. 12 00:00:38,504 --> 00:00:39,825 We'll help you with those answers. 13 00:00:39,825 --> 00:00:43,035 My name is Brent and welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast. 14 00:00:43,155 --> 00:00:45,075 Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast, your home for all 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,455 things, man, husband, and father. 16 00:00:46,815 --> 00:00:48,015 Big shout out to Fallible Nation. 17 00:00:48,015 --> 00:00:51,285 You guys make these things possible and a warm welcome to our first time list. 18 00:00:51,915 --> 00:00:53,685 My name is Brent and I am the fallible. 19 00:00:54,824 --> 00:00:56,474 So what is a masculine frame? 20 00:00:56,474 --> 00:00:56,745 Right? 21 00:00:56,745 --> 00:00:59,894 This is a newer phrase that didn't get to throw, be thrown 22 00:00:59,894 --> 00:01:01,425 around a lot when I was younger. 23 00:01:02,025 --> 00:01:05,774 So I, I looked into the actual definitions, right, and said A 24 00:01:05,774 --> 00:01:09,345 man with a masculine frame can be strong and powerful while still 25 00:01:09,345 --> 00:01:11,085 being able to control his emotions. 26 00:01:11,565 --> 00:01:15,554 He's composed, calm, collected, and he exudes confidence. 27 00:01:16,005 --> 00:01:19,304 Women are attracted to his manhood and respond positively to his aura. 28 00:01:19,875 --> 00:01:21,664 Men either admire him or despise. 29 00:01:23,464 --> 00:01:27,466 Masculine frame refers to the internal mindset and external behaviors that 30 00:01:27,470 --> 00:01:30,914 exude confidence, assertiveness, and strength, while still not being 31 00:01:30,914 --> 00:01:32,535 a total tool or jackass about it. 32 00:01:32,975 --> 00:01:35,384 I, I threw in that last part to make it accurate. 33 00:01:35,744 --> 00:01:40,035 Now see, growing up I would've just called this, this is a masculine 34 00:01:40,039 --> 00:01:44,625 man, but apparently masculine frame is the correct word, and at 43, I 35 00:01:44,625 --> 00:01:47,535 have to make sure I'm getting the correct terminology these days. 36 00:01:48,345 --> 00:01:49,845 You know, terms change. 37 00:01:49,845 --> 00:01:51,914 People use different ways of saying the same thing. 38 00:01:52,214 --> 00:01:54,975 It's all kind of funny to me, but, so that's, that's 39 00:01:54,975 --> 00:01:57,339 the new masculine, right man? 40 00:01:57,366 --> 00:01:59,406 We just, that's what we would've called it growing up, but I guess 41 00:01:59,406 --> 00:02:00,726 it's a masculine frame these days. 42 00:02:00,726 --> 00:02:01,146 Oh, well. 43 00:02:02,106 --> 00:02:05,196 Well, today we're gonna discuss five key traits that are essential 44 00:02:05,201 --> 00:02:09,396 to developing a masculine frame, including delusional self-belief. 45 00:02:09,396 --> 00:02:10,146 Yeah, I know it sounds. 46 00:02:10,866 --> 00:02:15,426 Willingness to lead self-control, unwavering in who you are despite the 47 00:02:15,426 --> 00:02:17,736 woman and unwavering emotional control. 48 00:02:18,306 --> 00:02:21,606 Now if those sound funny to you, give it a chance, stick with me 49 00:02:22,116 --> 00:02:23,340 and you know, see where it goes. 50 00:02:23,340 --> 00:02:23,880 Give it a shake. 51 00:02:24,030 --> 00:02:24,990 We'll see what you think of it. 52 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,690 So the first one, delusional self-belief. 53 00:02:27,690 --> 00:02:28,080 Right. 54 00:02:28,410 --> 00:02:33,690 Now, I know this probably sounds a little odd to, well most people, right? 55 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:36,000 A delusional self. 56 00:02:37,125 --> 00:02:42,735 Is the ability to maintain an unwavering belief in yourself, even 57 00:02:42,855 --> 00:02:44,685 when facing challenges and setbacks. 58 00:02:45,225 --> 00:02:49,515 This trait is essential to develop a strong, confident demeanor 59 00:02:49,845 --> 00:02:50,985 that women find attractive. 60 00:02:51,525 --> 00:02:54,195 However, it's important to balance this trait with a touch of 61 00:02:54,195 --> 00:02:59,025 humility and a willingness to be open-minded and learn from others. 62 00:03:00,045 --> 00:03:03,435 You have to be your biggest fan guys, including being willing to 63 00:03:03,495 --> 00:03:05,145 act on your own thoughts and belief. 64 00:03:06,450 --> 00:03:08,880 Now I actually do this one pretty well. 65 00:03:08,970 --> 00:03:12,450 I, I don't have all of this perfect, trust me, but I do this one pretty 66 00:03:12,450 --> 00:03:14,280 well because I am my biggest fan. 67 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:15,660 I like me so much. 68 00:03:15,660 --> 00:03:19,830 I don't actually need other people to like me and I will be the first 69 00:03:19,830 --> 00:03:23,580 to say, this can get a little, this can rub people the wrong way. 70 00:03:23,700 --> 00:03:24,150 Okay. 71 00:03:24,660 --> 00:03:25,980 You, there's a fine line. 72 00:03:25,980 --> 00:03:28,860 My wife tells me all the time between confidence and cocky, 73 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:30,810 and I don't always walk. 74 00:03:32,340 --> 00:03:34,170 That's my, I, that's my honesty right there. 75 00:03:34,170 --> 00:03:39,780 I, I don't always walk well, but I, I stride that line and you have to, okay. 76 00:03:40,260 --> 00:03:46,710 Being a strong man, being a confident man with a masculine frame, you have 77 00:03:46,710 --> 00:03:48,660 to actually kind of stride that line. 78 00:03:49,260 --> 00:03:52,740 And believe it or not, that actually if you cross over into 79 00:03:52,740 --> 00:03:56,090 the cocky side of it, too much can be obnoxious, but it's actually 80 00:03:56,095 --> 00:03:58,020 very attractive to a lot of people. 81 00:03:58,695 --> 00:04:01,185 People who spend all their time contemplating everything, but 82 00:04:01,185 --> 00:04:05,235 never take actions on their own thoughts and beliefs and ideas. 83 00:04:05,535 --> 00:04:08,595 They betrayed their lack of confidence in themselves. 84 00:04:09,585 --> 00:04:13,605 Sometimes you have to believe in yourself so much that you're ready to take action, 85 00:04:13,635 --> 00:04:19,665 even if the odds seem really high that you won't be successful or it won't work out. 86 00:04:20,265 --> 00:04:21,495 Our things don't seem perfect. 87 00:04:22,035 --> 00:04:26,955 You have to wake up and love yourself for who you are and who you're becoming. 88 00:04:28,725 --> 00:04:30,165 Why would you wanna be someone else? 89 00:04:31,335 --> 00:04:32,895 My general thought every day. 90 00:04:35,235 --> 00:04:36,555 I don't want to be anybody else. 91 00:04:36,825 --> 00:04:37,305 Honestly. 92 00:04:37,310 --> 00:04:40,845 I, I can honestly say to that I'm at a place in my life where I don't want 93 00:04:40,850 --> 00:04:44,865 to be anybody else because I wake up and people I look up to, right? 94 00:04:44,865 --> 00:04:46,215 I still have people I look up to. 95 00:04:46,220 --> 00:04:47,205 I still have mentors. 96 00:04:48,345 --> 00:04:54,345 I look at what I like about what they're doing, and I think I'll get there. 97 00:04:54,825 --> 00:04:55,575 I can learn that. 98 00:04:55,665 --> 00:04:56,535 I can figure that out. 99 00:04:56,565 --> 00:04:57,725 I can get I, I. 100 00:04:58,275 --> 00:05:00,645 I just haven't stepped through those hurdles yet, but that's, 101 00:05:00,645 --> 00:05:02,235 that's where you wanna be as a man. 102 00:05:02,235 --> 00:05:08,385 You have to be delusional, confident in yourself to the point of just 103 00:05:08,535 --> 00:05:11,355 I, being your biggest fan, I, I don't know how to better say it. 104 00:05:11,355 --> 00:05:12,765 I'm gonna just beat that one to death, I guess. 105 00:05:12,765 --> 00:05:13,215 I don't know. 106 00:05:14,775 --> 00:05:19,875 You have to believe in yourself even when nobody else is, or you don't think 107 00:05:19,875 --> 00:05:24,795 anybody else is, because that level of confidence is incredibly attractive. 108 00:05:25,710 --> 00:05:29,160 And it will make you a happier person, I promise. 109 00:05:30,930 --> 00:05:33,810 Now, before we go any further, I don't always share with you guys 110 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,900 how much I love doing the podcast and how it's affected my life. 111 00:05:37,470 --> 00:05:39,870 Doing the podcast has increased my speaking ability. 112 00:05:39,870 --> 00:05:43,650 I get to meet all kinds of extreme people, is great for my business 113 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:45,720 and I just really love it. 114 00:05:46,140 --> 00:05:49,380 And part of the reason I love it is I shove off some of the hard work on 115 00:05:49,380 --> 00:05:50,670 my good friends over at Grow Your. 116 00:05:51,735 --> 00:05:55,575 If you're interested in creating your own podcast, whether for a hobby 117 00:05:55,575 --> 00:06:00,405 or to explain your business, grow, your show is a podcast one stop. 118 00:06:00,555 --> 00:06:00,765 Okay? 119 00:06:00,765 --> 00:06:03,345 I can literally hit record and just send 'em to them. 120 00:06:03,405 --> 00:06:05,115 I don't, that's not how I do my show. 121 00:06:05,325 --> 00:06:07,275 But if you don't wanna do the nitty gritty, that's fine. 122 00:06:07,755 --> 00:06:08,955 I like doing that stuff. 123 00:06:09,765 --> 00:06:12,075 It's a one stop shop, and I love those guys. 124 00:06:12,075 --> 00:06:13,455 They've helped my show so much. 125 00:06:13,755 --> 00:06:17,625 So if you're interested in starting your own podcast or maybe expanding 126 00:06:17,630 --> 00:06:20,025 your business with a podcast, go see my friend Adam over it. 127 00:06:20,025 --> 00:06:20,355 Grow your. 128 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:26,550 I promise you they will take care of back to our show number two, 129 00:06:26,550 --> 00:06:28,740 guys, it's a willingness to lead. 130 00:06:29,790 --> 00:06:36,300 Now this should seem fairly apparent if you listen to my other stuff, okay? 131 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:39,990 If you've listened to the podcast before, if you're new this, this probably 132 00:06:39,990 --> 00:06:44,370 shouldn't stand out too much as well, because this is a trait that we generally 133 00:06:44,370 --> 00:06:47,310 try and include with men, right? 134 00:06:47,310 --> 00:06:52,770 When we talked about masculinity, A willingness lead involves taking charge 135 00:06:52,775 --> 00:06:54,150 and making decisions confidently. 136 00:06:55,050 --> 00:06:59,520 This trade is crucial in relationships as women are attracted to men who can 137 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,500 take that lead and make decisions. 138 00:07:01,890 --> 00:07:05,520 However, it's important to note that being a leader does not always mean 139 00:07:05,525 --> 00:07:09,000 being in control, and certainly doesn't mean being dismissive of other opinions. 140 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,210 She may not want you to make every decision. 141 00:07:12,570 --> 00:07:16,320 My wife doesn't want me to make every decision, but you 142 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,060 should be ready to, if you need. 143 00:07:19,095 --> 00:07:22,545 You should always take other people's input, their thoughts, their feelings into 144 00:07:22,545 --> 00:07:27,045 consideration if it's valid input, but be ready to take charge when you need to. 145 00:07:28,095 --> 00:07:32,625 Now, being willing to take lead doesn't mean that you always have to lead. 146 00:07:33,675 --> 00:07:37,125 Remember, being willing to lead means that you simply can and 147 00:07:37,125 --> 00:07:38,415 are willing to step up to it. 148 00:07:38,865 --> 00:07:41,145 Not that you're always gonna be in charge, not that you're always 149 00:07:41,145 --> 00:07:46,485 gonna get your way or make the decisions, but as a man, if you want. 150 00:07:47,955 --> 00:07:49,905 Be attractive to women. 151 00:07:50,655 --> 00:07:54,315 You have to be willing to be a leader because women are looking for that. 152 00:07:55,155 --> 00:07:57,615 Now I'm gonna have a lot of women who get really bent about this 153 00:07:57,615 --> 00:07:58,965 episode and, and that's okay. 154 00:08:00,015 --> 00:08:06,075 I've had some experience and I promise guys, these five traits are critical 155 00:08:06,375 --> 00:08:08,205 to having that masculine frame. 156 00:08:08,565 --> 00:08:12,585 Women find incredibly, incredibly attractive, and half the time they don't 157 00:08:12,885 --> 00:08:14,295 even realize that they find it inactive. 158 00:08:14,300 --> 00:08:16,215 It's kind of funny number. 159 00:08:17,010 --> 00:08:18,240 Is self-control. 160 00:08:18,930 --> 00:08:21,660 You must have self-control. 161 00:08:22,620 --> 00:08:25,800 Self-control involves managing your emotions and your impulses. 162 00:08:26,220 --> 00:08:29,250 This trait is essential to maintaining a strong masculine frame. 163 00:08:29,670 --> 00:08:33,450 It's especially important in situations that may trigger anger or frustration. 164 00:08:34,290 --> 00:08:38,850 Women are attracted to men who can remain calm and composed in any situation. 165 00:08:38,850 --> 00:08:41,430 However, self control is much more than that. 166 00:08:43,290 --> 00:08:48,960 Self-control is why we aren't running around and doing stupider 167 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,730 things than we do sometime, right? 168 00:08:51,090 --> 00:08:54,450 Self-control is part of what separates us from dogs. 169 00:08:54,450 --> 00:08:54,900 Guys. 170 00:08:54,900 --> 00:08:55,710 Let's be honest. 171 00:08:56,670 --> 00:08:59,580 The fact that you're not running up and humping people's legs, right? 172 00:08:59,580 --> 00:09:00,600 That's self-control. 173 00:09:01,650 --> 00:09:04,831 Now, I've seen beautiful women and I know the, you're attracted to 174 00:09:04,836 --> 00:09:05,940 beautiful women, and guess what? 175 00:09:07,140 --> 00:09:09,360 If you run up and try and hump their leg, you deserve to get 176 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,130 punched in the face, or worse just. 177 00:09:12,060 --> 00:09:12,360 Okay. 178 00:09:12,690 --> 00:09:17,880 The self-control is bigger than just our attractiveness women and 179 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:22,200 our ability to control ourselves around attract women with this 180 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:23,760 whole toxic masculinity movement. 181 00:09:23,970 --> 00:09:24,820 There's a big, 182 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:26,100 how do I say this? 183 00:09:26,370 --> 00:09:31,350 There is a big floating concept out there that most guys are 184 00:09:31,350 --> 00:09:33,690 no better than dogs, right? 185 00:09:33,870 --> 00:09:35,130 People are going to extremes. 186 00:09:35,940 --> 00:09:37,260 They feel like they're gonna get assaulted. 187 00:09:37,260 --> 00:09:38,430 Just walk you down the street. 188 00:09:39,210 --> 00:09:40,110 That's ridiculous. 189 00:09:40,530 --> 00:09:42,570 If you live in a neighborhood where you're afraid you're gonna get assaulted 190 00:09:42,570 --> 00:09:45,030 walking down the street, you're be hanging with a crowd, wrong crowd, or 191 00:09:45,030 --> 00:09:50,010 living in the wrong place, just that's how it's, but self-control extends 192 00:09:50,010 --> 00:09:53,760 farther, and that self-control making you more attracted, extends farther. 193 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:55,950 For example, how's your health? 194 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,320 It's a self-control issue. 195 00:09:58,710 --> 00:10:03,090 If you're carrying around too much body fat, self-control issue, if 196 00:10:03,270 --> 00:10:07,215 you get winded walking to your mailbox, Self-control issue. 197 00:10:08,295 --> 00:10:10,845 My gut has to do with self-control issue. 198 00:10:11,175 --> 00:10:12,045 I see ice cream. 199 00:10:12,045 --> 00:10:14,445 I have very little self-control as something I'm growing 200 00:10:14,445 --> 00:10:15,435 in and trying to work on. 201 00:10:16,245 --> 00:10:19,125 How's your bank account self-control issue? 202 00:10:19,635 --> 00:10:24,195 You don't have to make a fortune to have money in the bank or to 203 00:10:24,195 --> 00:10:26,385 have money on hand if you need it. 204 00:10:27,075 --> 00:10:31,665 You have to have self-control to control your spinning urges and the way you 205 00:10:31,665 --> 00:10:33,285 live if you're living above your means. 206 00:10:33,285 --> 00:10:34,155 That's a self-control. 207 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,930 How about your time management? 208 00:10:37,590 --> 00:10:38,880 It's a self-control issue. 209 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:43,110 If your time management is crap, it's because you aren't controlling your 210 00:10:43,110 --> 00:10:46,800 time wells cuz you aren't doing the things that you know you need to do. 211 00:10:47,460 --> 00:10:49,770 It's because you're overscheduling and overextending yourself. 212 00:10:49,770 --> 00:10:51,330 That's a self-control issue. 213 00:10:52,380 --> 00:10:53,370 How about your vices? 214 00:10:53,670 --> 00:10:54,480 I have vices. 215 00:10:54,660 --> 00:10:55,770 Most people have vices. 216 00:10:56,460 --> 00:10:58,140 Are you in control of them? 217 00:10:58,140 --> 00:10:59,790 Are, are they in control of you? 218 00:10:59,970 --> 00:11:02,040 Have they become more than vices? 219 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:03,330 Have they become addictions? 220 00:11:03,330 --> 00:11:03,570 Have they. 221 00:11:04,575 --> 00:11:05,715 Distractions to your life. 222 00:11:06,615 --> 00:11:07,965 These are self-control issues. 223 00:11:08,805 --> 00:11:12,585 Trust me, having it together makes you more attractive 224 00:11:12,645 --> 00:11:14,265 as a person, not just women. 225 00:11:14,535 --> 00:11:18,405 It makes you more attractive as a person, and self-control extends 226 00:11:18,410 --> 00:11:20,175 to a lot of parts of our life. 227 00:11:20,505 --> 00:11:22,245 So something we all need to work on. 228 00:11:22,245 --> 00:11:26,385 Like I said, I know I got some work to do on it and I'm wagering that 229 00:11:26,385 --> 00:11:28,815 in one of those areas you might have some work to do on it too. 230 00:11:30,015 --> 00:11:30,405 Number four. 231 00:11:32,220 --> 00:11:39,240 This one gets people every time Ahm so tired of this, become unchanging in 232 00:11:39,245 --> 00:11:42,210 who you are regardless of her looks. 233 00:11:44,940 --> 00:11:48,060 Fourth trait is the ability to remain unchanging in who 234 00:11:48,060 --> 00:11:49,860 you are because of her looks. 235 00:11:49,860 --> 00:11:53,550 Now I'm saying it that way, but let's, let's re-say that, right? 236 00:11:54,030 --> 00:11:56,890 How about become unchanging and unwavering in who you. 237 00:11:57,390 --> 00:12:02,190 Despite how attractive you find her, that's a more accurate phrasing of this. 238 00:12:02,190 --> 00:12:03,750 I, I phrased it wrong, and I'm sorry. 239 00:12:04,170 --> 00:12:05,640 The notes are gonna look all wonky. 240 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,950 The trait involves recognizing that true confidence comes from 241 00:12:10,950 --> 00:12:13,890 within and is not dependent on external factors such as appearance. 242 00:12:14,050 --> 00:12:16,980 Women are attracted to men who are comfortable in their own skin and 243 00:12:16,985 --> 00:12:22,166 can appreciate the beauty of a woman without being intu in intimidated. 244 00:12:23,606 --> 00:12:24,596 We'll see if I can talk today. 245 00:12:25,946 --> 00:12:28,316 You see what people have termed since, right? 246 00:12:28,316 --> 00:12:28,616 Have you? 247 00:12:28,676 --> 00:12:29,486 Have you seen that term? 248 00:12:29,486 --> 00:12:33,686 I really hate that term, I think is one of those modern terms that is 249 00:12:33,686 --> 00:12:35,996 used on the internet that just sucks. 250 00:12:36,001 --> 00:12:39,386 But for all intents and purposes, it's actually a great example right here. 251 00:12:39,806 --> 00:12:41,906 So we see the guys, people call Sims, right? 252 00:12:41,936 --> 00:12:48,416 Men who fall all over themselves over a women men who lose all sense of self 253 00:12:48,476 --> 00:12:50,606 and give up all their personal activit. 254 00:12:51,041 --> 00:12:52,271 They blow off friends. 255 00:12:52,271 --> 00:12:56,321 They give their goals over women on the internet. 256 00:12:56,321 --> 00:13:03,380 We see it even worse because we see men losing it all over non reachable women 257 00:13:04,150 --> 00:13:09,430 over, over internet tramps and, you know, Instagram, hotties and all that. 258 00:13:09,430 --> 00:13:15,340 We see guys sipping on and like dumping money into only fans and 259 00:13:15,430 --> 00:13:17,050 PornHub and all these other places. 260 00:13:17,425 --> 00:13:20,215 And dumping money on women, they will never touch her half. 261 00:13:22,075 --> 00:13:23,875 They just go to pieces over these women. 262 00:13:24,835 --> 00:13:26,815 Well, we all have friends who do that too, right? 263 00:13:27,505 --> 00:13:31,915 Men who lose their shit over women they're attracted to is, is a sim. 264 00:13:32,845 --> 00:13:37,075 If she was attracted to you and you go acting like this, she's 265 00:13:37,075 --> 00:13:38,215 not gonna be attracted to you. 266 00:13:38,215 --> 00:13:39,565 She's not gonna stay attracted to you. 267 00:13:39,955 --> 00:13:41,125 Go back to that first trait. 268 00:13:42,025 --> 00:13:45,205 Be confident in yourself, become your biggest fan. 269 00:13:45,595 --> 00:13:46,375 Women are drawn to. 270 00:13:47,260 --> 00:13:51,070 Who have a purpose, they have a mission, they have a focus, and 271 00:13:51,070 --> 00:13:53,020 they are locked onto their goals. 272 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:59,350 Men who are on track to where they want to go are much more attractive to 273 00:13:59,350 --> 00:14:01,780 women than guys who fawn over women. 274 00:14:02,500 --> 00:14:02,740 Okay? 275 00:14:02,740 --> 00:14:07,780 Being they're drawn to guys with similar goals, and guess what? 276 00:14:07,780 --> 00:14:12,250 She's more drawn to where who she thinks you're going to be, who to 277 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,830 who she thinks you're gonna be, to where she thinks you're gonna. 278 00:14:16,165 --> 00:14:17,935 Than she are is to you right now. 279 00:14:18,295 --> 00:14:18,595 Okay? 280 00:14:18,595 --> 00:14:22,615 She's more attracted to your future than to you in this present moment, guys. 281 00:14:23,125 --> 00:14:26,605 So men who have purpose and focus in their life, focus on their 282 00:14:26,605 --> 00:14:29,365 goals, are a lot more attractive. 283 00:14:30,775 --> 00:14:32,245 Don't change who you are. 284 00:14:32,875 --> 00:14:37,675 If she, if she likes you right now, changing who you are is 285 00:14:37,735 --> 00:14:39,175 absolutely going to ring you. 286 00:14:39,475 --> 00:14:43,990 And if you think she doesn't like you, Changing who you are 287 00:14:44,140 --> 00:14:46,240 is just going to get you crushed. 288 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,610 It's not gonna do anything for you at all. 289 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,420 So guys, get locked into who you want to be. 290 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:55,540 Don't, don't play the game. 291 00:14:56,740 --> 00:14:58,480 Don't fall apart over a pretty face. 292 00:14:59,230 --> 00:15:00,370 We've all been guilty of it. 293 00:15:00,375 --> 00:15:01,300 Okay, I'll, I'll admit it. 294 00:15:01,300 --> 00:15:02,950 We've all, we've all made that mistake. 295 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,010 A lot of the guys managed to grow out of it in their younger years, 296 00:15:06,010 --> 00:15:10,450 but not all of them don't change who you are over an attractive. 297 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:12,850 Be who you are. 298 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:18,430 Let them be attracted to you, not to who you think they want you to 299 00:15:18,430 --> 00:15:20,800 be or to how much you can give them. 300 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:24,130 Or there there's a name for those and most of 'em are aren't only fans. 301 00:15:24,130 --> 00:15:29,560 Okay, now before we hit number five guys, we're gonna roll to our other sponsor 302 00:15:29,890 --> 00:15:30,940 ghost bed and we'll be right back. 303 00:15:31,570 --> 00:15:32,800 How well do you sleep at night? 304 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,500 Do you toss and turn and wake up more tired than when you went to bed? 305 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,520 Sleep is commonly one of the critical elements people fall short on in their. 306 00:15:40,285 --> 00:15:43,165 The quality of sleep you get directly affects your ability to control 307 00:15:43,165 --> 00:15:46,555 your weight, your ability to add muscle, your stress levels, and your 308 00:15:47,005 --> 00:15:48,265 everyday job and life performance. 309 00:15:48,895 --> 00:15:52,825 If you're ready to move to the next level, then sleep has to be part of the plan. 310 00:15:53,455 --> 00:15:56,635 Check out our friends@ghostbed.com if you're ready to get your best sleep. 311 00:15:56,695 --> 00:15:57,595 I love my ghost bed. 312 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,725 I've been sleeping on one for a couple years and has made a 313 00:16:00,725 --> 00:16:01,915 huge difference in how I sleep. 314 00:16:02,305 --> 00:16:06,295 Hit ghost bed.com and use the code, the Fallible Man 30 to get 30% off your 315 00:16:06,300 --> 00:16:08,065 order and start getting better night's. 316 00:16:08,065 --> 00:16:09,265 Sleep tomorrow. 317 00:16:10,315 --> 00:16:12,235 Now let's go on to the show. 318 00:16:12,715 --> 00:16:13,465 Welcome back guys. 319 00:16:13,465 --> 00:16:14,185 And I got a shout out. 320 00:16:14,215 --> 00:16:17,365 I you just saw the ad for Ghost Bed, or listen to the ad for GhostBed 321 00:16:17,425 --> 00:16:18,535 depending on what platform you're on. 322 00:16:18,535 --> 00:16:20,365 Guys, I love my ghost bed. 323 00:16:20,365 --> 00:16:21,685 I've been sleeping on a ghost bed for years. 324 00:16:21,805 --> 00:16:24,625 I, I still love them and I have a lot of love for 'em. 325 00:16:24,630 --> 00:16:27,565 They have a lot of faith in us by giving us that discount and 326 00:16:27,565 --> 00:16:29,215 letting it share that with you guys. 327 00:16:29,755 --> 00:16:33,385 So if you're in the market for a bed, it's actually where I learned about Ghost 328 00:16:33,385 --> 00:16:35,095 Bed was on a podcast just like mine. 329 00:16:35,125 --> 00:16:37,615 So, hey, here we go. 330 00:16:37,615 --> 00:16:38,155 Full circle. 331 00:16:39,295 --> 00:16:43,465 Number five is unwavering emotional control. 332 00:16:45,325 --> 00:16:46,885 Good, right one on the video. 333 00:16:47,485 --> 00:16:51,775 The fifth final trait is unwavering emotional control, which 334 00:16:51,805 --> 00:16:55,705 involves maintaining emotional stability in any situation. 335 00:16:57,325 --> 00:16:59,905 This trait is essential, guys. 336 00:17:00,805 --> 00:17:04,765 It's essential in maintaining a masculine frame, and it's especially 337 00:17:05,035 --> 00:17:07,405 essential and important in situations. 338 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:13,806 There's, there's something that could trigger anxiety or stress or anything 339 00:17:13,806 --> 00:17:15,666 else that sends you over the edge, right? 340 00:17:16,026 --> 00:17:18,396 This could be essential on the road, right? 341 00:17:18,401 --> 00:17:23,016 If you're a road rage person, women are attracted to men who can remain calm and 342 00:17:23,016 --> 00:17:26,286 levelheaded even in the face of adversity. 343 00:17:27,456 --> 00:17:29,106 Now, this is a weird one, okay? 344 00:17:29,616 --> 00:17:32,556 Because women tell us they want us to be emotional and tell us we repress our. 345 00:17:33,561 --> 00:17:38,571 You have feelings and emotions the same as she does, but you need to master and 346 00:17:38,571 --> 00:17:41,061 control your emotions and your feelings. 347 00:17:41,751 --> 00:17:44,751 Women associate emotional outbursts with children or 348 00:17:44,751 --> 00:17:47,241 other women, not high value men. 349 00:17:48,201 --> 00:17:51,501 She wants you to be in touch with your feelings, and I'm air quoting 350 00:17:51,501 --> 00:17:55,461 that for all of you on the audio version of the show, but not be 351 00:17:55,461 --> 00:17:57,771 driven by them or manipulated by them. 352 00:17:59,271 --> 00:18:00,901 There's a time and a place for everyth. 353 00:18:03,381 --> 00:18:06,651 And you need to process your emotion, okay? 354 00:18:06,651 --> 00:18:07,911 I would never tell you not to. 355 00:18:08,121 --> 00:18:11,721 It's unhealthy to bottle 'em up and not have a healthy outlet for them. 356 00:18:12,981 --> 00:18:14,901 There is a time and a place for everything. 357 00:18:15,201 --> 00:18:20,121 And despite what you hear from a lot of loud, annoying, whiny voices about men 358 00:18:20,121 --> 00:18:22,941 are out of touch with their feelings or men need to open up, shut up. 359 00:18:22,971 --> 00:18:23,721 No, they don't. 360 00:18:23,726 --> 00:18:23,961 Okay. 361 00:18:24,501 --> 00:18:26,211 Men need to process their emotions. 362 00:18:26,211 --> 00:18:27,081 That is correct. 363 00:18:27,741 --> 00:18:29,961 No woman wants a whiny. 364 00:18:31,476 --> 00:18:33,006 That is as emotional. 365 00:18:33,306 --> 00:18:36,936 Our acts as emotional are even more so than she does. 366 00:18:38,106 --> 00:18:39,036 It's unappealing. 367 00:18:39,036 --> 00:18:40,026 It's unattractive. 368 00:18:40,446 --> 00:18:45,456 And to develop your masculine frame, you need to master processing your emotions in 369 00:18:45,456 --> 00:18:48,276 a healthy time and place in a healthy way. 370 00:18:49,026 --> 00:18:51,936 Emotional outbursts are unattractive to anybody. 371 00:18:54,366 --> 00:18:59,376 Now, guys, developing a strong masculine frame is an ongoing process that require. 372 00:19:01,521 --> 00:19:02,301 Dedication. 373 00:19:02,811 --> 00:19:03,141 I know. 374 00:19:03,141 --> 00:19:03,831 Big words, right? 375 00:19:03,831 --> 00:19:04,971 Self-awareness. 376 00:19:05,031 --> 00:19:05,841 Ooh, al. 377 00:19:05,841 --> 00:19:06,441 That one hurts. 378 00:19:07,071 --> 00:19:09,111 Willingness to learn and grow. 379 00:19:10,041 --> 00:19:11,301 Ah, you're killing me, Brent, right? 380 00:19:12,741 --> 00:19:13,131 . Trust me. 381 00:19:13,136 --> 00:19:14,631 That's how I feel about it some days too. 382 00:19:15,621 --> 00:19:21,261 By focusing on these five key traits, delusional self-belief, willingness 383 00:19:21,321 --> 00:19:27,751 to lead, self-control, becoming unchanging who you are, despite who she. 384 00:19:28,274 --> 00:19:32,624 And having unwavering emotional self-control or emotional 385 00:19:32,624 --> 00:19:36,464 control, you can cultivate the confident, assertive demeanor 386 00:19:36,464 --> 00:19:38,264 that women find attractive in men. 387 00:19:39,164 --> 00:19:44,024 You will help hear women scream all day long at this point that we don't need men. 388 00:19:44,054 --> 00:19:44,894 I don't need a man. 389 00:19:44,894 --> 00:19:45,914 I, okay, great. 390 00:19:46,364 --> 00:19:47,444 You can be alone if that's cool. 391 00:19:47,984 --> 00:19:48,914 Your choice, no big deal. 392 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:55,799 They'll also tell you, The old ways of chay and being what we would 393 00:19:55,799 --> 00:19:57,929 call a gentleman are outdated. 394 00:19:57,929 --> 00:19:59,249 I don't need a man to hold the door for me. 395 00:19:59,249 --> 00:19:59,819 I don't need a man. 396 00:20:00,179 --> 00:20:00,599 You know what? 397 00:20:02,009 --> 00:20:06,479 Women are a whole lot happier when you stay along that masculine frame 398 00:20:06,479 --> 00:20:11,789 and some of those stoic concepts that you hear out there of controlling your 399 00:20:11,789 --> 00:20:14,219 emotions and so on and so forth, right? 400 00:20:14,549 --> 00:20:19,679 There's a lot of validity in that and there are probably some really. 401 00:20:22,334 --> 00:20:26,684 Feminist out there, and I don't mean that in disrespectful way, who truly believe 402 00:20:26,684 --> 00:20:28,454 they don't want men like this anymore. 403 00:20:28,874 --> 00:20:29,474 That's fine. 404 00:20:30,524 --> 00:20:36,164 There are more women who want men like this, who want that traditional 405 00:20:36,164 --> 00:20:43,754 gentleman who has a unlock, who is driven, who is confident, who is 406 00:20:44,084 --> 00:20:46,364 strong emotionally and physically. 407 00:20:46,724 --> 00:20:47,504 We didn't even talk about. 408 00:20:48,374 --> 00:20:51,044 That's a whole nother show talking about your physical masculine 409 00:20:51,044 --> 00:20:52,634 frame, because that's matters. 410 00:20:52,964 --> 00:20:56,054 Men who have self-control, men who will lead the way. 411 00:20:56,384 --> 00:20:59,024 There are a lot more women who are still interested in men like 412 00:20:59,029 --> 00:21:01,394 that than there are, that are not. 413 00:21:02,714 --> 00:21:04,784 So chew on that for a while, guys. 414 00:21:04,784 --> 00:21:07,124 Let me know in the comments what you think of that. 415 00:21:09,494 --> 00:21:11,084 Like I said, I'm probably gonna get a lot of flack for the 416 00:21:11,084 --> 00:21:12,404 show, but I don't really care. 417 00:21:12,404 --> 00:21:12,854 That's fine. 418 00:21:12,974 --> 00:21:14,324 I, I can get some flack for a show. 419 00:21:14,324 --> 00:21:16,064 It doesn't bother me now guys. 420 00:21:16,064 --> 00:21:16,904 It is Friday. 421 00:21:17,729 --> 00:21:22,469 Let's share a listener review cuz you guys just blow me away with how kind you are. 422 00:21:22,829 --> 00:21:26,759 I wanna highlight listener cam N 95 C. 423 00:21:27,209 --> 00:21:29,939 Good content for all men and all people Five star Review. 424 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,999 It's easy to listen to an episode and start to think that there 425 00:21:32,999 --> 00:21:34,889 isn't things that are applicable. 426 00:21:35,159 --> 00:21:38,339 However, I found that listening to this podcast, there are topics 427 00:21:38,339 --> 00:21:41,399 that are absolutely pertinent to my life and the way the host presents. 428 00:21:41,399 --> 00:21:42,509 This topic is well done. 429 00:21:42,569 --> 00:21:43,019 Thank you. 430 00:21:43,799 --> 00:21:45,359 For example, there's no finger point. 431 00:21:46,214 --> 00:21:48,734 It's, this happened to me, it can happen to you. 432 00:21:48,764 --> 00:21:51,254 Let's fix it together type of mentality. 433 00:21:51,914 --> 00:21:55,574 This is great as it causes the listener to be more open to suggestions. 434 00:21:55,574 --> 00:21:57,164 I e, the dopamine topic. 435 00:21:58,004 --> 00:21:59,834 I look forward to listening to more in the future. 436 00:22:00,374 --> 00:22:01,814 Cam in 95 C. 437 00:22:01,934 --> 00:22:03,194 Brother, thank you so much. 438 00:22:03,404 --> 00:22:05,894 I appreciate the generous review. 439 00:22:06,224 --> 00:22:09,974 These reviews help us so much, guys and I, I can't thank you How enough 440 00:22:09,974 --> 00:22:13,064 to tell you how much they mean to me, how much they help us on the show. 441 00:22:13,069 --> 00:22:14,984 They help us get out to more fe people. 442 00:22:15,344 --> 00:22:16,544 With positive reviews. 443 00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:20,914 Apple Podcast shares my podcast out farther and wider to other listeners 444 00:22:20,919 --> 00:22:23,674 cuz they go, oh look, this must be an okay show after all, huh? 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