Episode 143: Roy Shaw part 2
How do we unlock the true potential of authentic masculinity? In part 2 of our conversation with Roy Shaw, we explore the deep spiritual and practical connections between submission, spiritual combat, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of the Church, and personal journeys, James and Father Dom tackle the challenges men face today.
Discover why Ephesians 5 calls men to lead and love like Christ and how lessons from BJJ mirror the virtues required to win the spiritual battle for our families and communities. Hear powerful insights on the importance of complementarity in marriage, breaking generational sin, and the transformative power of submission—not as weakness but as strength.
Keywords: Authentic masculinity, spiritual combat, submission, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Ephesians 5, Catholic manhood, generational sin, spiritual warfare, complementarity in marriage, Christian leadership.
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Takeaways:
- **Submission as Leadership**: True submission, as seen in Ephesians 5, involves men dying to themselves to serve their families and communities with love and leadership. This reflects Christ’s love for the Church.
- **The Power of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu**: BJJ teaches discipline, humility, and perseverance—critical virtues for spiritual warfare. "Learning to tap" mirrors the need for surrender to God's will.
- **Breaking Generational Sin**: Addressing intergenerational sin and spiritual strongholds is vital for protecting our families from hidden spiritual battles.
- **Authentic Masculinity**: Embracing strength tempered by meekness leads to righteous leadership and inspires those around us to follow Christ.
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Food for Thought:
- *"A man on fire for God will stand at the gate, ensuring Satan has no entry into his home."*
- *"Submission isn’t about losing power; it’s about unleashing the strength God has given you to serve."*
- *"Marriage isn’t 50/50—it’s 100/100. True love is about out-giving each other."*
- *"BJJ isn’t just a martial art—it’s a theological exercise in humility and perseverance."*
- *"You will know the character of a man by the countenance of his wife."*
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Take These Actions Today!
1. Build Your Foundation - Embrace a spiritual practice that strengthens your connection to God daily. Confession and prayer are critical tools in this fight.
2. Invest in Your Relationships - Whether in marriage or friendships, focus on giving 100% to out-serve and uplift others.
3. Develop Discipline - Explore practices like martial arts or fitness that train both the body and spirit to endure challenges with grace.
4. Guard Your Gate - Actively pray for protection over your family and community, breaking any known generational strongholds through intercessory prayer.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Manly Catholic Podcast
00:22 Family Life and Parenthood
01:08 The Hunger for Authentic Masculinity
03:20 The Role of Men as Guardians
04:57 The Call to Die for One's Bride
08:49 Understanding Submission in Relationships
11:28 The Dynamics of Marriage and Complementarity
13:19 The Importance of Family Structure
14:16 The Concept of Leadership and Hierarchy
17:12 Navigating Conflicts in Marriage
19:32 The True Meaning of Masculinity
21:40 The Role of Jesus as a Model for Men
22:03 The Significance of Mary in Submission
25:36 Conversion Stories and the Journey of Faith
26:11 The Experience of Confession
31:24 Struggles with Sin and Redemption
33:43 Overcoming Captivity and Embracing Action
34:43 The Power of Masculinity and Submission
35:27 The Balance of Strength and Meekness
36:18 Lessons from Personal Experience and Business Challenges
40:20 Embracing Heritage and Legacy
42:36 Channeling Warrior Bloodlines through Jiu Jitsu
45:43 The Importance of Mentorship and Guidance
49:16 Jiu Jitsu as a Tool for Self-Discipline
56:01 Spiritual Combat and the Journey of Faith
01:01:12 Wrestling with God and the Fight for Purpose
