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Ep 129: Bonus: Lost Files Q & A w Raphael Harry hosted by Dr. Sade

Ep 129: Bonus: Lost Files Q & A w Raphael Harry hosted by Dr. Sade
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We have loads of bonus content on Patreon, and I have decided to share one with you. Back in February (this year), I took part in the C4 Challenge with the Content Creators of Color where we had to make content every day in the month of February. This is a file that I lost early in February, hence recording all the questions all over again with possibly different answers (only on Patreon). I only saw the questions at the moment of answering. I got loads of wild questions that led to a few controversial answers. I hope you enjoy it and have immense appreciation for a longtime friend Dr. Folashade Adeyinka aka Sade the Doctor Supreme.

Order of Questions

Walter Gainer II of BossLock Media

Cesar Benoit Jnr

Evenah of MeMyddleton Show

Kari

Dr. Folashade

 

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Transcript
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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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So your name And uh,

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just in one line,

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I am Sade Adeyinka doctor Supreme of,

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you know,

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Cape Town,

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South Africa,

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whichever.

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Yeah.

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And I'll be reading questions on behalf of Walter Gainer II.

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All right,

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good afternoon.

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My name is Dr. Folashade Adeyinka, Friends call me Sade.

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I'm a medical doctor resident in South Africa and today I will be reading questions on behalf of a few other people on Raphael's podcast For the C4 Challenge.

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Starting with Walter's questions.

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Okay,

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so first question, what growth have you experienced outside of podcasting since starting your show?

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Oh,

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that's a great question from Walter.

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Um,

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the,

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the biggest growth I would say is in recognizing that not everybody will like me and not everybody needs to like me and it's fine so I can do what I need to do and enjoy doing what I'm doing.

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Yeah.

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Okay,

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Alright,

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that's good.

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So what is something you would like to try doing or talk about on someone else's podcast that doesn't fit into your show?

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What would you like to speak about?

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But it doesn't fit in your show,

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but you'd love to do it on another person's podcast where it would be better suited uh African football especially.

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Yeah,

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because not many people talk about that without jumping into EPL English Premier league colonizers.

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So yeah,

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like I like to say.

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But yeah,

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like totally just talk about African footie,

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but I might start a podcast on that too.

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We're still working on something.

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Talking to some creators on the continent.

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So we're cooking.

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That would be brilliant.

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Okay,

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so now,

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next question,

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who are your top three favorite podcasters that aren't celebrity podcasts?

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I don't have celebrity podcasters that are my favorite.

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So that's easy.

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Number one podcaster in the world is or podcasters in the world because it's a husband and wife team,

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the Black Guy Who Tips is my number one podcast,

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the best,

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the best and uh every change the majority of the changes in my life have come from listening to that podcast.

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And yeah,

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even today I was listening to them and I was like,

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man,

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I,

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I do that,

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I used,

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I used to do that and I'll try and change this.

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It's like always having a mirror,

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reflect looking into a mirror anytime I listen to that podcast and I see why I stopped fighting on the internet and I stopped doing some wild behaviors just from listening to that podcast.

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So yeah,

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number two,

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Well through The Black Guy Who Tips,

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which is another reason why it is,

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number one is because it introduced me to a whole bunch of good,

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fantastic podcasters who are mostly people of color and I will say number two will be Three Guys On who are very good friends of The Black Guy Who Tips and they know me now.

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So yeah,

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that's how much fun I am And they've given me two guests for my podcast.

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So um yeah,

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Three Guys On are comedians who take on,

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put a comedic touch on social discussions on life and who to place at number three.

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Number three will be tough,

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that stuff,

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there are a whole lot of people to place there um mm can I wanted to pick somebody from the continent?

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But yeah,

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there's some,

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some people are gonna be frowning now so I'll just go with,

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but I love,

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I love all my podcasts,

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but I think I would just go with Afro Queer podcast for number three because Afro Queer podcast,

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the stories there reminds me of my privilege.

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Even though yes,

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I suffered growing up in Nigeria,

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things were tough for me.

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Uh, there are people in Africa who no matter how much uh I went through,

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it was nothing close to those people and at the same time it's still nice to see them celebrate themselves,

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have their stories be told,

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have their joys be it in diaspora orbit back home and yes,

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it's good to know that they exist and so yeah,

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I always give a shout-out to the Afro Queer podcast.

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Alright,

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beautiful,

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that is awesome.

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So next question,

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what is an obstacle you're currently facing in your day to day life?

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I'm not making money,

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you don't make money off podcasts,

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you don't,

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I don't have,

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I only have 18 patrons,

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you need more than that,

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you need like 100 or 1000 you need patrons,

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What do you mean by patrons and people donating who support your work?

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I thought maybe you guys had like sponsors,

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I don't have.

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This is why I'm a part of a challenge.

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There's a company sponsoring this challenge.

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That's but I don't have the patrons that people say I like your work.

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I'm willing to give you money for your work.

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And yeah,

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so yeah,

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you know that's why I have coffee,

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coffee,

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you can buy me a cup of coffee.

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It's tough for people to do that when you come from a Nigerian community,

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the immigrant community that people like me.

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I like,

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I like what you're doing,

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but what buy a t shirt?

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No man,

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no,

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no,

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no,

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no.

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I'll go by this white guy's T shirt,

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you know,

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go buy this other person,

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they'll support somebody else.

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And I'm like how do you think the creative is going to survive?

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And I don't have a radio station that picks up my show and that kind of thing.

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So yeah,

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money because it's expensive.

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People like the audio quality recording from home today,

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but normally I record in the studio if I record in the studio,

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you can tell the difference.

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It's expensive.

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So yeah,

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money is uh yeah,

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I have to say money.

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You know,

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and I like to,

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I like good stuff too.

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I deserve good stuff.

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Alright,

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so next question,

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this is the final question from Waiter Gainer II tell us the story about the time you well like where you hit rock bottom and it wasn't until years later that you realized it was a blessing in disguise,

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you know,

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like a terrible moment that may have something for that.

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I think that I'll go with something podcast-related.

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Um, when you know this white labor American wasn't the first podcast that was supposed to start.

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Okay.

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Um, I started a podcast with most people who know this story.

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I started a podcast with someone who I was mentoring um most of you know, for the Nigerians.

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He was an Ibo boy who had,

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well, we had gotten close to him,

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he was like family to me and then I didn't realize he was just using me for his game and coming to the realization that you know this is somebody who I was,

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his helped him join the military.

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I was his referral for a secret clearance and um even the place where he lives now,

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he did not even tell me he put my name down as a referral.

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And one day I just got a call from the landlord like uh landlady is saying you know this guy,

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I'm not gonna throw my guy under the bus,

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right?

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You know every guy stands for his boy but his guy,

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but you're like uh why are you calling me?

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And you know this person?

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Oh okay,

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yeah,

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yeah I do,

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I do.

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And he's trying to move in here.

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We just need to know about his character.

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Yeah,

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that's good for him.

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His child almost died.

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I was the person going to the hospital doing all that,

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you know,

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and all he did was use me to buy equipment for his studio,

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he was trying to start the first podcast that we tried to do together,

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he didn't,

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he wasn't committed.

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He just tried to sabotage it all the time.

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And I was really angry When I told him,

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Okay,

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just give me the stuff that I bought because I spent almost $2,000.

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I did not even have to spend that type of money.

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I didn't need to,

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but I was so trusting that I just trusted him.

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So I went with him,

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did everything.

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I left every just what do we need to do for this project?

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Because I thought,

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you know,

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you're coming from a good place.

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So I believed everything he told me and I didn't do any research and I gave him all the money and he bought stuff that we never used.

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So when I decided we had to go separate ways and I said,

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give me giving me all the stuff that I bought back and he refused.

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His wife was insulting my wife.

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And I was like,

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okay,

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I thought I thought we were like family.

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We ended up having to,

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he called the police on me and you know,

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I had to,

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but the police.

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When I spoke to the police,

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they were like,

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yeah,

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that,

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that police police to your stuff cause I worked for the navy.

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I bought stuff for the United States government.

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So I know to keep receipts,

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you know,

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I faced with it.

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So when I showed the police all the documentation that I had,

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they were like,

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yeah,

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we'll escort you to his house.

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And long story short,

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the police were like,

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he refused to open the door and you know,

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and the police were like,

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they can't break into his house because they don't have a warrant,

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which,

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you know,

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I'm surprised it's like if they want to kill somebody,

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you know,

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that normally can do that.

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But I wasn't hoping for such I wasn't,

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the goal wasn't to kill him,

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you know.

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But in the end,

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the police told me that I should go to court and I went to court and I won because he wasn't showing up to court and he claimed to be around in Nigeria,

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whatever,

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whatever.

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He couldn't even speak English before the judge I won and he came and tried to fight me in the parking lot.

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The judge ordered him to pay me the money and only charged him for the exact amount of money I spent on equipment.

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Nothing else.

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I did not charge him one dime more but I spent more money than that and he spat on my wife's face, spat on my baby.

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My baby was about four months old then and we had a flight that day.

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So I was just trying to catch the flight old me would have probably stabbed him,

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would have,

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would have,

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would have ended up being arrested.

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There would have been something bloody coming up.

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But I knew I'd won him,

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I knew I'd beaten him because we were in front of the judge.

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He claimed he schooled in Cambridge.



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That was his claim to fame.

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Always used that every time we went somewhere,

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told people he went to school in Cambridge,

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he studied law and I beat him in court.

255
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He couldn't talk before a judge.

256
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So you know,

257
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even though I was so disappointed at the betrayal,

258
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I was really angry that period in time.

259
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Uh,

260
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just seeing how much of a mess he was when he tried to drag me to push me into fighting him and I refused and I was just laughing.

261
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I have even lost part of the video that I took that day.

262
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Um,

263
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just,

264
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he still hasn't paid me to this day.

265
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But after that I just said I'm not doing podcasting anymore.

266
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I'm done.

267
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I don't like this podcasting idea.

268
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But a few people who listen to the podcast that we did together said he sounded stupid and I was the person that they enjoyed and I shouldn't give up.

269
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I should do something.

270
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I should,

271
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there was something there for me too.

272
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You know,

273
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do that.

274
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There was a talent.

275
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So and it wasn't that guy and just because 2-3 people talk to me made me not give up and make me come back and that's how you have White Label American today.

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Perfect Yeah,

277
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awesome.

278
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That is awesome,

279
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awesome,

280
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awesome.

281
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Before we jump into the next one,

282
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I will read this,

283
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the guy who's doing the will take care of all this.

284
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So I am Raphael Harry and I am a Content Creator of Color I am taking part in the C4 challenge throughout February.

285
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I'll be creating content for each day.

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So don't forget to check out White Label American dot com,

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www dot White Label American dot com.

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290
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291
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292
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293
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294
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Give us support and you can also leave feedback in audio or written form there.

295
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Thank you for the privilege of your company.

296
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Alright,

297
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Let's do the next one.

298
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Alright,

299
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so we're moving on to Cesar Benoit.

300
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he's a junior.

301
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Okay,

302
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that's Oh yes,

303
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good,

304
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good,

305
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good.

306
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So he goes just a little ways back.

307
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First impressions of the US when you moved there.

308
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Oh well.

309
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Um,

310
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as typical young adult who thought he knew it all,

311
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you know when my mom told me to grab a winter jacket,

312
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I don't know why she would tell me to get a winter jacket from Lagos When I was flying from Lagos,

313
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I was coming,

314
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I left Lagos on October 31st, 2007, and I looked at the weather forecast before I left Lagos and I didn't realize that America is usually different.

315
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The system in America is different from the rest of the world.

316
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So Lagos was 35° and it said Virginia was 35° like the same as it is called.

317
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I didn't know that now.

318
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So I just took what I put on one light cardigan.

319
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I didn't wanna take a serious sweater, we got on the plane by the time you know I arrived at Dulles airport in D.

320
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C.

321
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And I came out of the airport.

322
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My mom sees me like "I knew this boy would not bring,

323
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I knew you wouldn't bring a coat" I brought a coat for you. I'm not gonna wear this old woman's coat.

324
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There's an old woman.

325
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Old person is not an old person.

326
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Old woman's coat.

327
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I'm not wearing this man.

328
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They gotta see this sexy body.

329
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Yeah,

330
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they got a new,

331
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there's a new boy in town.

332
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New sexy.

333
00:14:20,540 --> 00:14:24,090
I walked outside the airport building as soon as I stepped outside,

334
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the first wind blew on my face I said,

335
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Cheiiiii,

336
00:14:26,810 --> 00:14:27,960
hello?

337
00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,040
Why why why did you want to kill me?

338
00:14:30,050 --> 00:14:31,880
Give me that coat?

339
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before you kill somebody.

340
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You have never felt that degree of cold in your entire life.

341
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You know it's like 100 slaps in my face recovery like whoa no,

342
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no no no no no no no no put me on the next plane back to Lagos.

343
00:15:04,310 --> 00:15:09,560
Okay so um would you ever consider moving back home?

344
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Uh as a president.

345
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Maybe that's it.

346
00:15:15,910 --> 00:15:30,650
I okay, so why will Madrid?

347
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I knew Caesar would ask about Real Madrid because Cesar Valencia man,

348
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look at him since he's a coded Real Madrid man too by the way?

349
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Well Real Madrid,

350
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it was uh you know,

351
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I never liked Barcelona.

352
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I saw Barcelona like four years before.

353
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I never knew that a club like Real Madrid existed because back then in Benin City,

354
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they used to just show highlights and for some reason, Barcelona was dominating then and they would just be showing all the Barcelona beating somebody up beating this.

355
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I just didn't like them, I hated their uniform,

356
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so I just didn't like them.

357
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And they didn't show the table,

358
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they didn't give full.

359
00:16:09,130 --> 00:16:11,780
Um There was no breakdown,

360
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so I didn't even know if Real Madrid was doing well or not,

361
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I didn't know who was doing well just at this club.

362
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Barcelona,

363
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I did not like them.

364
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They also liked showing the 1992 Champions League final for the first time,

365
00:16:21,540 --> 00:16:32,650
Barca won the Champions League and I hated that because I was supporting Italian teams and Sampdoria lost that final to Barcelona And then the 1994/95 season,

366
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there was a highlight that was shown of Real Madrid beating um What's it called?

367
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Barcelona 5-0.

368
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Uh, I was like who's this team wearing white?

369
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How do you score five against Barcelona what can happen in football,

370
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I needed to know this team that wore white.

371
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I'm like I might like that,

372
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I just like it because then all my teams were in Italy all my teams were in France Germany,

373
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I never liked English clubs from day one.

374
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So I just yeah,

375
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that's how the love affair began now.

376
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It's no longer strong anymore.

377
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They're not paying me.

378
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So yeah,

379
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we at that point in time.

380
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Alright,

381
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beautiful.

382
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Okay,

383
00:17:16,120 --> 00:17:22,520
so who's winning the 2022 World Cup? and why Cesar, didn't we already discuss this on my podcast.

384
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Why are you gonna ask me this question again?

385
00:17:24,740 --> 00:17:25,010
Okay,

386
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He just wanted me to say Brazil or Spain because those are his countries.

387
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Ah Sorry,

388
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neither of those are winning.

389
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Okay,

390
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okay,

391
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well I'm not gonna say Nigeria,

392
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I'll just leave,

393
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you can tell it's not gonna be Brazil or Spain.

394
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I always back Brazil and my African teams at the world cup.

395
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So I'm gonna support all five african teams,

396
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whoever they are,

397
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we don't know yet.

398
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But yeah,

399
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I'm I'm just gonna say brazil,

400
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brazil.

401
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I know that it's probably a European country,

402
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but no support for Europe this time.

403
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Don't tell my wife,

404
00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,250
my wife,

405
00:18:06,260 --> 00:18:07,520
she's alright,

406
00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,810
so your favorite superhero movie?

407
00:18:09,820 --> 00:18:12,050
It doesn't have to be dc or marvel,

408
00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,960
what what kind of question is this man asking,

409
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okay,

410
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If it's not a marvel movie,

411
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then I'll go with um the old God,

412
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yeah,

413
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the Old Guards,

414
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that movie,

415
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you know,

416
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Charlize Theron ,

417
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you know,

418
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we got something going on.

419
00:18:31,740 --> 00:18:33,350
She just don't know about it.

420
00:18:33,360 --> 00:18:39,280
And yeah she just doesn't know I'm the guy that she's been missing in her life.

421
00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,480
Don't tell my wife also.

422
00:18:40,490 --> 00:18:44,050
But I'm the guy she's been missing her life all this time.

423
00:18:44,060 --> 00:18:47,740
She just needs me and she got she won't be looking for love anymore.

424
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It's all over.

425
00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:53,850
Alright okay okay, so we're done with this have been a genius.

426
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Questions are now on to Even are of MyMiddleto show.

427
00:19:05,470 --> 00:19:06,280
Okay.

428
00:19:06,290 --> 00:19:07,370
And when it goes,

429
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if you have a two-hour conversation,

430
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if you can have a two hour conversation with three people in the world.

431
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Past or present,

432
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who would they be?

433
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Past present?

434
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Um Past.

435
00:19:23,490 --> 00:19:25,690
I will say my grandfather.

436
00:19:25,780 --> 00:19:26,670
I never met him.

437
00:19:27,140 --> 00:19:30,790
He was it's claimed that he was the tallest man in my region.

438
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In a region.

439
00:19:33,740 --> 00:19:39,620
While southern Ijaw I don't know if it's the job but he died in Ghana.

440
00:19:39,620 --> 00:19:42,870
And I would just like to ask him why you got 10 wives when you die,

441
00:19:42,870 --> 00:19:44,680
why don't you know you're gonna die?

442
00:19:44,690 --> 00:19:45,490
What the hell is wrong with you?

443
00:19:45,510 --> 00:19:47,490
Getting what?

444
00:19:47,490 --> 00:19:48,480
You just tossing the coin?

445
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:49,320
Go on Nigerian.

446
00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:50,240
Ghanian Nigerian.

447
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:51,790
Ghanaian Nigerian canyon.

448
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,860
And then why do you tell your firstborn not to marry Ghanaians?

449
00:19:55,740 --> 00:19:56,850
You knucklehead.

450
00:19:56,860 --> 00:19:58,440
I mean he was a policeman.

451
00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,640
So he'll probably beat me up too.

452
00:19:59,650 --> 00:20:06,030
So there's that two will be oh my G.

453
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Barack Obama.

454
00:20:06,970 --> 00:20:08,950
Barack Hussein Obama,

455
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my homie,

456
00:20:10,940 --> 00:20:14,050
I found him and his wife because I love Michelle Obama too.

457
00:20:14,050 --> 00:20:16,560
So you know there's some knowledge I have to get in there,

458
00:20:16,570 --> 00:20:18,260
you know I have to get some knowledge from there,

459
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,730
that number three will be a man.

460
00:20:20,740 --> 00:20:44,060
Uh, Number three has to be Madiba man gotta be my diva because you know that guy went to prison and I was so ignorant my younger days but the guy came out and had the opportunity to go brutal like a whole lot of people who have ruled African nations and he didn't and he knew that he couldn't fix everything and he wasn't supposed to fix everything.

461
00:20:44,060 --> 00:20:48,270
Being a leader doesn't mean you can solve all the problems and he knew when to walk away,

462
00:20:48,940 --> 00:20:52,520
his job was to lay the foundation and then allow someone else to take over.

463
00:20:52,530 --> 00:20:55,290
So yeah,

464
00:20:55,300 --> 00:20:59,860
so that is something that I don't hear people talking about when we talk about leadership,

465
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we just talk like everybody's supposed to come to fix it whatever if you don't fix it right now you're bad.

466
00:21:04,340 --> 00:21:04,900
Like no,

467
00:21:04,910 --> 00:21:16,620
no, you're supposed to leave the next foundation for the financial the next person and I would just love to sit down with him and just tap that knowledge. He's like the grandfather that I wanted or the father I wanted in my life.

468
00:21:16,620 --> 00:21:17,860
So yeah that's the guy I need to.

469
00:21:18,730 --> 00:21:19,360
Alright,

470
00:21:19,360 --> 00:21:23,610
so next question if you were going to write a novel under a pen name,

471
00:21:23,620 --> 00:21:27,340
what would you choose as your pseudonym?

472
00:21:27,350 --> 00:21:30,430
I knew I knew as my mom would say,

473
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:38,970
come with some questions I'll be making me scratch my imaginary afro.

474
00:21:38,980 --> 00:21:39,200
You know,

475
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,050
I used to have Afro back in 2002.

476
00:21:41,070 --> 00:21:46,450
For those who don't know um let's see,

477
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,400
let's see em back in.

478
00:21:49,410 --> 00:21:50,530
You know,

479
00:21:50,530 --> 00:21:53,160
there are people in Nigeria will still do not know me.

480
00:21:53,540 --> 00:21:54,950
My name is Raphael Harry,

481
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:55,280
you know,

482
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:56,410
some parts of Ibadan,

483
00:21:56,420 --> 00:21:56,990
you know,

484
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,360
So I might go by the name,

485
00:21:58,360 --> 00:22:02,770
some of them know me by Fernando and you know when I joined facebook,

486
00:22:02,770 --> 00:22:05,520
my name was Fernando Kodjo because I was born on monday.

487
00:22:05,530 --> 00:22:07,450
So for monday.

488
00:22:07,940 --> 00:22:08,620
So yeah,

489
00:22:08,630 --> 00:22:09,620
afghani in blood too.

490
00:22:09,620 --> 00:22:10,450
So yeah,

491
00:22:10,460 --> 00:22:11,680
Fernando Kodjo I think Yeah,

492
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:15,220
I just can't keep it simple because I can't be scratching my head right now,

493
00:22:15,230 --> 00:22:17,660
Do you know?

494
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:19,230
Okay.

495
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:25,860
Oftentimes movie Sequels fall disappointingly short of the original movie by contrast.

496
00:22:25,860 --> 00:22:29,350
What do you believe is the best sequel you've ever seen?

497
00:22:30,020 --> 00:22:31,050
God damn.

498
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,550
Huh?

499
00:22:34,140 --> 00:22:34,900
Yeah,

500
00:22:34,900 --> 00:22:37,770
I know the basic,

501
00:22:37,790 --> 00:22:38,170
well,

502
00:22:38,170 --> 00:22:38,840
I won't say basic.

503
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,000
The most common answers like Godfather II,

504
00:22:42,010 --> 00:22:42,830
I can't remember that movie.

505
00:22:42,830 --> 00:22:43,890
I haven't seen anything forever.

506
00:22:43,900 --> 00:22:45,450
So I won't go with that.

507
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,110
But Captain America Winter Soldier.

508
00:22:48,110 --> 00:22:48,680
Yeah,

509
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,760
baby,

510
00:22:51,140 --> 00:22:53,230
that movie was alright.

511
00:22:53,300 --> 00:22:53,640
No,

512
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,860
Winter Soldier is good.

513
00:22:54,860 --> 00:22:55,350
It's good.

514
00:22:56,470 --> 00:22:59,230
Even Spider man Far Away from Home,

515
00:22:59,300 --> 00:23:03,480
Dark Knight is the most sequel ever.

516
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,800
That's the only reason why Dark Knight is rated because my boy died.

517
00:23:07,810 --> 00:23:08,460
That movie.

518
00:23:08,470 --> 00:23:17,760
I saw that movie after I came out of boot camp and I saw that movie and people were like a standing ovation,

519
00:23:18,190 --> 00:23:18,970
standing ovation here.

520
00:23:19,340 --> 00:23:20,650
You are all crazy,

521
00:23:20,660 --> 00:23:21,600
you are crazy.

522
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,550
You love this, crazy guy is a terrorist.

523
00:23:23,940 --> 00:23:24,710
What?

524
00:23:24,750 --> 00:23:25,690
It was so real man.

525
00:23:25,690 --> 00:23:26,520
This movie is so real.

526
00:23:26,530 --> 00:23:29,210
It ain't real that guy.

527
00:23:29,220 --> 00:23:30,550
Heath Ledger was dope.

528
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:32,380
You know it's supposed to be a Batman movie.

529
00:23:32,380 --> 00:23:35,300
Nobody remembers what Batman was doing in the movie speaking.

530
00:23:35,300 --> 00:23:37,380
Nobody remembers batman in that movie.

531
00:23:37,390 --> 00:23:41,520
I forget forgot it's a batman when you said The Dark Knight,

532
00:23:41,530 --> 00:23:46,290
all I see is just and it's like I didn't pass away.

533
00:23:46,300 --> 00:23:51,720
People don't even rate that movie as legendary but that's what that's it.

534
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,270
But that's the beauty of it.

535
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,160
I don't know I won't put that there.

536
00:23:56,540 --> 00:23:57,110
So which one?

537
00:23:57,110 --> 00:24:04,670
Spiderman two are the correct Spiderman by the way it's Spiderman Far Far from Home.

538
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:05,720
Yeah.

539
00:24:05,910 --> 00:24:08,090
Yeah because the movie,

540
00:24:08,100 --> 00:24:09,960
the movie is the greatest.

541
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,380
Okay good.

542
00:24:12,390 --> 00:24:14,420
The second was good.

543
00:24:14,430 --> 00:24:15,120
Very good.

544
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:22,080
Now if you could have 24-7 phone access to any experts in the world who would it be?

545
00:24:22,090 --> 00:24:27,050
whom would you want to call whenever you needed an answer and why?

546
00:24:28,090 --> 00:24:32,450
24 7 expert access to any expert in the world.

547
00:24:33,140 --> 00:24:44,160
Yeah, that's tough If I had that I don't know if that would have helped me when somebody was telling me to buy Bitcoin in 2010.

548
00:24:44,740 --> 00:24:48,040
Yeah, I really should have done that then.

549
00:24:48,050 --> 00:25:01,430
Yeah, that's why I'm interested in crypto 2020 11 actually yeah it was 2011 2020 11 I would have just dropped three grand,

550
00:25:01,740 --> 00:25:02,420
three grand.

551
00:25:02,420 --> 00:25:07,550
I was willing to spend three grand or something then and I was the first look at what is this?

552
00:25:07,550 --> 00:25:09,730
But I don't know the person just do it man,

553
00:25:09,740 --> 00:25:10,450
listen to me.

554
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,400
Uh maybe I would have,

555
00:25:12,410 --> 00:25:14,350
I don't know but what else?

556
00:25:14,740 --> 00:25:18,960
Well, I think I would go a little bit back if I had access to I think it would have been a travel.

557
00:25:20,140 --> 00:25:25,680
I think it would have been someone I don't know a name but there's someone who I follow on Instagram.

558
00:25:25,690 --> 00:25:36,060
I remember the first time I came by a full name but she has like a black travel club and it's mostly for black women I wish I had known about stuff like that back in the day.

559
00:25:36,060 --> 00:25:55,530
Like when I just arrived in America I had plans to travel a lot and that was gonna be my thing and then it became like I was scared to travel because I felt like oh black people don't travel that aren't going like on their own and I wanted to go and I said okay we're going to come with me and I didn't need it but come with me I could have just been going everywhere.

560
00:25:55,540 --> 00:25:59,760
I wanted to go And then I said okay let me do like every other Nigerian who I knew in the navy.

561
00:25:59,940 --> 00:26:05,000
You go back to Nigeria and go find your wife and then come and then never traveled cause I went and blew the money.

562
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,240
I wasn't supposed to blow and then I have to recover the money and all that.

563
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:18,950
So probably would have been Someone who was into doing that.

564
00:26:19,020 --> 00:26:21,530
There are many things you don't know about me.

565
00:26:21,540 --> 00:26:24,630
That's why you need to buy my book when eventually comes out.

566
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,270
Stop pre ordering all that book.

567
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,400
$500 under the pseudonym Fernando khoja.

568
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:31,960
Right.

569
00:26:32,940 --> 00:26:35,500
Yeah, we have,

570
00:26:35,570 --> 00:26:39,940
we have an afro too With the three musketeers' Mustache.

571
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:45,700
Okay, so what is the most memorable tv advert you've ever seen?

572
00:26:45,710 --> 00:26:46,520
God damn.

573
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:46,930
I don't know.

574
00:26:46,930 --> 00:26:47,770
South side.

575
00:26:48,140 --> 00:26:49,670
Honestly not watched.

576
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:50,630
I don't,

577
00:26:50,630 --> 00:26:52,920
I don't have a cable cutter.

578
00:26:52,930 --> 00:26:56,830
So netflix Disney plus you've ever seen.

579
00:26:56,830 --> 00:26:57,790
I mean you were a child,

580
00:26:57,790 --> 00:26:58,860
You grew up in Nigeria.

581
00:26:58,860 --> 00:27:00,580
You must have seen adverts as a kid.

582
00:27:00,590 --> 00:27:01,010
Okay.

583
00:27:01,020 --> 00:27:01,930
Yeah.

584
00:27:01,940 --> 00:27:02,330
Okay,

585
00:27:02,340 --> 00:27:03,120
that's true.

586
00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:03,860
That's true.

587
00:27:03,870 --> 00:27:06,590
That's true "Papillo, one day You go make us proud."

588
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,330
Pick me thank you.

589
00:27:08,340 --> 00:27:09,050
Yeah,

590
00:27:09,060 --> 00:27:11,070
that was a stupid get out of here.

591
00:27:11,070 --> 00:27:24,590
I don't like that commission fluoride where the guy wasn't the guy that was stuck on the islands and for some reason, the plane was flying by and you see a star shining from the island and it's like what?

592
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:25,340
Oh yeah,

593
00:27:26,140 --> 00:27:30,110
That became my brother-in-law because we used to say that guy's smile was like fluoride.

594
00:27:30,110 --> 00:27:34,340
We used to call him flora because it's like oh that guy's smile sparkling like man,

595
00:27:34,340 --> 00:27:35,090
you gotta use that,

596
00:27:35,100 --> 00:27:36,930
you brush your teeth 10 times without toothpaste.

597
00:27:36,930 --> 00:27:37,770
Nothing will work.

598
00:27:37,780 --> 00:27:38,490
Get out of here.

599
00:27:38,490 --> 00:27:39,280
That nonsense.

600
00:27:39,410 --> 00:27:44,170
Give me this waste of money on that question.

601
00:27:44,180 --> 00:27:45,470
Okay.

602
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:50,150
Which part of your body would you want to change or improve and why?

603
00:27:50,740 --> 00:27:55,960
Oh, gotta be my I love my dad but because I've been trying to get yeah,

604
00:27:56,940 --> 00:27:57,300
Look,

605
00:27:57,310 --> 00:28:01,240
I don't want to be doing 200 crunches a day so just give it,

606
00:28:01,300 --> 00:28:03,700
there's some magic I can do.

607
00:28:03,710 --> 00:28:15,550
I just do abs give me that without me doing the exercise and I'm fine with that.

608
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,670
Alright,

609
00:28:18,670 --> 00:28:21,670
good answer questions from Harry queen.

610
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,020
Oh sorry carry,

611
00:28:23,020 --> 00:28:24,550
cheers my bad.

612
00:28:24,940 --> 00:28:31,170
Do some carry and carry say what is the best advice anyone has ever given you?

613
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:32,850
No,

614
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,350
I think uh yeah you know.

615
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:38,360
Mhm.

616
00:28:38,940 --> 00:28:40,290
Tell your own story.

617
00:28:40,300 --> 00:28:46,400
Do not do not make a story for everybody.

618
00:28:46,410 --> 00:28:51,540
Make a story for yourself and go with it because no matter what,

619
00:28:51,540 --> 00:28:58,620
people are gonna like people don't like you whether or not people are gonna like you uh people like you,

620
00:28:58,620 --> 00:29:07,400
we like you who don't like you will not like you you can't control that so do what you want to do and go with it and stick to it.

621
00:29:07,410 --> 00:29:07,850
Yeah.

622
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:09,350
Alright,

623
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,370
what was the biggest challenge you've ever faced in life?

624
00:29:12,380 --> 00:29:13,660
And what did you learn from it?

625
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,600
Goddamn Kari?

626
00:29:15,610 --> 00:29:15,960
Yeah,

627
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,190
I thought we were BFFs.

628
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,170
You're supposed to be asking me easy questions,

629
00:29:19,740 --> 00:29:21,360
biggest challenge.

630
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,690
I don't know.

631
00:29:23,700 --> 00:29:25,850
There have been a bunch of the biggest challenges.

632
00:29:25,860 --> 00:29:29,760
But let me see at one point in time when I was in boot camp,

633
00:29:29,770 --> 00:29:30,360
you know,

634
00:29:30,370 --> 00:29:33,180
um, I said,

635
00:29:33,180 --> 00:29:35,560
you know that that day they said everybody who cannot swim.

636
00:29:35,940 --> 00:29:36,360
Yeah,

637
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,540
I was I was about to say you had to swim.

638
00:29:38,550 --> 00:29:42,600
I still remember everybody who cannot swim go to the right and you're like,

639
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:42,770
man,

640
00:29:42,770 --> 00:29:44,190
I don't know what kind of swimming,

641
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:49,220
you just go to the right and then you saw the Olympic size swimming pool,

642
00:29:49,220 --> 00:29:55,420
like you had to go jump from the highest points and swim halfway around and you know,

643
00:29:55,430 --> 00:29:59,850
and it was to simulate you jumping off the ship.

644
00:30:01,570 --> 00:30:03,800
How can you not?

645
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,260
I did not grow up in the village.

646
00:30:06,260 --> 00:30:09,840
That's my people's fault in the city all the time,

647
00:30:09,850 --> 00:30:10,100
Do you know?

648
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:11,350
And by the time I became an adult,

649
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:12,370
I wanted to stay in the city.

650
00:30:12,380 --> 00:30:15,220
I mean people are naturally water people,

651
00:30:15,220 --> 00:30:17,900
so if I had gone to the village as a,

652
00:30:17,910 --> 00:30:18,730
as a child,

653
00:30:18,740 --> 00:30:19,280
you know,

654
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,890
they don't even teach you how to just throw in the water,

655
00:30:22,490 --> 00:30:22,860
baby,

656
00:30:22,870 --> 00:30:25,810
just throw in the water and you figure you come out by yourself,

657
00:30:25,810 --> 00:30:26,270
You don't drown,

658
00:30:26,270 --> 00:30:27,770
you can drown you,

659
00:30:27,990 --> 00:30:31,850
Maybe the gods wanted you.

660
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,470
So I never got that treatment as a,

661
00:30:34,470 --> 00:30:38,200
an as a kid you know and yeah,

662
00:30:38,210 --> 00:30:48,890
so honestly I could do the swimming but it was just that year and um when I saw a white boy get up there and pass out from when it was time to jump,

663
00:30:48,890 --> 00:30:50,150
I think that gave me more confidence.

664
00:30:50,150 --> 00:30:56,260
Like what I thought white people can swim white boy.

665
00:30:57,940 --> 00:30:59,670
Yeah,

666
00:30:59,670 --> 00:31:05,220
I think it was coming to swimming and then overcoming uh what we call the dead man float.

667
00:31:05,230 --> 00:31:05,830
Yeah.

668
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,140
Okay good,

669
00:31:07,150 --> 00:31:07,390
good,

670
00:31:07,390 --> 00:31:08,080
good.

671
00:31:08,090 --> 00:31:11,670
Okay so what is your biggest accomplishment?

672
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:19,170
Oh um being irresponsible,

673
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:24,980
certified lover husband and dad I think yeah,

674
00:31:24,990 --> 00:31:32,830
yeah because I have not made it to the dictator that you know I'm still working on being a dictator so we can't go with that yet.

675
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:38,770
But yeah being at that at least my daughter tells me sometimes I love you know every time cause sometimes tells me to shut up.

676
00:31:39,660 --> 00:31:40,500
Okay,

677
00:31:40,510 --> 00:31:42,960
alright cool.

678
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:48,500
What what do you look forward to in the future in the future?

679
00:31:48,510 --> 00:32:04,550
Um, I look forward to seeing my daughter grow into a much better um person who doesn't have to become an adult to you know start realizing that there are options in life.

680
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:14,590
Like you know the way I discovered that you know I look forward to saying that I'm I might join seeing her discovering the right to say no from now right now.

681
00:32:14,590 --> 00:32:16,870
she's just three and yeah,

682
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,010
so I look forward to seeing what,

683
00:32:18,020 --> 00:32:18,550
how,

684
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:29,230
what she turns out to be and I am hoping that she turns out to be a much better version of myself and her mom and she's I know she's already smarter so I don't have any issues with anyone,

685
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:36,050
but maybe she will become the official grand Supreme Marshal of the world.

686
00:32:36,140 --> 00:32:37,200
I'm only going for africa,

687
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:37,530
you know,

688
00:32:37,540 --> 00:32:41,950
so that is girl.

689
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:42,520
Alright,

690
00:32:42,530 --> 00:32:42,920
okay,

691
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,350
so um what shows are you currently watching?

692
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,340
Mm yo South side,

693
00:32:50,630 --> 00:32:53,010
South side Oh Lord,

694
00:32:53,020 --> 00:32:54,460
if you haven't watched that show,

695
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:59,990
if you are allergic to laugh that don't watch it because that is my lifetime medicine.

696
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,270
I just watched Lord,

697
00:33:01,270 --> 00:33:04,730
I just like God that can't be good.

698
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,280
It's on HBO Yeah,

699
00:33:09,290 --> 00:33:12,660
that's on HBO on netflix.

700
00:33:12,670 --> 00:33:14,870
I haven't done netflix for for a minute.

701
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,000
I was watching um what's it called,

702
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:17,920
daughters,

703
00:33:17,930 --> 00:33:19,200
Dota's Dragon,

704
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,160
that's an anime.

705
00:33:20,540 --> 00:33:21,790
Yeah,

706
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:22,850
yeah,

707
00:33:22,860 --> 00:33:26,600
just all the university are crazy about it.

708
00:33:27,220 --> 00:33:28,250
It's good.

709
00:33:28,260 --> 00:33:28,830
Yeah,

710
00:33:29,130 --> 00:33:30,440
it was awesome.

711
00:33:30,450 --> 00:33:32,340
There's something I'm,

712
00:33:32,350 --> 00:33:35,770
I'm supposed to watch on netflix but I haven't on prime,

713
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,920
there's a new,

714
00:33:37,930 --> 00:33:49,830
I finished wheel of time and I'm seeing uh there's some the legend of Vox Machina just that's also an enemy on prime.

715
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:50,930
So yeah,

716
00:33:50,930 --> 00:33:56,460
that's what I'm watching on prime but HBO Max has Southside Cobia enthusiasm.

717
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:57,560
Yeah,

718
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,510
I'm watching the HBO max is just for me to laugh right now.

719
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,760
So those two are just killing me with laughter bits.

720
00:34:04,140 --> 00:34:05,270
Yeah.

721
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:06,350
All right.

722
00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:07,090
So,

723
00:34:07,090 --> 00:34:10,630
and that is that for carries questions now.

724
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:11,890
Back to me.

725
00:34:11,900 --> 00:34:13,010
Okay.

726
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:14,600
Do we have enough time?

727
00:34:15,460 --> 00:34:15,840
No,

728
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:16,010
no,

729
00:34:16,010 --> 00:34:16,190
no,

730
00:34:16,190 --> 00:34:17,430
I'm keeping mine very short.

731
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,500
I have just one major thing to ask that doesn't know you got to be five.

732
00:34:21,500 --> 00:34:22,180
Gotta be five.

733
00:34:22,190 --> 00:34:22,820
Okay.

734
00:34:22,820 --> 00:34:23,530
Gotta be five.

735
00:34:23,540 --> 00:34:24,140
Okay.

736
00:34:24,140 --> 00:34:25,060
So here it goes.

737
00:34:25,340 --> 00:34:27,970
So if you had a chance to go back in time,

738
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:35,540
what would you change or would you change anything at all for my life or for like Walt?

739
00:34:35,540 --> 00:34:39,360
He's my life.

740
00:34:39,370 --> 00:34:39,760
Oh,

741
00:34:39,770 --> 00:34:44,630
most definitely I will confidence,

742
00:34:44,630 --> 00:34:48,630
the self that I removed that lack of belief in myself,

743
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,270
you know,

744
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,550
like I'll just go tell myself like dude,

745
00:34:51,940 --> 00:34:52,200
you,

746
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,880
you were always leading people in Nigeria,

747
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,190
people always looking up to you,

748
00:34:55,190 --> 00:34:55,510
you,

749
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,320
you had valley.

750
00:34:56,470 --> 00:35:03,000
It wasn't until you joined the navy that you found value or you began to find value or you know,

751
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,430
even when the Navy um,

752
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,200
within four months of the Navy, I became um,

753
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,670
supervisor of my,

754
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:09,060
uh,

755
00:35:09,540 --> 00:35:10,350
my shop.

756
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,180
I was still hiding it.

757
00:35:13,180 --> 00:35:15,070
I did not officially claim it.

758
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,840
So I didn't put it upfront because that's how I didn't value myself.

759
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:23,590
So when you've grown up your whole life and nobody shows your appreciation,

760
00:35:23,590 --> 00:35:25,260
People exploit you all the time.

761
00:35:25,940 --> 00:35:26,750
You,

762
00:35:27,340 --> 00:35:30,330
you can talk trash as much as you want on social media.

763
00:35:30,330 --> 00:35:35,390
But deep inside I was somebody who lacked self-confidence.

764
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:46,050
So when people were always applauding me even when a bunch of people boycotted an award ceremony at my first command because they were angry that I did not receive the award.

765
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,920
I didn't even understand what that meant.

766
00:35:48,930 --> 00:35:55,930
It didn't mean anything to me that people were boycotting an award ceremony in the military because I did not get the award.

767
00:35:55,940 --> 00:35:57,750
And to me, I was like okay but I'm working hard.

768
00:35:57,750 --> 00:36:03,120
You know you see me work hard you know I'm good you know you know I gotta tell myself that dude it's not about working hard,

769
00:36:03,130 --> 00:36:05,810
it's about working smart and you have value.

770
00:36:05,820 --> 00:36:07,330
People look see that value.

771
00:36:07,340 --> 00:36:08,750
You see your value to.

772
00:36:09,330 --> 00:36:11,330
Alright okay awesome.

773
00:36:11,340 --> 00:36:15,150
So now next question $10 million.

774
00:36:15,150 --> 00:36:20,240
Or do you go back to the age of 15 years old which all the knowledge you have now?

775
00:36:21,330 --> 00:36:22,510
$10 million.

776
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:26,540
Is it before tax or after attacks up to tax?

777
00:36:26,930 --> 00:36:30,570
Oh man, I take Rebecca 15 years old.

778
00:36:30,570 --> 00:36:31,350
I was in a battle.

779
00:36:33,490 --> 00:36:34,720
Let me remind you.

780
00:36:34,730 --> 00:36:41,470
Do you remember we mentioned something about crypto if you go back to the age of 15 with all the knowledge you have now?

781
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,260
Yesterday?

782
00:36:42,270 --> 00:36:43,160
3000.

783
00:36:43,830 --> 00:36:48,500
Yeah way.

784
00:36:48,510 --> 00:36:50,450
I mean it's still tempting.

785
00:36:50,450 --> 00:36:56,470
Yes but I'm okay.

786
00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,240
Some people I don't want to deal with them again.

787
00:37:00,250 --> 00:37:08,160
Oh apart from the US which other countries have you traveled to?

788
00:37:08,830 --> 00:37:09,980
Not enough.

789
00:37:09,990 --> 00:37:17,430
Obviously uh Bahrain um I've touched Portugal,

790
00:37:17,430 --> 00:37:23,110
I've touched Italy I've touched Greece for a couple of hours,

791
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,350
spent a couple of hours there.

792
00:37:24,350 --> 00:37:27,050
And um Finland.

793
00:37:27,430 --> 00:37:31,050
Um um Where else?

794
00:37:31,930 --> 00:37:32,240
The U.

795
00:37:32,240 --> 00:37:32,640
K.

796
00:37:32,650 --> 00:37:37,070
Obviously in Germany uh Netherlands.

797
00:37:37,730 --> 00:37:39,330
Yeah.

798
00:37:39,340 --> 00:37:41,470
Africa is where I'm missing Nigeria.

799
00:37:41,470 --> 00:37:42,050
I was born there.

800
00:37:42,050 --> 00:37:43,390
But yeah.

801
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,150
So yeah.

802
00:37:46,130 --> 00:37:47,130
Am I missing somewhere?

803
00:37:47,140 --> 00:37:48,740
I feel like I'm missing somewhere.

804
00:37:49,730 --> 00:37:53,530
I don't know I feel like I'm missing somewhere but.

805
00:37:53,540 --> 00:37:55,050
Oh yeah Dominican republic.

806
00:37:55,430 --> 00:38:02,390
Okay and so next question which countries or which places would you like to travel to?

807
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,500
Do you still want you still plan to travel to?

808
00:38:05,510 --> 00:38:10,660
Oh, that's his uh someone had asked me something similar to this.

809
00:38:10,670 --> 00:38:13,210
I think the very first set of questions that I answered.

810
00:38:13,220 --> 00:38:16,530
One of them involved destination for next travel.

811
00:38:16,530 --> 00:38:17,540
As in South Africa.

812
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,540
And I was thinking about you.

813
00:38:20,020 --> 00:38:22,490
So yeah but not journals.

814
00:38:22,490 --> 00:38:23,040
Bulgaria.

815
00:38:23,050 --> 00:38:28,020
We have some stories about that area.

816
00:38:28,030 --> 00:38:30,700
So other places,

817
00:38:30,710 --> 00:38:33,310
I'll just pick one place from each continent.

818
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:39,180
Um, So South Africa for Africa um And South Africa.

819
00:38:39,180 --> 00:38:43,550
And um Seychelles.

820
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:52,150
I put those two for Africa for um S yeah Thailand I should have gone to Thailand when I was in Bahrain.

821
00:38:52,150 --> 00:38:57,220
It was that thing of not wanting to travel I miss out on a great deal.

822
00:38:57,230 --> 00:39:00,650
So Thailand does overdue for a visit there.

823
00:39:01,020 --> 00:39:02,480
Um Japan.

824
00:39:02,490 --> 00:39:04,050
Yes I want to go there.

825
00:39:04,060 --> 00:39:05,230
You know you can't be watching anime.

826
00:39:05,230 --> 00:39:06,540
I don't want to go to Japan.

827
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,420
Um Australia.

828
00:39:10,430 --> 00:39:15,140
New Zealand for Tiana um europe.

829
00:39:15,620 --> 00:39:17,990
Uh You know people find it strange.

830
00:39:17,990 --> 00:39:18,870
That real Madrid fan.

831
00:39:18,870 --> 00:39:19,890
I've never gone to spain.

832
00:39:19,890 --> 00:39:22,040
I'm like yeah I don't know there are so many places.

833
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,450
I'm not that hardcore so I still want to go to Spain because I know a lot about Spain too.

834
00:39:26,820 --> 00:39:34,110
Spain um uh France.

835
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:35,720
Yeah go France.

836
00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:41,030
Maybe go see my aunt over there but she might try and make me buy too much of the stuff she makes,

837
00:39:41,030 --> 00:39:42,260
she already cheated on me once.

838
00:39:42,260 --> 00:39:46,930
$600 for an outfit that I couldn't even fit into.

839
00:39:46,940 --> 00:39:48,600
She told me I got fat before,

840
00:39:48,610 --> 00:39:50,470
why why she shipped the outfit.

841
00:39:50,470 --> 00:39:51,500
Yeah like really?

842
00:39:51,510 --> 00:40:10,530
Uh, Then the Americas um brazil Argentina Colombia Colombia Federated about Colombia and Ecuador for south America uh in my backyard here um is very disappointing that I've never been to Mexico or Canada.

843
00:40:12,460 --> 00:40:13,560
Have you ever been to Peru?

844
00:40:13,730 --> 00:40:22,910
No, I have but I have yeah I have a friend who has people know one of my crutches in the navy.

845
00:40:22,910 --> 00:40:26,790
She was from Peru and she used to be like oh if you get a Peruvian woman,

846
00:40:26,790 --> 00:40:28,190
you'll never look for women again.

847
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,920
Remember I have a Peruvian sister there.

848
00:40:30,930 --> 00:40:32,430
My 1% Nigerian.

849
00:40:32,430 --> 00:40:35,430
Peruvian sister when we went to the world.

850
00:40:35,430 --> 00:40:40,830
What the mud real Madrid at the bar When I went to the club.

851
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:41,070
Yes,

852
00:40:41,070 --> 00:40:42,280
there was a Peruvian girl there.

853
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,920
That yeah.

854
00:40:44,930 --> 00:40:46,000
No she has,

855
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,550
she's 1% Nigerian.

856
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,930
Oh my sister.

857
00:40:53,940 --> 00:40:56,810
I'm like I'm 1% Nigeria?

858
00:40:58,610 --> 00:40:59,610
I forgot about that.

859
00:40:59,620 --> 00:41:02,310
Alright,

860
00:41:02,310 --> 00:41:04,380
so my last question is some,

861
00:41:04,380 --> 00:41:04,690
Yeah,

862
00:41:04,700 --> 00:41:08,220
this is going to be probably the most random question you're gonna hear in quite a while.

863
00:41:08,240 --> 00:41:10,270
Can you dance?

864
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:14,460
And if you ever had got the opportunity,

865
00:41:14,620 --> 00:41:19,250
would you go on dancing with the stars as far as they pay me?

866
00:41:19,250 --> 00:41:21,260
Why not?

867
00:41:22,700 --> 00:41:23,390
Just a show?

868
00:41:23,390 --> 00:41:24,700
I don't think you get paid,

869
00:41:24,710 --> 00:41:25,720
you're a star.

870
00:41:25,730 --> 00:41:27,710
You pay me the publicity.

871
00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:28,560
I don't know man.

872
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:29,930
But can I dance?

873
00:41:29,930 --> 00:41:30,350
Yes,

874
00:41:30,350 --> 00:41:31,020
I can dance.

875
00:41:31,020 --> 00:41:33,720
It depends on what type of dancing you require.

876
00:41:33,720 --> 00:41:36,550
If you need those ballroom type of dance,

877
00:41:36,550 --> 00:41:38,440
I will break somebody's tool obviously.

878
00:41:38,910 --> 00:41:41,720
Um but I can dance some more.

879
00:41:41,720 --> 00:41:44,340
We agree which is my traditional dance,

880
00:41:44,340 --> 00:41:49,490
my waist does not shake as uh it's not as flexible my waist,

881
00:41:49,490 --> 00:41:55,830
My hips are not as flexible as most men in my family who have seen doing the weekly dances.

882
00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:02,240
And I still blame my family for that because you know you can't be raising boys and telling them like you man is not,

883
00:42:02,250 --> 00:42:07,530
your man is supposed to be like a man and then you now get a traditional marriage and he was not seen, men,

884
00:42:07,540 --> 00:42:08,140
man,

885
00:42:08,150 --> 00:42:09,210
man is supposed to be a man.

886
00:42:09,210 --> 00:42:14,520
But how come the man is your hips can move as good as women's hips to what's going on here.

887
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:20,830
So I think that yeah we do.

888
00:42:20,830 --> 00:42:24,060
But it's like how are we supposed to learn the dance.

889
00:42:24,060 --> 00:42:24,710
That's a question.

890
00:42:24,710 --> 00:42:26,530
Like when are we supposed to learn it or how?

891
00:42:26,530 --> 00:42:26,800
You know,

892
00:42:26,810 --> 00:42:30,730
because are we supposed to be hiding in a dark room learning or you know,

893
00:42:30,740 --> 00:42:33,090
so I never got the memo of when we're supposed to learn,

894
00:42:33,090 --> 00:42:35,230
but on my own I understand doing my own thing,

895
00:42:36,350 --> 00:42:37,140
you know,

896
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,040
whatever you get.

897
00:42:38,050 --> 00:42:39,860
But the things that I do my dance my way.

898
00:42:39,860 --> 00:42:44,070
You've seen those piano videos where it's like you're just standing in one spot doing.

899
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:44,930
Yeah,

900
00:42:44,940 --> 00:42:46,900
that's the only dance you can do.

901
00:42:46,900 --> 00:42:47,980
That's really dance dance.

902
00:42:47,980 --> 00:42:48,480
The dance.

903
00:42:48,490 --> 00:42:49,430
Make it work for you.

904
00:42:49,900 --> 00:42:51,180
All right,

905
00:42:51,190 --> 00:42:51,710
Good,

906
00:42:51,710 --> 00:42:52,060
good.

907
00:42:52,070 --> 00:42:54,300
And I'm done with my questions so thank you.

908
00:42:54,550 --> 00:43:00,610
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00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,040
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919
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920
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:25,750
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921
00:43:25,750 --> 00:43:26,230
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922
00:43:26,260 --> 00:43:39,930
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