Episodes

Dec. 6, 2022

Successful People Get To Tell Their Stories Because They Actually Succeeded (STYBY 341)

Remember that all the people who used the same methods and failed do not get platforms to share their lack of success.
Nov. 30, 2022

You Do Not Need Education Or Permission To Get Started (STYBY 340)

You do not need education or anybody’s permission to achieve your goals. Do not waste time seeking approval or overthinking your mission.
Nov. 23, 2022

Other People’s Opinions Don’t Matter (STYBY 339)

As long as you are taking care of your business without interfering in other people’s business, what other people think of you doesn’t matter.
Nov. 16, 2022

We Are All Going To Have Someone Die On Us, So Prepare For It (STYBY 338)

While you should be working as hard as possible to not bring yourself an early death, be vary aware that you are not going to escape that final fate.
Nov. 9, 2022

Get Dressed Up For Success (STYBY 337)

You have more confidence when you feel good about the way you look and present yourself. It may be cliché to say, but when you think you look good, you always feel better.
Nov. 2, 2022

Create A Smaller Plan To Get Large Things Done…Eventually (STYBY 336)

One of the best ways to shake yourself out of a funk is to get a quick win. One of the ways to get a quick win is to make simple plan that is easy to complete to check off the activities.
Oct. 26, 2022

Save Your Eyes With The 20-20-20 Rule (SYTBY 335)

For every 20 minutes of working in front of a screen, look at a spot 20 feet away for 20 seconds. This program will help you reduce eye strain from long screen exposure and is easy to remember (or at least program reminders …
Oct. 19, 2022

Remember That You Are Dying (STYBY 334)

Life is about developing a legacy that will last beyond your living years, not trying to stretch the living years to an unnatural extension.
Oct. 11, 2022

Don't Confuse ‘Doing A Thing Because I Like It' With ‘Doing A Thing Because I Want To Be Seen As The Sort Of Person Who Does Such Things' (S

Trying to fit a role may mean doing things you would not normally do. Make sure that a part of your motivation is based on your wanting to do the things.
Oct. 4, 2022

Keep Going The Extra Mile (STYBY 332)

You will often find your extra effort for others wasted and not valued or appreciated. Don't expect a magic moment of clarity to spur you one, but don't just stop doing the extra either
Sept. 27, 2022

Start With An Open Mind, But Don't Be Afraid To Shut It Down (STYBY 331)

You have the right to give up on bad books, boring TV shows, dumb ideas, and people who do nothing positive for you.
Sept. 20, 2022

You Can't Always Get Better (Even If Your Work Is Bad) (STYBY 330)

There are some activities you are not meant to improve upon because there are some activities you are not meant to do because they get in the way of the activities you are supposed to work on to improve.
Sept. 14, 2022

You Have Just As Many Good Stories As Anyone Else (STYBY 329)

Regular people think their regular lives do not translate to great stories to tell others. This is never true. The problem is never the story itself. The problem is not taking enough time in the editing process.
Sept. 7, 2022

Take Ownership Of Your Own Problems (STYBY 328)

Chances are, if you had a chance to see the burdens that others you know have to carry in complete pain and detail, you might not feel so bad about your own problems and find the extra motivation to eliminate with as many as…
Aug. 31, 2022

Get Mentally Tougher (STYBY 327)

There are plenty of people in the world at large looking to leach off your personality and you personally. Even some of the people with good intentions can end up being bad for you mentally. Combat this by getting mentally t…
Aug. 23, 2022

Don’t Act So Surprised (STYBY 326)

When you find out a fact about a person that is entirely mundane, don’t oversell your excitement.
Aug. 17, 2022

Reward Yourself After Completing Challenges, Even Badly (STYBY 325)

Even a poor attempt can be an achievement when the alternative is not to make an attempt.
Aug. 10, 2022

Keep Your Desk And Workspace Bare (STYBY 324)

Treat every object as an imposition upon your attention, because it is. A workspace is not a place for storing things. It is a place for accomplishing things.
Aug. 3, 2022

You Can Counsel (Without Being A Counselor) (STYBY 323)

You don’t need special training just to be there for a person. You just need some patience and the ability to really listen.
July 27, 2022

Events Can Hurt Us, Not Just Our Perceptions Of Them (STYBY 322)

It’s good to build resilience, but sometimes it isn’t your fault if something really gets to you.
July 20, 2022

Remember That You Are Dying (STYBY 321)

No one can live forever, including you. So celebrate the joys of life whenever you can, and do what you can to not die.
July 13, 2022

Marie Kondo Is Still Not Coming To Save You (STYBY 320)

Start with throwing one thing away, clearing one small space, or cleaning one small room. Declutter your physical space to help declutter your mind.
July 6, 2022

Call More (STYBY 319)

Call your parents when you think of them and make the time to tell your friends that you love them.
June 29, 2022

Compassion (STYBY 318)

A noun, meaning, “sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.” Now that you know what compassion is, I ask you to go out and show the world a lot more of it.