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What is Integrity? To start you’re NOT a Man without it!

There is a lot of debate in the world about what Men are. People arguing over masculinity being male and other stupid debates.
Today we are getting down to a core tenant of being a man. We have discussed on this channel that being male is matter of b...

There is a lot of debate in the world about what Men are. People arguing over masculinity being male and other stupid debates.

Today we are getting down to a core tenant of being a man. We have discussed on this channel that being male is matter of biological sex, being masculine is a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual traits and characteristics. Being a Man in society, being recognized as a man by other men is a matter of being male, masculinity, behavioral traits, and core principles.

You can be a boy, you can be male, but you have to work to be a man.

In this episode of The Fallible Man Podcast we break down one crucial element, Integrity. That’s right, it’s that important that it is it’s own topic today. In the show we look at

  • The Definition of Integrity
  • Why it Matters
  • Things to work on to live with Integrity

Because you’re NOT a Man without it

 

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Transcript

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,130 No, I, I didn't stutter and mess up the title. 2 00:00:02,130 --> 00:00:03,600 I'm not mincing words on this one. 3 00:00:04,110 --> 00:00:06,270 We make no apologies for being men here. 4 00:00:07,380 --> 00:00:11,460 I may not grunt, growl, or beat my chest on camera a bunch, but 5 00:00:11,460 --> 00:00:14,130 on this channel, make no mistake. 6 00:00:14,460 --> 00:00:16,680 There are some things that are non-negotiables and 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:17,790 integrity is one of them. 8 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:19,140 Celest, get into it. 9 00:00:19,830 --> 00:00:21,420 Here's the million dollar question. 10 00:00:21,900 --> 00:00:25,110 How do men like us reach our full potential and grow into 11 00:00:25,110 --> 00:00:28,740 the men we dream of being while taking care of our responsi? 12 00:00:29,100 --> 00:00:34,380 Working, being good husbands, fathers, and still take care of ourselves. 13 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:36,960 That's the question in this podcast. 14 00:00:37,290 --> 00:00:38,580 We'll help you with those answers. 15 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:41,580 My name is Brent and welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast. 16 00:00:41,580 --> 00:00:43,290 Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast, your home for all 17 00:00:43,290 --> 00:00:44,520 things, man, husband, and father. 18 00:00:44,820 --> 00:00:48,240 Big shout out to Fallible Nation in a warm welcome to our first time listeners. 19 00:00:48,629 --> 00:00:50,730 My name is Brent and I am the fallible man. 20 00:00:51,210 --> 00:00:53,670 Today we're getting down to the core tenant of being a man. 21 00:00:54,345 --> 00:00:56,955 We've discussed it on this channel that being a male is 22 00:00:56,955 --> 00:00:58,695 a matter of biological sex. 23 00:00:58,815 --> 00:00:59,655 Yes, I said it. 24 00:00:59,745 --> 00:01:00,285 Deal with it. 25 00:01:00,885 --> 00:01:03,915 Being masculine is a combination of physical, emotional, mental, and 26 00:01:03,915 --> 00:01:05,805 spiritual traits and characteristics. 27 00:01:06,465 --> 00:01:10,485 Being a man in society, being recognized as a man by other men is 28 00:01:10,485 --> 00:01:13,245 a matter of being male masculine. 29 00:01:14,729 --> 00:01:17,250 Certain betray behavioral traits and core principles. 30 00:01:17,940 --> 00:01:22,949 You can be a boy, you can be male, but you have to work to be a man. 31 00:01:23,789 --> 00:01:28,020 Integrity is a non-negotiable core tenant of being a man. 32 00:01:28,740 --> 00:01:29,369 So what is it? 33 00:01:29,875 --> 00:01:32,575 One thing I usually don't share is how impactful the podcast 34 00:01:32,575 --> 00:01:33,685 has been for me personally. 35 00:01:34,315 --> 00:01:37,345 There's a lot I love and appreciate because I have the podcast. 36 00:01:37,645 --> 00:01:39,895 I become somebody who can approach people easier. 37 00:01:39,895 --> 00:01:42,325 I have a better network of people to call upon when I need 'em. 38 00:01:42,745 --> 00:01:46,465 I get to meet new people all the time from all walks of life and all over the 39 00:01:46,465 --> 00:01:50,935 globe and connect with 'em at a depot level, and I have a voice to do what I. 40 00:01:51,660 --> 00:01:55,289 I'm always put into situations where I'm having to stretch and learn something new. 41 00:01:55,619 --> 00:01:58,289 I've really grown as a person and a professional since I started doing 42 00:01:58,289 --> 00:02:02,160 my podcast, and that was even before my show really started growing. 43 00:02:03,089 --> 00:02:06,389 I hired a company called Grow Your Show, who's our sponsor, by the way, 44 00:02:06,990 --> 00:02:08,280 and I wanted to share them with you. 45 00:02:08,699 --> 00:02:11,609 The owner, Adam, has one of the very best podcasts for teaching 46 00:02:11,609 --> 00:02:12,870 you how to be a podcaster. 47 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,880 I honestly wish I had found it sooner. 48 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,780 One thing that they've done to help me is to bring me to a much larger 49 00:02:18,780 --> 00:02:21,930 listener base so that my voice is being heard around the world. 50 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,890 There's a good chance, in fact that they helped us connect, but they 51 00:02:25,890 --> 00:02:27,870 also do editing and post-production. 52 00:02:28,380 --> 00:02:31,770 They can even help you launch and start your podcast, which could 53 00:02:31,775 --> 00:02:34,860 really help you in your business or whatever you're trying to achieve. 54 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,470 So I just wanted to give them a quick shout out. 55 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,310 I love to share great people and companies that I believe in, that I use person. 56 00:02:42,285 --> 00:02:44,984 So that's Grow Your show@growyourshow.com. 57 00:02:45,315 --> 00:02:48,734 I have a link in the show notes, and if you have a podcast or you wanna start 58 00:02:48,734 --> 00:02:52,005 a podcast or you're thinking about it, just scroll down there, click that 59 00:02:52,005 --> 00:02:54,075 link and go Work with my friend Adam. 60 00:02:54,315 --> 00:02:55,454 He's gonna treat you right. 61 00:02:56,055 --> 00:03:01,755 Miriam defines it as a firm adherence to code of especially moral artistic values 62 00:03:01,845 --> 00:03:08,385 in Corruptibility, an unpaired condition, soundness, or the quality or state of 63 00:03:08,385 --> 00:03:11,035 being complete or undivided complete. 64 00:03:12,225 --> 00:03:13,454 So let's tackle that a little bit. 65 00:03:14,024 --> 00:03:16,635 Affirm adherence to especially moral code. 66 00:03:17,325 --> 00:03:20,475 The majority of people know what's right and what's wrong. 67 00:03:21,195 --> 00:03:24,375 The people who don't seem to have dead in themselves without voice inside 68 00:03:24,375 --> 00:03:29,234 them, either by choice are by the way their world has shaped them, and those 69 00:03:29,234 --> 00:03:30,674 are really extreme cases for that. 70 00:03:31,424 --> 00:03:34,575 You don't need the Tin Commandments, the Noble Eight Full Path or the 71 00:03:34,575 --> 00:03:39,375 Dharma to understand a basic sense of right or wrong, an unpaired condition. 72 00:03:40,425 --> 00:03:43,275 This is not talking about being physically whole. 73 00:03:43,395 --> 00:03:45,195 We're not talking about people with disabilities or 74 00:03:45,195 --> 00:03:46,515 something ridiculous like that. 75 00:03:47,265 --> 00:03:48,795 Let's talk about being impaired. 76 00:03:49,335 --> 00:03:53,025 Being a liar impairs you and it impairs your credibility. 77 00:03:53,625 --> 00:03:56,385 Being unreliable impairs your credibility. 78 00:03:57,075 --> 00:03:59,625 Being hammered impairs your credibility. 79 00:04:00,105 --> 00:04:04,335 Being mentally impaired by a substance or advice impairs your credibility. 80 00:04:04,665 --> 00:04:08,325 Read that as abuse and addiction being ill temper. 81 00:04:08,864 --> 00:04:09,975 Being inconsistent. 82 00:04:10,484 --> 00:04:12,525 These things impair you. 83 00:04:13,545 --> 00:04:16,844 All these things put you in an impaired condition, so you 84 00:04:16,850 --> 00:04:18,524 better be actively working on it. 85 00:04:19,485 --> 00:04:21,045 And if you are, that's okay. 86 00:04:21,344 --> 00:04:25,965 I understand you're not perfect, but at least be working on it being complete. 87 00:04:25,969 --> 00:04:30,795 Our whole you have to sync alignment with your life, align 88 00:04:30,795 --> 00:04:34,155 your purpose, your thoughts, your actions, your choices, your life. 89 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,000 To be whole is a major journey that we're all actively pursuing. 90 00:04:39,030 --> 00:04:41,609 I'm not gonna tell you I'm completely whole, I'm working on it. 91 00:04:42,630 --> 00:04:46,169 The term integrity is often explained as being a person who will do the right 92 00:04:46,169 --> 00:04:50,250 thing when no one is watching, despite the cost of doing the right thing. 93 00:04:51,270 --> 00:04:55,560 Focusing on integrity may be the hardest and most worthwhile gift you 94 00:04:55,560 --> 00:05:00,539 will ever give yourself to live life with integrity is a challenge, but 95 00:05:00,544 --> 00:05:03,750 it'll make you the kind of man that people want to know and be close to. 96 00:05:04,455 --> 00:05:07,665 So let's get to work on it now. 97 00:05:07,995 --> 00:05:10,935 It is the Friday show, so I wanted to share a user review. 98 00:05:11,265 --> 00:05:15,555 And guys, I'm so grateful when you take the time to help us out by doing 99 00:05:15,555 --> 00:05:20,145 this one, user left us helpful content. 100 00:05:20,655 --> 00:05:23,625 I appreciate how this podcast is not pretending to be anything 101 00:05:23,685 --> 00:05:26,625 other than a person trying to help other people be their best selves. 102 00:05:27,165 --> 00:05:30,015 The information is valuable while gear towards men. 103 00:05:30,015 --> 00:05:33,015 The parenting device would apply to any parent regardless. 104 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:34,770 Definitely worth. 105 00:05:34,770 --> 00:05:38,280 Listen, thank you so much for taking the time to leave that guys. 106 00:05:38,280 --> 00:05:39,450 That helps us so much. 107 00:05:39,450 --> 00:05:41,190 It helps more people find our show. 108 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,390 And guys, if you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan, and seeking 109 00:05:45,390 --> 00:05:50,100 the life you want to live, you can find me at www dot the fallible man. 110 00:05:50,850 --> 00:05:55,110 Dot com slash coaching and schedule discovery call and work with me directly 111 00:05:55,260 --> 00:05:58,920 as a coach to help you step over that hurdle that's holding you back. 112 00:05:59,550 --> 00:06:04,950 I do short six and eight week focus plans to just tackle that goal and get 113 00:06:04,955 --> 00:06:06,990 you on your way and let you go again. 114 00:06:08,294 --> 00:06:08,865 Reach out. 115 00:06:08,924 --> 00:06:11,955 Let's talk and see if it's gonna work for you and see if 116 00:06:11,955 --> 00:06:12,885 that's the right choice for you. 117 00:06:12,885 --> 00:06:16,005 Otherwise, I have some great coaches who are friends of mine, guys, 118 00:06:16,215 --> 00:06:18,104 as always, thanks for listening. 119 00:06:18,104 --> 00:06:20,775 Be better tomorrow because of what you do today, and we'll see you on the next one. 120 00:06:21,435 --> 00:06:23,895 This has been the Fellow Man podcast. 121 00:06:24,555 --> 00:06:27,885 Your home for everything, man, husband, and father. 122 00:06:28,695 --> 00:06:30,555 Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss. 123 00:06:31,830 --> 00:06:38,160 Head over to www.thefallibleman.com for more content and get 124 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,690 your own Fallible man gear.