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Dec. 29, 2023

BEST OF: Ryan Wexelblatt on How To Help Kids With ADHD Succeed

Ryan Wexelblatt, aka the “ADHD Dude,” coaches kids and parents about executive dysfunction. Ryan offers helpful perspectives and useful tips for creating scaffolding for our kids with ADHD, without becoming overly accommodating.

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Dec. 27, 2023

BEST OF: Things Change, and That's OK! How Parenting Changes as Kids …

Our kids get older, and so do we. That’s Just Facts. And that our relationships with our kids will therefore change as they grow? Truth. But does that mean you have to therefore cherish every moment, because it’s all less wonderful each day? Nope.

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Dec. 22, 2023

BEST OF: Lisa Damour Tells Us How To Deal With Teenagers' Big Emotions

Powerful emotions in teenagers are a feature, not a bug. But when kids are dysregulated it can feel like something parents are supposed to fix. Dr. Lisa Damour, author of THE EMOTIONAL LIVES OF TEENAGERS, tells us how to become "safe containers."

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Dec. 20, 2023

BEST OF: The Smallest Hills We'd Die On

The book is always better than the movie. Brunch is dumb. And wind chimes are mean. We asked you about the smallest hills you have died on—the petty grudges you just won’t wave the white flag for no matter what. And we came across some fightin’ words.

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Dec. 18, 2023

BEST OF: Family Holiday Traditions: The Good, The Bad, The Elf on the…

There are some holiday traditions families really treasure. There are others moms dread but feel obligated to continue. Here’s how to create a holiday season that works for everyone- including the default parents who do most of Santa’s heavy lifting.

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Dec. 15, 2023

Fresh Take: Amy Palanjian of Yummy Toddler Food

When our picky eaters turn up their noses at dinner, we're not failures as parents. Amy Palanjian, author of DINNERTIME SOS, explains how to take judgment and anxiety out of the dinnertime equation when feeding toddlers and kids.

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Dec. 13, 2023

The Most Useful Parenting Tips We Learned in 2023

Here are some of our favorite parenting tips and takeaways we learned in 2023, from experts and listeners and mom friends everywhere.

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Dec. 11, 2023

HOLIDAY BEST OF: Handling the Holiday Craziness as a Mom

Each December 25th, most moms look at a living room full of scattered wrapping paper and vow to do less next year. But can you really downshift on how much Santa brings once a baseline has been established?

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Dec. 8, 2023

Fresh Take: Ed Center of Village Well Parenting

How does the wisdom of our cultural traditions inform the way we parent, for better and worse? Ed Center, founder of Village Well Parenting, explains how generational trauma informs parenting and how we can navigate it.

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Dec. 6, 2023

Decision Fatigue- And Why It's Especially Bad For Moms

The more decisions you have to make, the more difficult it can become to make them. Decision fatigue is cumulative, and when it happens, we get frustrated more easily. Here's how to make fewer, better decisions.

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Dec. 4, 2023

HOLIDAY BEST OF: Susan Katz Miller on Interfaith Families at the Holi…

The holidays are already intense, but if your family is interfaith, it can ratchet up the pressure for perfection times two. Guest Susan Katz Miller, author of THE INTERFAITH FAMILY JOURNAL, tells us how to draw a “sacred circle” around what matters.

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Dec. 1, 2023

Fresh Take: Amanda Montei on "Touched Out"

Is being "touched out" just par for the course when you're a mom, or is there something deeper at work here? Amanda Montei, author of the new book TOUCHED OUT, discusses this concept in a broader cultural context.

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Nov. 29, 2023

What Fresh Hell Is the Holiday Season?

The holiday season has unpleasant surprises around every corner. The Christmas gift we forgot to buy! The too-short wrapping paper! The three parties in one night! Here are our best worsts of this time of year.

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Nov. 27, 2023

HOLIDAY BEST OF: It's the Most Everything Time of the Year

According to a recent study, 41% of men strongly agreed that they can relax during the holidays. Only 27% of women felt the same. It’s the most everything time of the year, and we’re doing– and feeling– all the things.

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Nov. 24, 2023

Fresh Take: "The Girl Next Door Podcast" on Setting Boundaries

What does it look like to successfully set and maintain boundaries, whether it's with our toddler or our in-laws? Erica Ladd and Kelsey Wharton, co-hosts of the The Girl Next Door Podcast, are the queens of boundary-setting.

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Nov. 22, 2023

Does Having Kids Ruin Your Marriage Forever?

Are our relationships with our partners ruined after kids enter the picture? Partnerships change when our kids are born, but those changes aren't forever, and fixing it doesn't have to begin and end with "date night."

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Nov. 20, 2023

HOLIDAY BEST OF: The Holiday Creep

Why does it seem like the holiday season starts earlier and earlier every year? And how do we navigate the many obligations and traditions thereof without crying into our creamed white onions?

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Nov. 17, 2023

Fresh Take: Nicole Walters on "Nothing Is Missing"

When we're struggling, we tend to focus on what we lack rather than our considerable strengths. Nicole Walters, author of the memoir NOTHING IS MISSING, invites us to view ourselves with a sense of abundance.

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Nov. 16, 2023

DEEP DIVE: Highly Sensitive (and Under-Sensitive) Kids

When we first hear about highly sensitive kids– or sensory seekers– it can provide a profound connecting of dots for things that might have baffled us in the past, and a path to effectively address the otherwise confusing behaviors that might ensue.

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Nov. 15, 2023

Things That Should Be Fun... But Aren't

Nerf guns. Beach vacations. Corn mazes. Parades. What do these things have in common? They really should be fun—but aren't.

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Nov. 13, 2023

Ask Margaret: How to Foster Relationships with Grandparents

How can we encourage our kids to connect with their grandparents in meaningful ways, and how much control over that relationship do we really have?

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Nov. 10, 2023

Fresh Take: Mother Gopi Gita on How Kids Become Leaders

How can good leadership and good parenting intersect? Mother Gopi Gita, author of the new book LEADERSHIP PARENTING, explains how the spiritual traditions of India informed her leadership parenting model.

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Nov. 9, 2023

DEEP DIVE: When the World Moves Too Fast for Our Kids

Are our kids growing up more slowly than we did? Is that necessarily a bad thing? Can we encourage our late bloomers to pick up the pace?

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Nov. 8, 2023

Growth Mindset: What Is It? Does It Matter?

What exactly is growth mindset—and is it the crucial ingredient to our kids' future success that we've been told it is? We discuss the latest research about growth mindset and why it matters.

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