Its easy to become defensive with each other - especially if you haven’t spent much time together lately, or have little one running around that demand your time.
Little things can get on your nerves.
Lisa often reminds me that we're on the same team.
She Describes it like this:
Imagine the thing we're up against isn’t BETWEEN US...imagine it is out IN FRONT of us, and we are standing together on the same side, against it.
This is one of the most helpful things she has said over our years of being together. (Yes, there are other wonderful things she has said, but more for another day)
This was the picture she used when we were dealing with my porn habit.
She was always on my side.
No, she didn’t like it, but it was not between us.
We are together and it is out in front of us, and we're able to battle it as a team.
Don’t let things get between you.
Imagine you and your spouse on the same team, and the difficulty out in front of you - and you two teaming together and going after it...
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