Episodes

Nov. 7, 2018

Small Tiny Actions Reap Grand Results For Those Who Receive Them (STYBY 128)

It's always great to have a reminder that your actions, regardless how small, make a difference.
Oct. 31, 2018

Learn Lessons From The Mishaps & Tragedies Of Others (STYBY 127)

As grim as it may sound, there is a great deal of wisdom to be found in the observations of other’s misfortunes.
Oct. 24, 2018

Common Wisdom Should Be More Commonly Followed (STYBY 126)

If clichéd wisdom is mostly simple truth most people should know well, why don’t most people take the effort to follow it?
Oct. 16, 2018

Do A Better Job Of Defining A Successful Outcome (STYBY 125)

Just yielding a harvest does not make a successful farm. Know how much output you are supposed to have when the work is done.
Oct. 10, 2018

The Case For Being A Pack Rat (STYBY 124)

Being a hoarder is not okay, but holding on to things that have great meaning to you that make you question the space you give them is perfectly fine.
Oct. 2, 2018

It’s Okay To Be Selfish (STYBY 123)

The instruction to put your oxygen mask on first is not about being selfish. It’s about taking care of yourself first so that you have the ability to assist others.
Sept. 25, 2018

Why Critics Are Not Automatically Haters (STYBY 122)

Just because a person hates your product, doesn’t mean they hate you and all you personally stand for.
Sept. 18, 2018

Confusing Value With Cost (STYBY 121)

A price tag is not the best gauge of an item’s value. The utility it provides offers a better perspective of worth.
Sept. 11, 2018

The Struggle That Really Isn’t (STYBY 120)

Are you making a mess of a situation that would be fine if you left it well enough alone?
Sept. 4, 2018

Are You Supporting Your Supporters? (STYBY 119)

You need people willing to make sacrifices in order to support your mission. How willing are you to make similar sacrifices for those who take up that challenge? A lead in for this week's Ten Minute Life Lesson podcast.
Aug. 28, 2018

Forgive Them, Even If They Really Are Not Sorry (STYBY 118)

Accept the false apology, and move on your life. Don't let the bitterness that lives in their hearts infect yours.
Aug. 21, 2018

Question Your Windows Of Opportunities (STYBY 117)

Whether you always seem to be within reach of a new opportunity, or your opportunities are lacking, you should periodically evaluate exactly how lucrative your opportunities are.
Aug. 14, 2018

Proper Pacing Will Help You Work Through Impossible Workloads (STYBY 116)

When only you can do the work on a massive task to get the job done, don't try to tackle it all at once. Pace yourself, and your expectations of a job well done.
Aug. 7, 2018

. . . Except When You Don't Have The Answers (STYBY 115)

There is a caveat to my 'you already have the answers' theory that becomes painfully apparent when you find yourself out possibilities. Here is what you do in these scenarios.
July 31, 2018

You Already Have The Answers . . . (STYBY 114)

One of my earliest forays into personal development was an email newsletter. The simple tenant it tried to prove, you already have the answers you need inside of you, as long as you are asking the right questions.
July 24, 2018

Put Away Your Old Trophies (STYBY 113)

Those shiny reminders of past times can become unexpected anchors to a past life that you need to move on from. Clear the clutter and put away the old trophies.
July 17, 2018

Anything Is Possible, But May Not Be Feasible (STYBY 112)

Sheer will and determination can topple just about any obstacle. But some obstacles are not worth the massive effort needed to attempt to topple.
July 10, 2018

Stop Waiting For Them to 'Get It' (STYBY 111)

I talk often about the people who need to be left behind in order for you to make progress. It's time for you to take that message to heart.
July 3, 2018

STYBY #110 - Don't Make Promises You Don't Intend To Keep

Save yourself the trouble of making an excuse and save them the larger disappointment. Don't agree to something you have no intention of fulfilling.
June 26, 2018

STYBY #109 - Don't Apologize

Next time you are in the act of committing some wrong towards a person, do not make an effort to stop and apologize. Just right the wrong on the spot.
June 19, 2018

STYBY #108 - Who Really Is To Blame?

It is easy for us to get so wrapped up in our frustrations that it becomes easy to point a finger at the source of your distress. Except they may not be the true source of your distress.
June 12, 2018

STYBY #107 - Embrace The Real You

Never try to excuse your faults as 'keeping it real,' but don't totally discount their role in influencing your strengths and balancing out your personality.
June 5, 2018

STYBY #106 - Do What You Can When You Can

You will never have a perfect time and rarely a good time to act. But the opportune time is whenever you have the energy and capacity to work a task.
May 29, 2018

STYBY #105 - Embrace Transitions As Needed Endings & New Beginnings

Five weeks after the end of the Ten Minute Life Coach podcast, I see the potential of this podcast to extend its legacy.