Does Having Kids Ruin Your Marriage Forever?

Have you and your spouse slipped into "angry partners at the 24/7 daycare" mode since your baby was born? Here's why relationships change after kids, and some real solutions that can help us get through it.

Amy and Margaret discuss:

• The number-one reason relationships change after a baby is born
• Helpful perspectives for maintaining sanity during early parenthood
• Small steps for building back connection with your partner

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

• Jessica Grose for the NYT: Fighting Constantly after Baby? Read This
• Doss BD, et al. The Effect of the Transition to Parenthood on Relationship Quality: An Eight-Year Prospective Study.
• Alex Vance for Verywell Family: 4 Ways To Focus On Your Relationship When the Kids Keep You Busy
• Jessica Grose for the NYT: Bickering More After Kids? Learn how to avoid the four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse.
• Christina Caron for the NYT: How to Reconnect with Your Partner After Kids
• Judd Apatow: "Who Slept Worse?"

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