Episodes

July 12, 2022

13. Perfectly Imperfect: Conquer Your Perfectionism

Growing up in a heteronormative society, we may have learned to believe that our gay identity was a weakness. As a result, we’ve developed the need to be perfect to manage the feeling of being an outsider. In this episode, we...

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July 5, 2022

12. Queer as Folk

We previously talked about the importance of LGBTQ+ representation in TV and film and the “gay renaissance” of the 90s. While shows like Ellen and Will & Grace were groundbreaking at the time, they tended to skirt around LGBT...

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June 28, 2022

11. Overcoming Internalized Homophobia

No matter how long we’ve been out of the closet, many of us hold on to some of the antigay beliefs we were exposed to as children and turn that negativity inwards. In this episode, we’ll dive into internalized homophobia and ...

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June 21, 2022

10. Out in the Workplace

We spend approximately one-third of our lives at work, yet many of us struggle with being out in the workplace. And while many companies have tried to increase their DEI efforts, being out at work can still be uncomfortable. ...

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June 14, 2022

09. Corporate Greed & Rainbow Capitalism

Every Pride, we see corporations proudly display their rainbow logos and merchandise…but what happens to all that on July 1? In this episode, we dive into the commercialization and commodification of Pride and how some corpor...

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June 7, 2022

08. Finding Your Community

Making new friends as an adult is difficult for anyone, but for gay men, it can be even harder to find a network of like-minded peers. In this episode, we’re discussing ways you can put your authentic self out there and other...

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May 31, 2022

07. The History of Gay Representation in TV & Film

We’ve come a long way from the days of being portrayed on TV and in film as the sassy, sexless, gay best friend, but there are still improvements to be made. In this episode, we’re diving into the history of gay representatio...

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May 24, 2022

06. Gay Panic Defense

In a world where gay men already experience increased economic, emotional, and societal hardships, we are disproportionately affected by violent crimes and can be blamed for them because of our sexual orientation. In this epi...

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May 17, 2022

05. Interpersonal Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Rejection

For years, most of us gay men have repressed our authentic selves and hidden our emotions. But when the time comes for us to form a romantic relationship, we have to lower our guards and reveal those parts that we’ve hidden? ...

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May 10, 2022

04. Pop Icons and Their Gay Emotional Appeal

Why does it seem like pop icons have such an appeal to gay men? Are we simply drawn to the music, or is there a deeper emotional connection? In this episode, we’re looking into some historically significant gay anthems while ...

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May 3, 2022

03. Surviving Another Pandemic

We’re more than two years into this COVID-19 pandemic, and minority communities, including the LGBTQ+ community, have been disproportionately affected. For some gay men, the fear and response to this pandemic have been remini...

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April 26, 2022

02. From Codependency to No Dependency

We’ve talked about how gay men have a tendency to be emotionally detached due to trauma and shame. But what happens when we establish an intense romantic connection which we may become reliant upon for validation? In this epi...

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April 19, 2022

01. Hello, Trauma. It's Me, Rob.

Hello, podcasting world! Welcome to the first episode of A Jaded Gay, a podcast discussing pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of empowerment and well-being for gay men. Let’s dive into the gay t...

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April 14, 2022

Trailer

Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the ...

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