I have been in the same relationship for 16 years, with another woman (now my wife) and thankfully the experiences that you’re sharing are nothing that I can relate to with this relationship.
But I appreciate you sharing because I’m sure someone can relate, additionally, I want to share with you, don’t give up hope.
I met my wife when I was 26, I was struggling with my own identity, much less being able to have a successful relationship. But after meeting her we just clicked, we are complete opposites. In fact she reminds me a lot of you. Many people in our early years thought she was very hotheaded, but me I understood that she just is more sensitive and has her guard up, and she’s not gonna show just anybody how sensitive she is. I am honored to be the person that she shares that side with.
Thank you for sharing your story, keep sharing so that you can heal and when your ready find someone who will understand you and who will do anything for you. The way I would do anything for my wife. And I would rather die than betray her!
You know you mentioned something about money, I actually take care of all of the money… That said if my wife chose to leave me today I would make sure that she had whatever she needs. Because whether I’m mad at her or not she has a right to be taken care of, and she has contributed to that money.
I hope someday that you find someone worthy of that kind of trust, even if you choose to keep things separate for very logical and practical reasons. Someone who will make you their everything, because you are special Lala, and you deserve that!
If you can make it to Chicago on your tour, me and my wife will be there, VIP style, if not I understand I hope we catch you on the next tour!