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Dec. 31, 2021

BEST OF: Katherine May on "Wintering"

Katherine May is the author of WINTERING: THE POWER OF REST AND RETREAT IN DIFFICULT TIMES. In this episode, which originally aired in December 2020, May explains how we can apply the lessons of nature’s actual winters to our metaphorical …

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Dec. 29, 2021

2021: The Year in Review

We look back on the year that was and discuss the episodes that were our favorites: the ones that surprised us, taught us the most, and made us laugh. Check the show notes for the one-click playlist of all our …

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Dec. 27, 2021

Ask Margaret - How Do I Handle Kid Crushes?

When our kids tell us about their elementary school crushes– or we find out thanks to notes in their backpack– it can be exciting, confusing, or hilarious. Here’s how to talk about crushes with our younger kids and why it …

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Dec. 24, 2021

BEST OF: Carla Naumburg

Kids are hardwired to push our buttons. We’re hardwired to freak out when they do. Carla Naumburg, author of HOW TO STOP LOSING YOUR SH*T WITH YOUR KIDS, explains in this "Best Of" episode how managing our triggers can help.

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Dec. 22, 2021

BEST OF: Holiday Fails

We asked our listeners to tell us their holiday worsts, and in this "best of " episode we discuss them all, plus a few of our own. Think your holiday season has been a little crazy? Hold our eggnog.

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Dec. 20, 2021

Ask Amy: Tips for Flying With Little Ones

Flying with little ones this holiday season? We’ve got tips for what to pre-load on your phone, how to get little ones to keep masks on, and how to decide whether you want to get on the plane first– or …

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Dec. 17, 2021

Fresh Take: Rashida Dinehart on Normalizing Grief

Being a parent when you’ve lost your own parent is a special grief journey. Rashida Dinehart of The Grieving Mamas Podcast tells Margaret how her own stages of grief have progressed, and how she says moms on this journey can …

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Dec. 15, 2021

It's the Most Everything Time of the Year

According to a recent study, 41% of men strongly agreed that they can relax during the holidays. Only 27% of women felt the same. It’s the most everything time of the year, and we’re doing– and feeling– all the things.

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Dec. 13, 2021

Ask Margaret - Splitting Time at the Holidays

When we have to balance time with our partner’s family and our own at the holidays, it gets difficult to make everyone feel loved and appreciated. The key to making it work? Establishing clear expectations ahead of time, and then …

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Dec. 10, 2021

Fresh Take: Relationships with Danielle Silverstein of "Marriage and …

Danielle Silverstein, along with her husband Adam, host the podcast Marriage and Martinis . Their show presents a real, authentic marriage at its core, with all the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ...

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Dec. 8, 2021

Well, That Backfired (Part One)

We asked our listeners: What's something you tried thinking it would go great, and instead it spectacularly backfired?

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Dec. 6, 2021

Ask Amy- My Kid Gags At Foods He Used To Like!

If kids already have limited food repertoires, seeing them reduce their list of acceptable foods is very stressful. What should a parent do when her child’s picky eating actually increases with age? How can parents push back without power struggles?

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Dec. 3, 2021

Fresh Take: Rachel Nielson of "3 in 30" Podcast on Why Practicing Gra…

Rachel Nielson hosts 3 in 30 Takeaways, a podcast for moms who want to love motherhood as much as they love their kids. She tells us how noticing the "flecks of gold" in her life has actually changed her parenting– …

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Dec. 1, 2021

Does Having Kids Make Us Happy?

Studies show an uncertain connection between becoming a parent and increased pleasure, so asking whether having kids makes us happy is complicated– and might not be the point. What are parenting’s rewards? What can we do to raise happiness levels?

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Nov. 29, 2021

Ask Margaret - Will I Always Be This Tired?

When you have little kids feeling tired can start to feel like a permanent state. Kids are master energy-sappers and with, say, a baby and a toddler at home it's easy to feel like being rested is a thing of …

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Nov. 26, 2021

BEST OF: Dr. Edward Hallowell on the New Science and Essential Strate…

In this “Best Of” interview Dr. Edward Hallowell, co-author of ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction--From Childhood Through Adulthood, explains the growing understanding of brains with “variable attention.”

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Nov. 24, 2021

Might Seem Crazy. Works for Me.

We asked our listeners to tell us all the things that others might call crazy but which totally work for them . From packing the laundry to eating the same lunch every day for five years to toothbrushes in the …

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Nov. 22, 2021

Ask Amy - Can I Really Love My Second Child As Much As The First?

When moms have a second baby it’s common for them to fear how it will change their relationship with their first child. And whether they’ll have enough love to give them both. Trust us: you will. And you’ll give that …

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Nov. 19, 2021

Fresh Take: Zibby Owens on What Moms Don't Have Time For

Zibby Owens is a podcaster, writer, publisher, and mom who doesn’t have time to exercise, see friends, sleep– or even get sick. Her new anthology MOMS DON’T HAVE TIME TO HAVE KIDS offers 49 essays on what most moms don’t– …

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Nov. 17, 2021

Taking Care Of Our Parents (And Our Kids)

Half of adults in their 30s and 40s say they handle some of their parents’ caregiving, even if it’s mostly logistical or financial. When you’re also taking care of your kids, it’s a lot. We talk “sandwich generation” stress and …

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Nov. 12, 2021

Fresh Take: Tiffany Jenkins on Mom Anxiety and Keeping It Real

Tiffany Jenkins is as hilarious as she is honest. She’s a comedian, blogger, author, podcaster, and mom who uses her platforms to help and inspire others struggling with motherhood, mental health, and addiction, and those who just need a good …

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Nov. 10, 2021

Things We Hate

From making doctors’ appointments, to “just a reminder” emails that are definitely first notices, to book fairs, to eternally elusive rain boots on a wet morning, here are a few of the things that we (and our listeners) really hate.

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Nov. 5, 2021

Fresh Take: Claire Lerner- Why Is My Child In Charge?

Margaret and Amy interview Claire Lerner, a child development specialist with more than 30 years of experience, and author of Why Is My Child in Charge? A Roadmap to End Power Struggles, Increase Cooperation, and Find Joy in Parenting Young …

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Nov. 3, 2021

Why Does Everything Feel Hard Right Now?

We’re so used to being stuck at home that the thought of social stimulation has become somewhat anxiety-arousing. When did that happen? How can we turn that story around and find our way back to the friends and connections we’ve …

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